petak, 1. srpnja 2022.

July 2022 Twitter

 Jul 1

If you are kind, loving person, treat people exceptionally well, that you have right to demand respect. You literally have the right to be confident knowing you will not tolerate people disrespecting you, speaking in any kind of way.
YT kind but confident

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/G7wGvQJGawI?feature=share

Jul 1

To be angry in the right way - that is not easy.
Aristotle

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Jul 1

They repress that anger – they don't repress only anger, they repress cortisol in their body, now they have trouble concentrating, other physical symptoms – agitation, pain. It seems like it is working, but it isn't.
YT Tim Fletcher

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R0Dvt_06xg

 If child never expresses anger, that is very concerning thing. Something else is going on there that is not healthy, causing them to suppress all of that anger.
YT Tim Fletcher

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R0Dvt_06xg

 

There are other ways to express anger that does not result in people getting hurt. There are other options in expressing anger that do not evolve hurting other people.
YT Tim Fletcher

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R0Dvt_06xg

If you give into tantrum you just taught your child to use anger and tantrums to manipulate you. Now you fed a monster. Next time they have tantrum it will be more difficult to stop it. In their mind it will work  again.
YT Tim Fletcher

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R0Dvt_06xg

If they lash out in hurtful way, there needs to be a consequence that is appropriate. It is not about I will hurt you, that is punishment, that will not help. Child needs to realize that decisions they make have consequence tomorrow.
YT Tim Fletcher

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R0Dvt_06xg

Don't just make focus on their anger. Keep praising their good stuff. Give them a lots of praise for the other things in their life that they're doing well, it is important.
YT Tim Fletcher

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R0Dvt_06xg

Jul 1

We lock the care to keep stuff safe, we have lock on doors -this is stating this is my home, personal space and you cannot enter unless invited. These boundaries - we don't give second thought to it, they come very natural.
YT Petra Van Deijl

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH7OqAC2IVY

 Jul 1

With toxic person-how to protect our mental state? When we haven't been thought how to set boundaries we have no clue where to start. When we are not taught this as children, we reproduce this behaviour as teens and adult.
YT Petra Van Deijl

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH7OqAC2IVY

Jul 1

It's key that you identify where your boundaries lay. When it comes with narcissist, they are not invested in accommodating you, making you feel comfortable, respecting your boundaries. They have allergy for happiness, joy, piece.
YT Petra Van Deijl

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH7OqAC2IVY

Understand that narcissist will never respect your boundaries because there is no pay off to them, nothing to gain. They want to destroy happiness, joy, peace. Trust your body, intuition – feeling showing in body is clue your boundaries have been violated.

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH7OqAC2IVY

It is up to you stating that boundary, letting the other person know even though you know they will not respect your boundary when it comes to toxic people. But you need to state that boundary and be willing to do what it takes to maintain that boundary.

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH7OqAC2IVY

Jul 1

No one ever said it would be easy
There’s no treatment
When you’re down you gotta get up
But don’t stop dreaming, dreamer
DI-RECT - THROUGH THE LOOKING GLASS 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYsEHg03OqQ

Jul 1
It is better to lead from behind and to put others in front, especially when you celebrate victory when nice things occur. You take the front line when there is danger. Then people will appreciate your leadership.
Nelson Mandela

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Jul 1
The most certain sign of wisdom is continual cheerfulness
Michel de Montaigne

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Jul 2
Meaningful friendships and relationships actually are a great indicator of our health.
Hour of Power

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOYjTmVx0us

 
Jul 2
Jonathan Haidt wrote whenever we're posed with a moral problem the question we unconsciously ask is not what's right or wrong, the question we ask is what does my tribe say (political party, family, church).
Hour of Power
https://youtu.be/NOYjTmVx0us

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 Jul 2
If you have high IQ, you're really good at finding post-hoc arguments to support your feelings of truthiness.
Jonathan Haidt

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Jul 2
If you grow up in a WEIRD society, you become so well educated in the ethic of autonomy that you can detect oppression and inequality even where the apparent victims see nothing wrong.
― Jonathan Haidt, The Righteous Mind
https://youtube.com/watch?v=V49ZuOb_Hr0
 

 

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Jul 2
It is all just fake and phony. We start pretending when we're kids, acting out movies. It's child's play. I think we should just plunge in and have fun and experiment.
YT Carol Burnett Discusses The People She Won't Work With | The Dick Cavett Show

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V49ZuOb_Hr0

 Jul 2
body, feeling, perception, mental constructs and consciousness are not yours. This is not ourselves, it is not us.
Samyutta Nikaya III.34

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 Jul 2
Every one of us has 1000s of little people inside of us. Some of them want to come out and be wild, and some want to be sad or happy, or even just go dancing. That's why we have so many urges at so many different times.
STAR TREK THE NEXT GENERATION, "Cost of living"

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Jul 2
The more energy we dumped into shields, it increased impact.
STAR TREK TNG "Drop the shields" - S5E11
https://youtube.com/watch?v=RHoXUP804vg
 

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 Jul 2
Clair-sentient, means clairsensing, I'm individual who senses feelings and emotions with spirit people picked from the their side, I'm sensitive, I can pick up their thoughts and I feel their emotions when they come through.
James Van Praagh

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Jul 2
What Skinner was saying is that we are in many ways like pigeons - that we are the product of the numerous interactions we have with our environment, whether it's falling in love, the job, the friends you make...
BBC The Story of Science 6of6 Who Are We

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

 Jul 2
all these things which appear to be decisions are actually the product of things that have happened to us in the past.
We can no more exercise free will than this pigeon can decide...
BBC The Story of Science (6 of 6) Who Are We?

