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 March 1, 2024

Other people catalyze in you reactions. They generate them in you. Lacan said that the unconscious is an internalization of other people. In object relation theory everything is relational. Other people are critical,they control your inner space. When this triggering by other people becomes overwhelming we get autism. Autism is avoidance of others. And the avoidance of process of othering. Othering is recognition of existence of other people as external
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kzrc_2pTX60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kzrc_2pTX60
Why YOU Exist Through Other People's Gaze? (Compilation)


10,285 views  25 Dec 2023  Interviews and Lectures
We become, are transformed, and gain a sense of our own existence through other people's gaze, starting with caretakers in early childhood.

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March 1, 2024

The autistic person is incapable of othering. Because he is overwhelmed with stimuli coming from other people. Autistic people avoid othering. Same applies to borderline PD people. Othering implies that other people are not you and can never be as you. You're reliant on yourself 100% to be you. When othering fails in narcissism, you are critically depended on other people in order to be you. Leads to repetition compulsion, can't see others as separate.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kzrc_2pTX60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kzrc_2pTX60
Why YOU Exist Through Other People's Gaze? (Compilation)


10,285 views  25 Dec 2023  Interviews and Lectures
We become, are transformed, and gain a sense of our own existence through other people's gaze, starting with caretakers in early childhood.

Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...

Mar 1

When you fail to other your self, when your self fails to develop, you end up without an ego. You internal structures are disrupted and chaotic, and disorganized –it's a failure of othering the self –it's pathology. When you fail to other people, when you don't regard them as separate or external, or not you – it's a pathology. Othering failures are pathologies. Possibly most severe. Psychosis is major othering failure. Fantasy is attempt to compensate.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kzrc_2pTX60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kzrc_2pTX60
Why YOU Exist Through Other People's Gaze? (Compilation)

10,285 views  25 Dec 2023  Interviews and Lectures
We become, are transformed, and gain a sense of our own existence through other people's gaze, starting with caretakers in early childhood.

Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...

March 1, 2024

People need to embrace their own nothingness because if you are something, you are outside God. God includes everything. To become a part, you must become a nothing to become a part of God. To heal God, you must mend the vessels. As the Kabbalah puts it, you must disappear in order to reappear as God. It's not that God inside you. It's that you are inside God. The relationship is reciprocal. Your mental illness is God's mental illness. God has to heal.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2T7rprjz83Y

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2T7rprjz83Y
Sam Vaknin: Embrace Nothingness; Help Heal God

Mar 2

The law is black and white. But emotions are not. People are complicated. We pretend to be motivated by one thing, but when really it's much more personal. Sometimes when you get to the bottom of emotional conflict, the legal dispute takes care of itself.
🎞️ WILL & GRACE

Will & Grace, 2024-02-17, 10-02-42, Italia1 HD

Mar 2

Why did you have to do this? I've tattled this town into a paradise.
- You see Ned, your city-wide nagging compressed all of our town's mis-behavior into one small place. Creating a glittering diamond of super-evil.
🎞️ THE SIMPSONS

I Simpson, 2024-02-23, 14-06-15, Italia1 HD

Mar 2

In Italian dubs, Moe has been renamed "Boe", because the voice actors thought "Moe" sounded too similar to the southern Italy slang "mo'", meaning "now".
https://doc.qanswer.ai/Moe-Szyslak.pdf


Mar 3

Can we dress now Ms Walker?
- Absolutely not. No.
🎞️ WILL & GRACE





Mar 3

It means your future hasn't been written yet. No one's has. Your future is whatever you make it. So make it a good one.
🎞️ Back to the Future Part III (1990)