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

Jul 2
Darwin's most important book Expressions of emotions in men and animals. This was one of the first books ever to include photographs. It features people in states of distress. It examine in microscopical detail. It features Darwin grief muscle.
Who Are We?
https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q
 

 Jul 2
One condition in particular was puzzling doctors. They called it hysteria: violent fits. Charcot begun to use new approach: hypnosis. Charcot found that he could deduce and relieve symptoms of hysteria using hypnosis.
The Story of Science: Who Are We?
https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

Jul 2
Charcot's observations of hysteria led him towards the radical conclusion. Perhaps symptoms were not signs of pathological disease. Perhaps they were caused by emotions that patients themself were not even aware they were feeling: unconscious mind.

https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

Jul 2
It was Skinner's passion for gadgets, for things he could adapt and change that let to his greatest invention: operant conditioning chamber or Skinner's box. Revealed to something disturbing about human conditioning.
Who Are We?

 https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

Jul 2
Operant conditioning chamber or Skinner's box experiment showed how easily behaviour could be learned. Even manipulated. By reinforcing that behaviour. We could change human behaviour for better by changing their environment
The Story of Science:Who Are We

  https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

Jul 2
In us reason and emotions are frequently at war. Thoughts, passions, memories and behaviour emerge from depts. Brain scan reveals many parts of brain operate outside of our conscious awareness.
The Story of Science: Who Are We? (6 of 6)

 https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q


Jul 2
We have these models running in our head and they have been constantly tested against the evidence of our senses. This process of building models in our heads is happening the minute we are born. Constantly learning by testing everything around.
Who Are We

 https://dailymotion.com/video/x66jp3q

Jul 2
The consequences of an act affect the probability of it's occurring again.
B.F. Skinner

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Jul 2
Overjustification Effect:
person see the reward, rather than intrinsic interest, as the motivation for performing the task

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Jul 2
In operant conditioning organisms learn to associate their own actions with consequences. Reaction is not automatic, it involves thought.

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Jul 2
Avoidance prevents a stimulus.

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Jul 2
Changes in behavior are the result of an individual's response to events (stimuli) that occur in the environment.
The theory of B.F. Skinner is based upon the idea that learning is a function of change in overt behavior.

https://www.instructionaldesign.org/theories/operant-conditioning/

 Jul 3
Receive it in faith. Take the next step, “thank you”. The way you pull it out of the unseen into the seen is by faith. You can't pray for victory and talk defeat. There is Knowing.
Joel Osteen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSN_JUrvFlw

Jul 3
Hollywood sign in 1978.

"In the 1970s, the sign reached its most dilapidated state"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hollywood_Sign#Deterioration

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Jul 3
Man must first think for himself before he can believe.
Zarathushtra
https://youtube.com/watch?v=uQAQIGIv3r4
 

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 Jul 3
People are like dirt. They can either nourish you and help you grow as a person - or they can stunt your growth and make you wilt and die.
Plato

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 Jul 3
Generally speaking, if a human being never shows anger, then I think something's wrong. He's not right in the brain.
Dalai Lama

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Jul 3
Now I'm governor, I'm not much else but I am honest. And I've done my duty and everybody's happy. But me. Most of the time I feel like idiot. And all the time I'm scared.
Benson, pilot S1 E1

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Jul 3
It is sometimes supposed that all secret societies engage in commerce with evil spirits. However, the great historically significant secret societies, such as the Rosicrucians and the Freemasons, acknowledge the dark side only in order to combat it
The secret history of the world

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Jul 4
You would like to control something gone berserk, destructive. Why would you like to control something that is creative, competent, capable, why would you control it? Would you control your intelligence?
YT Sadhguru

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QO0ejiLRDTM

 Jul 4
Don't try to control your thoughts. You need to liberate from this, liberate from conditions added on.
Control means hold it within certain limits. But you become who you are in the world only because you cross the limits.
YT Sadhguru

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QO0ejiLRDTM

Jul 4
Avoiding predators is a very important problem from the genes’ point of view.
Predator-avoidance module detect possible predators, distinguish those that were real dangers from those that weren’t, and trigger avoidant or defensive behaviours.
'Introducing Evolutionary Psychology'

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 Jul 5
NASA says two large craters were formed when a mysterious rocket crash-landed into the moon. But they're not sure where the rocket came from.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=rKvggqDPfUg

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Jul 5
False alarm causes you to waste energy by running away from something that is not in fact a danger. A slow detector, however, can cause you to be eaten. So it is better to have a fast system that occasionally gives false alarms than a slow system that is always accurate.
D. Evans

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Jul 5
Safety is not the same as comfort.

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Jul 5
Recognize small failures early and you can usually reduce the size and impact of future large failures.

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Jul 5
- Mistakes are not tolerated.
- Your philosophy inspire us to avoid completing anything.

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Jul 5
Ruinous Empathy is not giving feedback because you're worried it will stress them out.

Ruinous Empathy doesn't let the person know what they need to do better, which makes it impossible for them to improve.

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Jul 5
You may be wrong in your opinion but when you don't share that opinion, you don't give the other person the  opportunity to correct you.
Kim Scott

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Jul 5
When Teddy bear was made, they found something wrong with him and threw him away like a piece of rubbish into an old dark storeroom. Then from outer space, a Spotty man brought him to life. He took him to a magic cloud where Mother Nature gave him special powers. That bear became

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Jul 5
Nothing human disgusts me, Mr. Shannon, unless it is unkind or violent.
Tennessee Williams,
The Night of the Iguana (1964)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=m7T6xjC-VeU
 

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 Jul 5
When our ancestors resembled modern chimpanzees, the average group size was about 50. Homo sapiens  emerged around 150,000 years ago, probably lived in groups of around 150. The problems posed by group living got more complex.
Introducing Evolutionary Psychology: A Graphic Guide

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Jul 5
In order to play the political games vital to survival in a large group of primates, we have to become amateur psychologists.
Machiavelli's 'Prince' outlines some of the dirty tricks that successful politicians use to obtain and maintain power.
Introducing Evolutionary Psychology

Jul 6
Arguing that something is good because it is natural is called the “naturalistic fallacy”. It is based on the mistaken idea that you can deduce moral lessons from observing nature.
Introducing Evolutionary Psychology: A Graphic Guide, Dylan Evans, Oscar Zarate

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Jul 6
Do you think predatory types respected you for submitting to them? They might want submission and loyalty but if they verbally abuse someone and that person doesn't stand up for themselves, that's not going to make them think more positively.
YT Ana Psych.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JM48vlSh3wg