Ritorno al futuro - Parte III, 2024-02-25, 23-04-24, 27Twentyseven HD

Mar 3

🏉 Rugby Viadana 1970 - Valorugby Emilia

Rugby. Serie A Elite maschile - 14a gior, 2024-03-02, 14-54-23, Rai Sport HD




Mar 3

🏉 Rugby. Serie A Elite maschile - 14a gior, 2024-03-02, 14-54-23, Rai Sport HD


Mar 4

There's a big caveat here that almost always gets missed in content regarding social anxiety disorder: someone can exhibit all the same symptoms listed for SAD, but if they are really autistic, then the treatments/therapy for SAD can do a lot more harm than good. For autistic people, fears associated with social situations are usually coming from a lifetime of failed attempts at socializing.
The fear isn't "irrational"; it comes from real, repeated trauma (CPTSD) —

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OR7KR8gTYEM

Mar 6

We can feel what others feel. Therefore why would we want to hurt ourselves... 

Mar 6

If I unintentionally cause a mortification to a narcissist, should I apologize to him/her?
- No contact.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso

Mar 6

Because narcissist impose a Shared Fantasy in all types of relationships, not only intimate but in friendships, workplace, church, army, whenever someone can serve narcissist as source of supply, the narcissist impose Shared Fantasy. In shared fantasy, he is god and you are worshipper. He is in control, you are coerced. So advice is: no contact. No Contact is set of 27 strategies that I designed in 1995 and it's still best advice there is.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso
Narcissist at Work? 3 Best Ways to Handle Him/Her! (EXCERPT with Conor Ryan, Eyes Wide Open Podcast)

7,869 views  1 Mar 2024
Narcissists are everywhere in the workplace: as bosses, colleagues, employees, suppliers, and stakeholders. They cannot be avoided, only managed.

Eyes Wide Open with Conor Ryan   

 / @eyes-wide-open-conor-ryan  

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Mar 6

Second advice is you cannot go no contact (you can't lose your job, can't move away), is gray rock. Gray rock means to render yourself uninteresting to the narcissist. A bad source of narcissistic supply because you're “stupid” or “incapable of curiosity”, not a worthy object to be owned. Don't draw attention to yourself, minimize yourself. Hide yourself. If you are forced to stay. My first advice is to disconnect, resign. Because it can end really bad.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso
Narcissist at Work? 3 Best Ways to Handle Him/Her! (EXCERPT with Conor Ryan, Eyes Wide Open Podcast)

7,869 views  1 Mar 2024
Narcissists are everywhere in the workplace: as bosses, colleagues, employees, suppliers, and stakeholders. They cannot be avoided, only managed.

Eyes Wide Open with Conor Ryan   

 / @eyes-wide-open-conor-ryan  

Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...

Mar 6

If narcissists are mortified, narcissist can be narcissistically injured – it's when you challenge, undermine the grandiosity in some way – the self perception or self-image. You cause them discomfort by doing this. But they can also be mortified. Narcissistic mortification is if you shame the narcissist inadvertently even! In public. The narc is giving presentation but you raise hand and say "Sorry this slide is wrong". Mortification. You become enemy
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso
Narcissist at Work? 3 Best Ways to Handle Him/Her! (EXCERPT with Conor Ryan, Eyes Wide Open Podcast)


7,869 views  1 Mar 2024
Narcissists are everywhere in the workplace: as bosses, colleagues, employees, suppliers, and stakeholders. They cannot be avoided, only managed.

Eyes Wide Open with Conor Ryan   

 / @eyes-wide-open-conor-ryan  

Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...

Mar 6

Well, narc doesn't have enemy (because of “omnipotence”) but you become something to be quashed and crashed. Destroyed forever and ever. He is going to pursue you for years, in all future careers. Are exceedingly vindictive when exposed to mortification. This is known as external solution of mortification. So when a narc is shamed or humiliated in public in front of audience that matter to him – he's going to ruin your life. Period. He focus on this
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYYsbgSnso
Narcissist at Work? 3 Best Ways to Handle Him/Her! (EXCERPT with Conor Ryan, Eyes Wide Open Podcast)

7,869 views  1 Mar 2024
Narcissists are everywhere in the workplace: as bosses, colleagues, employees, suppliers, and stakeholders. They cannot be avoided, only managed.