 Jul 6
If it weren't for the nervous people in the world, we'd all still be eating each other.
The Misfits (1961)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h56iL7vK5Y0


Jul 6
There is no way to have confidence and hate yourself.  When you are confident it is very easy to take action. If you are not confident in your abilities why would you ever do the hard stuff and take action?
YT Rob Dial

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3IgE9PUeYo

 Jul 6
You are your own abuser. You're the person saying you're worthless, you're the person saying you're unlovable, never amount to anything. You are in your own mental prison talking trash to yourself a lot of times.
YT Rob Dial

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3IgE9PUeYo

Jul 6
People who grew up in healthy environment will have no ability to detect virus or parasites. They will be prone to conformism and herd mentality that can lead to Milgram experiment - and thus unwittingly giving supply and support to narcissists and abusers
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2022/07/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety.html
 


Jul 6
Shame can make you hide things that you need to expose.
YT Mary Joye LMHC

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ditm5NaMQbE

 
Jul 6
There is no shame in not knowing; the shame lies in not finding out -
Russian proverb

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    Jul 6
Codependency is term that has been too widely appropriated to pathologize survivors of narcissistic abuse. The term originates from substance abuse- derives their self esteem and links emotional state of another person.
YT DoctorRamani

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07cl-m88I2o

 Jul 6
Somehow everyone was content to let the survivors of narcissistic abuse go on blaming themselves and never holding the narcissistic people accountable for their toxic behaviour. Once person understands narcissism, they start making different choices.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07cl-m88I2o

 Jul 6
Some folks get out of narcissistic relationship, others set boundaries, others disengage, some folks say okay, I can't get out and this sucks, but it sorts feel different knowing that this is a thing, and it's not in my head.
YT DoctorRamani

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07cl-m88I2o

Jul 6
If the therapist didn't call it out, and nobody understood it, then lots of people suffered in silence, blaming themselves for a really long time. Armed with that knowledge now, you need to make choices, decisions, and recognize you cannot take responsibility for their behaviour.

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Jul 6
Wounded child will refuse to give up on potential of bad relationship. Are you staying for potential that things will work out?
Only seeing the potential clouds our reality about what's going on. We survived on magical thinking.
YT Patrick Teahan LICSW

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/aTibNZyJIeM?feature=share

 
Jul 6
Is it not reasonable to anticipate that our understanding of the human mind would be aided greatly by knowing the purpose for which it was designed?
George Williams

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 Jul 6
Abuse is NOT caused by bad relationship dynamics. You can't manage your partner's abusiveness by changing your behaviour. But he wants you to think you can.
Lundy Bancroft
https://youtube.com/watch?v=SC26Jqm_rh4

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 Jul 6
Summer in the woods.

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 Jul 6
July 6th, 2022
 30°C

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Jul 7
This system evolved because sometimes for the brain, rational thinking is not the best strategy.

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 Jul 7
Watson observed that young children have an innate fear of loud noises. Following the principles of conditioning he wanted to prove that he could induce a child to fear something that he wouldn't normally fear.
Little Albert Experiment

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 Jul 7
People can develop specific, useless fears as a result of learning.

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Jul 7
Watson believed that all fears and behaviors are learned.
Watson wanted to prove that your fear and behavior is learned. Everything that humans do is learned.

Little Albert Experiment

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Jul 7
The Magpie, Claude Monet, (1868–1869)
near the commune of Étretat in Normandy

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Jul 7
The sex drive is behind everything creative we do. The stronger the sex drive, the stronger the desire to create.
Mae West

She always knew how, Charlotte Chandler
https://dailymotion.com/video/xv0m6v
 

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 Jul 7
Some 🇷🇺 words used in Clockwork Orange book:
Bog - God
brat - brother
britva - razor
dama - lady
droog - friend
dva - two
eegra - game
maslo - butter
mesto - place
minoota - minute
mozg - brain
okno - window
oomny - brainy
peet - to drink
slovo - word
zasnoot - sleep
zvook -sound

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Jul 7
"Burgess maintains we should permit harmful free will, since goodness is authentic only if it is chosen; if goodness is forced, as is done to Alex through Ludovico's Technique, it is inhuman and mechanical."
A Clockwork Orange, 1962

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I0dtQQ701yw

 
Jul 7
No amount of evidence will ever persuade an idiot.
Mark Twain

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 Jul 7
Fight as if you are right; listen as if you are wrong.

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Jul 7
Never show fear. Only trust.
TROG (1970), Joan Crawford

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Jul 8
Tip that works with mountain lions, bears and bullies:
Be as tall, make yourself as big as possible and also as loud as you can to scare bully away.

YT Bully Defense 101
How To Stand Up For Yourself Verbally To The Bear, The Mountain Lion And The Bully
https://youtube.com/watch?v=BpIFgd1PAhw

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 Jul 8
You gotta understand the bully does not want to pick a fight. The bully wants to pick on someone they think won't fight back. Bully wants easy target. If you look like confident, sound like challenger – that might be enough to get out.
YT Bully Defense 101
https://youtube.com/watch?v=BpIFgd1PAhw

Jul 8
Mountain lion country:
Make yourself look as large as possible.
Shout aggressively.

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Jul 8
scantily clad
(comparative more scantily clad, superlative most scantily clad)
Wearing very little clothing; almost naked.