Eyes Wide Open with Conor Ryan   

 / @eyes-wide-open-conor-ryan  

Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...

Mar 6

New Scientist promotes narcissism in July 2016
"in this modern world it pays to be a bit narcissistic"
https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg231

HUMILITY. Empathy. Selflessness. These are qualities most of us associate with being a “nice person”. But being nice doesn’t often help you in the fierce competition to get that job, win a project or secure a promotion. No one likes an egocentric big-head but if, as they say, “you are your own brand”, perhaps in this modern world it pays to be a bit narcissistic.

The truth is that although narcissists may be deluded, they can benefit from their inflated self-image and desire for others to recognise their superiority. We think we dislike them, but research shows we actually tend to judge them as more confident, intelligent and attractive than other people. This means they are more successful in job interviews, more likely to become leaders, and preferred by the opposite sex. There’s even evidence that narcissistic artists sell more and get higher prices for their work. So if you’re struggling with work or a relationship, perhaps you should become a bit more narcissistic.

That’s not as laughable as it sounds. A new understanding of narcissism suggests why, when and how it might be beneficial. It points to certain aspects of the trait that help people get on. It reveals that when it comes to success in life, there is a “right” and a “wrong” sort of narcissism. What’s more, we’re starting to understand how parents cultivate narcissism and self-esteem in their children. There are even hints about how adults lacking in self-love could learn to be a bit more narcissistic and...

Mar 6

The Simpsons, the Ireland episode





Mar 6

The Simpsons, the Ireland episode 🇮🇪





Mar 6

Le petit baigneur (1968) 🇫🇷





Mar 6

Linda Evans in 'The Rockford Files'


Mar 6

🇮🇪 Ireland





Mar 7

Where this goes wrong is if somebody crosses or betrays the INFJ. And sadly people often do this to us because we're unassuming and we're pretty kind people. This makes some people think they can lash out at us and take out their bitterness on us. It makes them think that they can boss us around. Well if this happens enough times or badly enough, the INFJ can turn the tables on that person and use their weaknesses against them.
🟥 The INFJ Circle
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7sOOvu1qt3Y

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7sOOvu1qt3Y
INFJ, the most DANGEROUS Personality Type (MBTI)

13,888 views  2 Mar 2024
In this video I discuss 6 reasons why the INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type is the most DANGEROUS of all types. The INFJs combination of observation, emotional intelligence, and logic make them a fierce opponent. 

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Mar 7

The cause is hidden. The effect is visible to all.
— Ovid


 Mar 8

Simpsons Comics #114 is the one-hundred and fourteenth issue of Simpsons Comics. It was released in the USA and Canada in January 2006.

 Mar 9

If you're doing great things for God, you don't have time or energy for molehills.
✝️ HOUR OF POWER
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wdv7NRX05s

Empowering Sermon by Bobby Schuller
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Mar 9

You need to be brutally honest, Steffy. Don't just tell me what you think I want to hear.
🎞️ Bold and the Beautiful - 2021 (S34 E82) FULL EPISODE 8442

Episode: 82
Season: 34
Original Air Date: January 21, 2021

Mar 9

I never meant to hurt anyone, I just wanted to be loved.
🎞️ THE BOLD AND THE BEAUTIFUL


Mar 9

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-09, 15-27-11, France 2
🇮🇹 - 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿





Mar 9

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Mar 9

🏉 Sei Nazioni, 2024-03-09, 16-18-09, Cielo
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Mar 9

Simpsons Comics #115 is the one hundred and fifteenth issue of Simpsons Comics. It was released in the USA and Canada in February 2006. 

 Mar 9

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-09, 17-46-00, France 2
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 Mar 9

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-09, 18-44-20, France 2
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 Mar 9

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-09, 18-44-20, France 2
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Mar 10

How many of us are hiding? Because of things we've gone through, hiding our potential. Hiding our personality, hiding our smile. You have so much to offer but the way many people handle hurts, failures and disappointments is to isolate. To disengage. Turn their feelings off. Push down any emotions. Not pursuing any dreams. They show up at work but they're not really there. They have great ideas but they never share them. Defense mode, not participate, hiding
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

Finding The Lost You | Joel Osteen
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

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Mar 10

God can't heal what's hidden. He's asking you to come out. To get back, engage. But he is not going to force you. You have to make that choice to come out of isolation. Come out of fear. Come out of shame. Come out of regrets and get back in the game. That part that you've lost, can I encourage you, it's looking for you right now. The joy, talent, the favor, the confidence, is knocking on your door. The creative You. The outgoing you, compassionate you.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo
Finding The Lost You | Joel Osteen

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Mar 10

People can't make you feel inferior unless you give them permission. They don't determine your worth and value. What they say, how they treat you – doesn't change what God made you to be. Now quit giving them permission.
I dealt with it they way many of us do: went into hiding, I wasn't outgoing. I shrink back, unsure of myself, wonder what people would think. Letting someone else determine value.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo
Finding The Lost You | Joel Osteen

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Mar 10

I had to make that decision to come out of hiding. To not worry what other people think. To not let disappointments take my passion. If I hadn't done that, I wouldn't be up here today. Is there some area that you need to come out of hiding? You've let what didn't work, what someone said, how you were raised cause you to shrink back? Unplug? Now we're not seeing the best of you.
Maybe you've let disappointment, or a mistake cause you to hide your personality.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo
Finding The Lost You | Joel Osteen

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Mar 10

The enemy will whisper his lies, trying to deceive us into hiding. “You're not talented enough”, “You've made too many mistakes”, “You'll never be successful”, “You come from wrong family”. You need to ask yourself where are these thoughts are coming from? If they're negative, discouraging, pushing you down, making you feel unworthy, you can be certain they are not from God. Let them in one ear,out another.
People don't determine our value. Not negative chat
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

 Mar 10

You have to do your part: come out of hiding. Come out of shame. Come out of guilt. And get back in the game. We need you. Your family needs you fully engaged. Healthy and whole. Your friends need you. Not the partial you. But the full you. The outgoing you. The loving you. The friendly you. Who told you that you will never be happy again? That disappointment ruined your future? The enemy wouldn't tell you that if he'd knew this wasn't going to happen.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo
Finding The Lost You | Joel Osteen

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You may feel like you've lost yourself, but the good news is, you can find yourself again. God is about to breathe new life into you. 

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Mar 10

When you go through hurts, mistreatment, bad breaks, there's this natural tendency to isolate. Disengage and become angry. We put up these defenses and think, this is just who I am. I'm bitter because of bad childhood, I'm angry because company did me wrong. I've given up on my dream because I made so many bad decisions. There's so much more in you. You just let that defense mechanism cause you to isolate. Thinking it's the way to deal with it. Where are you
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRFr20Aqqo
Finding The Lost You | Joel Osteen

224,615 views  4 Mar 2024  #JoelOsteen
You may feel like you've lost yourself, but the good news is, you can find yourself again. God is about to breathe new life into you. 

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Mar 10

No one ever erected a statue to a critic.
🟦 Werner Erhard

https://www.picturequotes.com/werner-erhard-quotes

Mar 10

When nothing is sure, everything is possible.
🟦 Margaret Drabble


Mar 10

This sounds like commercial for Duolingo:


Mar 10

Stop proving that you were ok.
🟦 Werner Erhard

https://www.picturequotes.com/if-you-could-really-accept-that-you-werent-ok-you-could-stop-proving-you-were-ok-if-you-could-stop-quote-248665

Mar 10

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-10, 16-11-50, France 2
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Mar 10

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-10, 16-11-50, France 2
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Mar 10

"It's nothing to be alarmed about" scene
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WVyzTAbNXls