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Jul 8
I believe that we are put here in human form to decipher the hieroglyphs of love and suffering. It is a duty to take the risk of a crippling hurt.
Allen Ginsberg

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Jul 10
No sane man can be happy, for to him life is real and he sees what a fearful thing it is. Only the mad can be happy, and not many of those.
The Mysterious Stranger (1916), Mark Twain
https://youtube.com/watch?v=0W0Kjt9J7bw
 

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 Jul 10
Recognize whom you are dealing with. That is chicken. You are eagle, stay on high level where you belong. Some people sole goal is to stir you up. People don't control your destiny.
Joel Osteen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVuQZrKAqw4

 
Jul 10
If what they said could stop your purpose, they would be more powerful than God. Don't make mistake and engage in battles you're not suppose to engage in. There's nothing people can say/do that can keep you from your purpose.
Joel Osteen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVuQZrKAqw4

Jul 11
Only someone who is insecure is trying to be secure. Only someone who isn't alpha is trying to be "alpha". I am going to live to my own standards and people react to you being authentic, not pretending who I am not.
YT JulienHimself

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JL8kVIQSCc

 Jul 11
It's a boundary of self love. Why would you tolerate such abuse? Why not say enough. Enough with the putting me down, insults, negativity. Claim your power back. You are no longer identified with conditioning. Be honest with yourself.
YT JulienHimself

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JL8kVIQSCc


Jul 11
When did you start resisting parts of yourself?
When you start hating parts of yourself, feeling like you're not good enough?
When did that compensating route start taking over? "Let me be better. Let me prove myself".
And to who?
YT JulienHimself

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7lCwMTQgn7I?feature=share

 Jul 11
Make up your mind. Decide you want the best things out of life and go get them. You can get anything you want.
film Queen Bee (1955), Joan Crawford

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Jul 11
Apocalypse comes from Greek apokálypsis “uncovering,” a derivative of the verb “to take the cover off,”
In Middle English, apo

https://www.dictionary.com/browse/apocalypse

 Jul 12
Double Passiflora flowers

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 Jul 12
Hedgehog's paws.

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Jul 13
The truth is cruel, but it can be loved, and it makes free those who have loved it.
George Santayana

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Jul 13
Adler's ideas are not so popular as they often clash with conventional views.
It takes courage to see the world without any filter.
YT The Courage To Be Disliked
https://youtube.com/watch?v=koYFXh3WEao
 

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Jul 13
If you look world carefully it is not the world that is complicated, it's actually the opposite. The world is simple. But human beings are complicated. So whatever we see or indulge in becomes complicated. Every person sees the world with different filter.

 https://youtube.com/watch?v=koYFXh3WEao

 
Jul 13
Many contradiction exist between what we see and what the other people see. The surprising thing is that reality gets distorted when we look through filters. These filters are born due to our previous experiences and future expectations.
YT WizBuskOut

  https://youtube.com/watch?v=koYFXh3WEao


Jul 13
It requires courage: one has to let go of pre-existing beliefs to see the reality as it is. When you avoid change and stick to your rigid beliefs you stop yourself from attaining happiness. Let go of your expectations and accept the truth.
YT WizBuskOut

 https://youtube.com/watch?v=koYFXh3WEao

Jul 13
Always assume incompetence before looking for conspiracy.
Niccolo Machiavelli

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Jul 13
Never was anything great achieved without danger.
Niccolo Machiavelli

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Jul 13
Hatred is gained as much by good works as by evil.
Niccolo Machiavelli

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Jul 13
Abandoned swimming pool in the woods.

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Jul 13
In the woods.

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Jul 13
Well, at least we've got a shower. A cousin of Odell's was at some place in Yugoslavia last year and had to wash in a kind of shack in a field.
Evil Under the Sun (1982)

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Jul 13
You're sending messages. You're telling them you care about them. That's the first step in missionary work and you're doing it.
How Great Shall Be Your Joy (1981)
YT Hard-to-Find Mormon Videos

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UJGWbfJAmJg

 Jul 13
Spirals (from "Eye Opener"), 1970 | From the Vaults
YT The Met

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qi331cGOM9I

Jul 14
"Very often the most fragile people are those who have no problem hurting others."

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Jul 14
One of the best ways to avoid narcissistic people is to have strong boundaries and be able to say 'No'. You will attract toxic people but you don't have to allow them access to you. Trust your intuition, if it feels wrong it probably is.
YT Mental Healness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBqeFmGPeY8

 
Jul 14
Say no – we're moving too fast. Slowing things down is a boundary. And if they push back on that, that's toxic. That is not respecting your boundaries. If they don't respect your boundaries upfront, they won't respect them later on.
YT Mental Healness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBqeFmGPeY8

Jul 14
Narcissists and toxic people hate rejection, take the word No as a shameful rejection and will typically lash out at you in some way. It doesn't have to be narcissistic rage, they can come up with passive aggressiveness, jokes, threats.
YT Mental Healness

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBqeFmGPeY8

Jul 14
One fine day, we'll see
Un bel dì, vedremo

A wisp of smoke
Levarsi un fil di fumo

On the extreme border of the sea
Sull'estremo confin del mare

Madama Butterfly – 'Un bel dí vedremo' (Puccini, Eri Nakamura, The Royal Opera)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_iTXvul23M

 Jul 14
Samson et Dalila trailer
YT Royal Opera House
https://youtube.com/watch?v=ssNjqpI1JsQ
 

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Jul 14
It's not awkward if you don't make it awkward.
I'm perfectly comfortable with silence and I'm perfectly comfortable with being cringe.
YT Better Ideas
https://youtube.com/watch?v=32DdBf_j7Pg

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Jul 14
You gotta really go in this journey of learning these skills, journey of learning what your body is capable of.
YT VAHVA Fitness
https://youtube.com/watch?v=mbcPXy5M-L8
 

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 Jul 14
Bike ride.

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Jul 14
They genuinely do not care about people. They merely desire attention and praise to utilize it to their advantage. They pose as healers and listeners but their true intent is to make people feel worse.
YT Introverted Narcissist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NsIpa4izvOI

 
Jul 14
I'm against empathy as moral guide. We could do better. A lot of people think this is core to being a good person. We have moral capacities that are better than empathy. Compassion does better.
YT Why I’m against empathy | Paul Bloom
Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VUpo28aAks

Jul 14
If we could reconfigure our moral attitudes to be less biased, less parochial (limited), more with our head and less with our heart, we would do better.
YT Why I’m against empathy | Paul Bloom
Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VUpo28aAks

 Jul 14
Why would evolution curse us with pain? There's actually perfectly good evolutionary argument for this. It serves the function of training you to avoid things that damage the body. Pain pushes you away from things that would hurt you.
YT Why you should want to suffer | Paul Bloom

Jul 14
Puzzle: if the purpose of pain is to avoid them, why do we seek them out? Where is the lure of the negative? Sometimes they can build you up. But for the most part, they're bad. Avoid them, if you can
YT Why you should want to suffer | Paul Bloom
Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AqUYejDdmU

 
Jul 14
If you don't fail, success means nothing. The good things in life only make sense relative to the bad things. If you win every competition, there's no fun to it. You have to have the possibility of loss.
Why you should want to suffer | Paul Bloom
Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AqUYejDdmU

Jul 14
If all your experiences are positive, they cease to be positive, you need a negative. From a Darwinian perspective, it's no mystery why we seek out good food, good sex. Some people willingly engage in projects evolving suffering.
YT Big Think | Paul Bloom

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AqUYejDdmU

Jul 14
Difficulty is parcel of things. Part of what makes it valuable. Meaning is intimately related to the more heavy duty suffering and difficulty. If it's not hard at some level, it probably isn't meaningful.
YT Why you should want to suffer | Paul Bloom

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AqUYejDdmU

Jul 14
"The worst part of being traumatized is that people expect you to behave as if you aren't."

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Jul 14
It's a subjective experience and what might be traumatic for you – may not be traumatic for me, depending on our personality and our prior experiences.
YT What is trauma? The author of “The Body Keeps the Score” explains | Bessel van der Kolk | Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJfmfkDQb14

 Jul 14
The problem with trauma is that starts off with something that happens to us, but that's not where it stops, because it changes your brain. Much of imprint of trauma is primitive survival part of your brain
YT What is trauma?Bessel van der Kolk | Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJfmfkDQb14

Jul 14
Brain just picks up what's dangerous and what's safe. And when you're traumatized, that part of brain which is usually very quiet, continues to just send messages. "I'm in danger, not safe"
YT What is trauma? Bessel van der Kolk | Big Think

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJfmfkDQb14


Jul 14
These automatic responses fight-flight-collapse they're not product of cognitive assessments, they're product of your animal brain trying to stay alive in face of something that that part of your brain interprets as a life threat.
YT Big Think

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJfmfkDQb14

Jul 14
But the core issue is our hormones and our physiological impulses that have to do with survival. Your body keeps mobilizing itself to fight. You have all kind of immunological abnormalities. Endocrine abnormalities.
YT Bessel van der Kolk | Big Think

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJfmfkDQb14

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July 14:
Comet C/2017 K2 (Panstarrs) at 23:00h is close enough to observe with a telescope. The comet will look like a fuzzy green smudge in the sky.
AccuWeather
https://youtube.com/watch?v=aZvXw7Od_84
 

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 Jul 14
Solomon Asch devised an experiment to investigate whether peer pressure can be strong enough to change our perception, and make us believe in things that are not true.
YT Sprouts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkK5eA_qhFk

 Jul 14
If 3 people say something obviously wrong and there is no one to disagree with them, many of us agree with the wrong answer and start lying, due to our deeply human desire to fit in.
YT Asch’s Conformity Experiment: Can You Withstand Groupthink?
Sprouts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkK5eA_qhFk


Jul 14
Asch said the tendency to conformity in our society is so strong that reasonably intelligent and well-meaning young people are willing to call white, black. This is a matter of concern. It raises question about education and our values.
YT Sprouts

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkK5eA_qhFk

Jul 14
Who appointed you the moral authority on what is okay and what isn't? My opinions are just as valid as yours.
YT Case of Keshav

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8fbP4GI2RU

 Jul 14
Le feu d'artifice du 14 juillet a la Tour Eiffel

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Jul 14
Moon tonight.

 

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 Jul 15
The type of trauma that they experienced and the coping mechanism or coping style that they developed to try to protect themselves later becomes the mental health disorder.
YT Ross Rosenberg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrUZdIkXVKg

 Jul 15

If you learn that by lying and pretending and being someone else compensates for the horrendous neglect or abuse or trauma, that is beginning of that that moves into adulthood.
YT Covert Narcissism Discussion

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrUZdIkXVKg

 Jul 15

 Sociopaths are conscious that they are liars, cheaters, con men, swindlers. And it doesn't bother them. They don't have cognitive dissonance, no remorse or shame. For the benefit of yourself.
YT Ross Rosenberg

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrUZdIkXVKg

  Jul 15

To either stop or to break up, break off or break away – that's what you can solve. If you're courageous enough and you have the resources to get help you can solve that. You can't solve the narcissist.
YT Ross Rosenberg
Covert Narcissism Discussion

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrUZdIkXVKg

 Jul 15

Just because they asked, it doesn't mean you have to tell them.
YT How to Set Emotional Boundaries For Yourself

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x47bR2_OuUA

 Jul 15

Bike ride.

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Jul 15

Anxiety is byproduct of pain avoidance. You guys are avoiding everything painful. The comfort's killing you, literally. It's eroding your mind. The key to mental health, successful mind is learning how to suffer correctly
YT GP-Penitentiary Life Wes Watson

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3HEpfruHCs

Jul 15

I actually can turn a situation around by my reaction to their reaction. I did not get nervous and start qualify myself sorry to bother you – I stayed there like there is no reason I wouldn't be good enough to talk to you.
YT Michael Knight

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSEQG-cW-g4

Jul 15

Person who gets combative, tries to put you down or diss you in front of the group, to break your confidence and make you look worse. Often becuse they want to make themselves look better. Best reaction: no reaction.
YT Social Skills Coach

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSEQG-cW-g4

Jul 15

Don't react to situations to protect your ego or to validate yourself. A reaction is an involuntary retort to stimulus while response is coordinated and thought out maneuver. If you're altruistically providing value to others, then you'll never be reactive

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSEQG-cW-g4

Jul 15

-Do you know what you've done? You just masturbated in front of the whole Paris!
-It wasn't me. It was the faun.
Nijinsky (1980)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3m6JrIXCiW0

 Jul 16

We've been conditioned to believe that our differences equal threat, they equal rejection, equal isolation, they equal being ostracized or kicked out of the in group. That can activate anxiety being alone.
YT Happiness After Codependency -Marshall Burtcher

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0T00UtqnAjs

Jul 16

I learned the differences I bring to the table are what brings the connection, the impact, the value socially, it is difference me versus others that create social value – how we contribute, transactional value, exchange.
YT Marshall Burtcher

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0T00UtqnAjs

Jul 16

If we are people pleasing, we are trying to be the same as everyone else. We are trying to be what we think will make us lovable to them. Lesson is I am lovable for who I am, and who I am has differences from others, create connection.
YT Marshall Burtcher

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0T00UtqnAjs


Jul 16
Whatever someone’s reaction to me is, that’s what I am. Genius insight about when somebody is having reaction towards us or it's criticizing us or upset and even not about us, we become the accusation. No boundary.
YT Patrick Teahan LICSW
https://youtube.com/watch?v=iAJnSRrRt8c
 

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Jul 16
"If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito."

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 Jul 16
Emotions are contagious!
Choose what you want to spread...

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Jul 16
Emotions are far more contagious than any disease. A smile or panic will spread trough a group of people far faster than any virus ever could.
Seth Godin

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Jul 16
The choices we make have a powerful impact on the people around us.
Amy Simpson

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Jul 17
LIVE Comet C/2017 K2 IS APPROACHING EARTH
Now it’s in the inner solar system, with closest approach to Earth on July 14. The comet will be closest to the sun several months later, on December 19, 2022.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=5jdSnREyPRM
 

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Jul 17
Control is a dangerous thing. And errors, errors are what is the real expression of the individual. Because if Picasso puts an eye where it shouldn't be, one sees it more clearly that if placed where it should be.
Jean Cocteau
https://youtube.com/watch?v=Vr77MD5PFKA
 

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Jul 17
Passiflora.

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Jul 17
It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.
STAR TREK: TNG S2 E21

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Jul 17
Are you becoming what you've always hated?
Charles Bukowski

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Jul 17
Leonardo di ser Piero da Vinci
(15 April 1452 – 2 May 1519) timeline:

Last Supper (c. 1495–98)
Mona Lisa (c. 1503–19)
Salvator Mundi (c. 1500)
Vitruvian Man (c. 1490)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=_5eWrpZOFj4
 

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Jul 18
Understand that you did nothing at all to deserve this toxic behaviour. This person chooses to treat you like this. They are choosing to manipulate you. It's not what a healthy individual does.
Consider moving on.
YT Toxic People

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTqaqW3dB-4

Jul 18
If Nikola Tesla cured his social anxiety - we would be stuck in 18th century now.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2022/07/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety.html

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Jul 18
Instinct is something which transcends knowledge.
Nikola Tesla

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Jul 19
The goal is not to let go of everything. The goal is to enhance your life. And you do not have to like everything to do that.
YT Most “Self Help” Gurus WON’T Tell You This…
JulienHimself

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67WvmNVEy_4

 Jul 19
Deep feeling of inadequacy makes it difficult to follow our intuition. We look for humans, imperfect just like us, for a clue - that we are enough. We look for somebody else to give us permission to feel our feelings.
YT Lisa A. Romano

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0

Jul 19
There was deficiency how you were nurtured. And that is not your fault. If you crave validation that is because you didn't get validated enough or properly as child, something went wrong. Child assumes blame, which is where shame comes from.
Lisa A. Romano

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0


Jul 19
It's important to recognize that we're not built to experience happiness as much as we're built, our brains are built, to avoid pain. Keep in mind when you find yourself in toxic relationship, contemplating why I am not happy whatever I achieve
Lisa Romano

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0

Jul 19
They make you responsible for dis-ease. If you're not careful than your goal becomes trying to convince them how not to be that way. Your goal becomes how to convince this person, outside of you.
Lisa Romano

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0

Jul 19
Many of us do not realize that we react to life as it shows up. Rather than get ahead of what's happening in our lives, we react to it. I was reacting to what people were saying. Toxic people find way to manipulate approval out of them.
YT Lisa Romano

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0

Jul 19
If you are living with narcissist, your point of focus is hijacked, and your goals are off center. You think goal is to make this person happy, which is not realistic goal, you can't control anything outside of you.
Lisa Romano

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0


Jul 19
Detach from what this other person thinks. Let them think whatever they want to think. It can no longer be your goal to appease someone whose purpose it is to get you feel responsible for them. Start focusing on your goals.
Lisa Romano

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrJ0ip63KG0

Jul 19
The Chupa Chups logo was designed in 1969 by the surrealist artist Salvador Dalí.
Dali incorporated the Chupa Chups name into a brightly coloured daisy shape.
https://logodesignlove.com/chupa-chups-logo
 

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 Jul 20
Skull of a Skeleton with Burning Cigarette is an early work by Vincent van Gogh.
It was most likely painted in the winter of 1885–86 as a satirical comment on conservative academic practices.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skull_of_a_Skeleton_with_Burning_Cigarette

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Jul 20
When we perceive threat the effect in our brain, amygdala sends adrenaline in blood stream. Adrenaline activates sensations we feel, pounding heart. Enables us to access energy to combat and survive that threat.
YT Insight Collaborations

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlbVGOpdPXI

Jul 20
That threat took over my mind and my brain. When we get curious we force ourselves to activate our own critical thinking. And that dissipates the adrenaline. Asking questions directs our focus.
YT Megan Price

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlbVGOpdPXI

Jul 20
Getting curious makes available unknown facts, facts you did not know before. It frees our assumptions about other and change our response. Activate curiosity: notice, verify, question.
YT Engaging Conflict in the Moment with Megan Price

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlbVGOpdPXI

Jul 20
Before my recovery I wouldn't have defended myself against this kind of treatment. But would have just cried and fawned and begged them to explain why I was bad and forgive me.
YT Do You Owe an Apology for Lashing Out at People Who Mistreat You?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yv3GUqgYsaY

 Jul 21
Four favorites from Renoir:

By the Water, 1880
Lunch at the Restaurant Fournaise, 1879
Luncheon of the Boating Party, 1880–1881
Dance at Bougival, 1882–1883

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Jul 22
We move into the processing of reality which is going to involve grief and anger. Anger is where our inner advocate is back in its rightful place of empowering ourselves to acknowledge violations, unmet needs, and see direction.
YT Keep Sanity After Abuse

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tujVsC2ANGE

Jul 22
Conditioned me to believe that love is conditional. To prove my worth to other people. This led to suppression, if I now have to be hypervigilant, focusing on you, your needs, I cannot allow my needs to come on surface.
YT Lisa A. Romano

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jnnp4PIUD7w


Jul 22
Nothing is awkward unless you make it awkward.
But it's hard because other people make it awkward.
YT ahnyri de'asia

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZjErgpgDJk


Jul 22
Thirsty wasps.

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Jul 22
Seaside Claude Monet;

Ships Riding on the Seine at Rouen, 1872
The Green Wave, 1866
Beach at Pourville, 1882
The Cliffs at Etretat, 1885

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Jul 22
What are the chances for bringing back the Renaissance collar (ruff) back into fashion today? 🤔😸
(Portrait of Jorge Manuel Theotocópuli, 1603)

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Jul 23
As heard on Sweet Melodies radio:

Alan Tew - Gentle In The Night

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWvqe8lS_6Y

Jul 23
From 1976, Night Watch · Alan Tew

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jF2rNnZHkRI

Jul 23
Passiflora.

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 Jul 23
Edouard Manet's 'In the Conservatory' (1877), as found in a Merkers Salt Mine (Germany) during 1945 to protect it from bombing.

The image has been falsely used as an example of Nazi looted art.
https://colorized.com/us-soldiers-manets-in-the-conservatory-1945

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Jul 24
Where Do We Come From? What Are We? Where Are We Going? (French: D'où venons-nous ? Que sommes-nous ? Où allons-nous ?) is a painting by French artist Paul Gauguin. The painting was created in Tahiti, 1897–1898.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Where_Do_We_Come_From%3F_What_Are_We%3F_Where_Are_We_Going%3F

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Jul 24
Before The Simpsons, there was The Yellow Christ, 1889 by Paul Gauguin.

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Jul 24
Peanuts can kill
The Simpsons Season 33, episode 20

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Jul 25
1300 year old tree cut down in 1891.

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Jul 25
St. Francis Receiving the Stigmata (1300);
Painting by Giotto

stigma
1) a mark of disgrace associated with a particular circumstance, quality, or person
2) (in Christian tradition) marks corresponding to those left on Christ's body by the Crucifixion,  impressed by divine favour

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Jul 25
Moon Museum is a wafer, covertly attached to a leg of the Lunar Module Intrepid, and subsequently left on the Moon during Apollo 12.
Moon Museum is considered the first Space Art object.
Starting at the top left is a drawing of a penis by Andy Warhol.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moon_Museum

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Jul 25
Current research of Fractal Expressionism focuses on human response to viewing fractals. Cognitive neuroscientists have shown that Pollock's fractals induce the same stress-reduction in observers as computer-generated fractals and naturally fractals.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jackson_Pollock

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Jul 25
3-dot menu was prophesized by Kandinsky in 1936,
Dominant Curve (Courbe dominante)
https://guggenheim.org/artwork/1972

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Jul 26
Come on, people now
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another right now

The Youngbloods - Get Together (1967)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xGxQXmu7Os


Jul 26
"If I'm perfect no one will be able to reject me". But guess what I'm doing when I'm trying to be perfect: I'm rejecting my authentic self, we can't have joy, be in purpose.
YT Candace van Dell

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GM-VzZoObwc

Jul 26
Dear Prudence won't you open up your eyes?

Look around round
Look around round round
Look around

Dear Prudence let me see you smile
Dear Prudence like a little child

Siouxsie and the Banshees - Dear Prudence (1983)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=25weBjXioB0


Jul 26
Lunchables ad.

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Jul 26
Skechers pop-art ad.

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Jul 26
Pamukkale, meaning "cotton castle" in Turkish, is a natural site in Denizli Province in southwestern Turkey. The area is famous for a carbonate mineral left by the flowing of thermal spring water.

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Jul 26
Ars longa, vita brevis;
"skilfulness takes time and life is short"

Life is short,
and art (craft) long,
opportunity fleeting,
experimentations perilous,
and judgment difficult.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ars_longa,_vita_brevis

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Jul 26
When saving images - when annoying .jfif extension appears, simply rename the extension from .jfif into .jpeg - and it will work: image will be handled as any other 'jpeg' image.

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Jul 26
Deviant behavior is behavior that people so label.
Howard Becker

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Jul 26
Give other people the chance to explain themselves before judging their behavior.
Attribution Bias

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Jul 27
When it becomes impossible to attend to all the stimuli in a given situation, a temporary "blindness" effect can occur, as individuals fail to see unexpected but often salient objects or stimuli.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inattentional_blindness

Inattentional blindness

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Jul 27
Selective attention refers to the processes that allow an individual to select and focus on particular input for further processing while simultaneously suppressing irrelevant or distracting information.
https://ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3375497/
 

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Jul 27
Homophobes beware:
"Nothing is Consciously Perceived Without Attention"

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Jul 27
People build a series of mental "filters" through biological and cultural influences. They then use these filters to make sense of the world. The choices they then make are influenced by their creation of a frame.
Framing (social sciences)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Framing_(social_sciences)

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Jul 27
Artist vs. Normal people

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Jul 27
Bounded rationality is the idea that rationality is limited when individuals make decisions, and under these limitations, rational individuals will select a decision that is satisfactory rather than optimal.
Bounded rationality
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bounded_rationality

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Jul 27
Cycle of self-deception:
Desire to feel right - Seek confirmation that I'm right - Get confirmation - Feeling right

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Jul 27
Self-deception is like this. It blinds us to the true causes of problems, and once we're blind, all the "solutions" we can think of will actually make matters worse.
The Arbinger Institute

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Jul 27
Beware of altruism. It is based on self-deception, the root of all evil.
Robert A. Heinlein

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Jul 27
It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness.
Leo Tolstoy

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Jul 27
"Your beliefs are the only things holding you back"

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Jul 27
Can the form of a language affect the mindset of a human?

Whorf used the Hopi concept of time as a primary example of his concept of linguistic relativity, which posits that the way in which individual languages encode information about the world.

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 Jul 27
A moral entrepreneur is an individual, group, or formal organization that seeks to influence a group to adopt or maintain a norm; altering the boundaries of altruism, deviance, duty or compassion.
Moral entrepreneur
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_entrepreneur

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Jul 27
A moral panic is a widespread feeling of fear, often an irrational one, that some evil person or thing threatens the values, interests, or well-being of a community or society. Usually perpetuated by moral entrepreneurs.
Moral panic
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_panic
 

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Jul 27
Impression management is a conscious or subconscious process in which people attempt to influence the perceptions of other people about a person, object or event by regulating and controlling information in social interaction.
Impression management
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impression_management
 

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Jul 27
'Your sexual preferences are NOT virtues.'

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Jul 27
Agents of social control through the ages:

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Jul 27
What goes up must come down
Spinning Wheel got to go 'round
Talkin' 'bout your troubles
It's a cryin' sin

Nancy Wilson - Spinning Wheel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k28zdH72qlI

 
Jul 27
Fawning is the nervous system attempt to help you survive.
Fawning is not an intentional behaviour, it is an adaptive reflex.
Dr. Stephen Porges

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 Jul 27
We need to live in mindful harmony with our feelings, not attempt to control them.
Les Greenberg

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Jul 27
When we're stressed or anxious the nervous system is really requesting familiarity and predictability, which is a metaphor for safety.
Dr Stephen Porges

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Jul 27
You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of.
Albert Camus

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Jul 27
Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.
Kriya Babaji

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Jul 28
The power in any relationship is you want something but you don't need it. Power you have in any relationship is willingness to walk away. Stick to your boundaries, hold people accountable.
YT WaveyWoj

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/dm3K-O2sEPg?feature=share

 Jul 28
When you are being blamed in childhood for things outside of your control leads to inappropriate guilt, feeling guilty even when you did not do anything.
YT Matt Phifer Coaching

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/mwvoET2mWvo?feature=share

Jul 29

Suspend Hungary: no voting rights - no EU money to Hungary - Sign the Petition! https://chng.it/n6JTybZz
 via
@Change

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Jul 29, 2022

In Season 1 episode 6 Captain Janeway says "There's coffee in that nebula," a line an astronaut tweeted from the International Space Station in 2015.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Cloud_(Star_Trek:_Voyager)
 

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Jul 29

Learn not to bury your anger, do not shove it down, it is not bad, it doesn't make you sinful. Just be careful how you respond. Buried anger is worse over time, it corrodes over time and it will usually erupt when unexpected.
YT TMI Training Network

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBd11JsHCl8

 Jul 29

Angry person refusing to change their behaviour – God does not expect us to be emotional punching bag on recurring basis. You can still love person, forgive person and want best for them without being in close relationship with them
YT TMI Training Network

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBd11JsHCl8

Jul 29

When I tell my narcissist they hurt my feelings, he says I attack him. Explain?
- If you are not praising narcissist, worshiping, thanking them for their presence, showing gratitude;it is criticism to them. They know they treat you badly, not hear about it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIaFOa9G3OM

Jul 29

Narcissists know they treat you bad, they do not want to hear it. When you praise them they will suck it like soup. If it is not praising them, it is criticism to them. A lot of them do not know or understand why behind it.
YT Mental Healness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIaFOa9G3OM


Jul 29
Are you sure that was wise? Showing humanity to an adversary like that?
- It is fine. Appreciating one's enemy is part of having a command of battle.
Ya Boy Kongming! Episode 003

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Jul 29
Augustine argues that time doesn’t really exist outside the head. When we measure time, we measure what remains fixed in memory. I must not allow to insist time is objective. Time is a feature of our memories and expectations.
Introducing Time: A Graphic Guide

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Jul 29
Returning from combat zone with a serious condition of PTSD. In 1940 it was just "shell shock". Soldiers were being told pull yourself together, get a grip on yourself and get out there and be a man.
YT Patrick Stewart At Comicpalooza 2013
https://youtube.com/watch?v=TqFaiVNuy1k
 

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Jul 30
Got a new error...
Progress!

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Jul 31
Bees dance to communicate.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waggle_dance

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Jul 31
So, whatcha listening to?
- What does she mean by that? What's the right way to answer that?! The song title. No. Maybe the genre? The artist name? Isn't it best to say an artist popular with girls? Who do girls like in the first place? What's right?
Ya Boy Kongming! Episode 006

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Jul 31
Menorca

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Jul 31
Come as your madness

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 Jul 31
Inauguration of the Pleasure Dome (1954)
A Slavonic Mass render the pleasure dome both as prison and as celebration.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=D_d7zcckIwA

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Jul 31
Hedgehog's clowder night chow.

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Jul 31
It's end of July 2022.
29°C

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Jul 31
IMDb trivia:
Watching this made Martin Scorsese appreciate the importance of music in a film.
Eaux d'artifice (1953)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=yUO6Q9RQPG0
 

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Jul 31
IMDB trivia
The flying saucer that appears in the film was included after an incident where a UFO flew over the production crew but disappeared before the cameras captured the object.
Lucifer Rising (1972)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=Q1BsfpDSDDE

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IMDb trivia
Following the film's release, Kenneth Anger was arrested on obscenity charges. This ultimately went to the California Supreme Court which threw the case out, declaring the film to be a work of art.
Fireworks (1947)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=EHMrj3lwPVE

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Zoot Suit Riots
Jun 3, 1943 – Jun 8, 1943
The Zoot Suit Riots were a series of violent clashes during which mobs of U.S. servicemen, off-duty police officers and civilians brawled with young Latinos and other minorities in Los Angeles
Many zoot-suiters were stripped by servicemen

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Jul 31
IMDb trivia:
Although the party looks completely all-male and gay, in fact all of the bikers were heterosexual and had girlfriends, who were present at the party but whom the young men did not want to have filmed.
Scorpio Rising (1963)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=GDuu-m0-IjQ

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