Ted Striker, a former pilot who has a fear of flying, finds himself burdened with the responsibility of landing a plane safely when most of the crew and passengers fall sick due to food poisoning.
Release date: July 2, 1980 (USA)
Directors: David Zucker, Jim Abrahams, Jerry Zucker
Budget: 3.5 million USD
Box office: 171 million USD
Distributed by: Paramount Pictures
Based on: Zero Hour!; by Arthur Hailey; Hall Bartlett; John Champion

 Mar 11

A lot of problems that people have in social realm is they're not practical. If you're thinking in terms of what you really want it changes the whole game. If you want somebody to do your bidding, to help you, to finance your film whatever, if you come at from this is what I deserve, please give me this, I'm so brilliant, it has no effect. But if you think in terms of how they think the stories the wanna hear, interest them, the game changes. You have the power to influence them.
🟦 Robert Greene

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/LGD1InoTxZE

Mar 11

I've spoken to different psychologist and psychiatrists who do not believe in generalized anxiety disorder or social anxiety disorder. And they think it's a function of your unmanaged ADHD or trauma. Social anxiety should be social anxiety whenever you're in a social situation but you're saying that when you can be yourself you don't have that social anxiety.
🟥 Social or Situational Anxiety?
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8eDSDoagrfs

 https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8eDSDoagrfs

Mar 11

Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito at Oscars 2024 and Michael Keaton



Mar 11

🇩🇪 Drug related deaths in Germany


Mar 11

🇫🇷 Brittany/Bretagne

 




Mar 11

Simpsons Comics #117 is the one-hundred and seventeenth issue of Simpsons Comics. It was released in the USA and Canada in April 2006.

Mar 11

The way you're leading your life now, hiding, living for your father, making comments about people who have done nothing but being who they are, doesn't sound exactly heroic to me.
🎞️ WILL & GRACE



Mar 12

When a narcissistic person seeks someone it's because it works for them. And that means supply and often status. So if you were doing well – that made you quite attractive to them. What happens to our self-esteem once we are in narcissistic relationship is an entirely different story though. Folks with lower self esteem may be more prone to getting stuck in these relationships. Devaluation, invalidation, self blame are more automatic.
🟥 DoctorRamani
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSMCTd6L40

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSMCTd6L40
How has your SELF-ESTEEM been shaped by a narcissistic relationship?

19,651 views  8 Mar 2024
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Mar 12

You healthy self-esteem would represent a threat in this relationship. And we get indoctrinated into silencing ourselves. So we never leave narcissistic people. Feeling small, as if we're competition. When we get out of relationship our self-esteem can restore. The more stable and accurate our self-esteem was to begin with, the smoother the process of healing. Self-esteem is not about thinking yourself as great. It is about seeing yourself accurately.
🟥 DoctorRamani
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSMCTd6L40

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSMCTd6L40
How has your SELF-ESTEEM been shaped by a narcissistic relationship?


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Mar 12

The appearance that the cult leader has – everything they're doing is to armor against the shame inside, the grandiosity, the clothing, the lifestyle it's all just to protect against any of that ever getting revealed. And God forbid it gets revealed. Because then you as the cult member you're f*cked. If you expose it in some way, they're coming after you.
- There's subset of narcissism – compensatory. Make up for shame that they feel.
🟥 RICHARD GRANNON
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RuoCLh9lo5o
Narcissistic Trauma Is The Cult Leaders Coping Mechanism For Their Shame
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Mar 12

People never change. They just get better in hiding who they are.
🎞️ Fantasy Island (2020)

When the owner and operator of a luxurious island invites a collection of guests to live out their most elaborate fantasies in relative seclusion, chaos quickly descends.

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Mar 13

There's no point in ever pressuring somebody who has terrible behavior. He has shown you time and time again through his behavior who he is – so all the psychologizing in the world about ADHD, CPTSD, “take responsibility”, watch these videos – that's your mind playing tricks on you that somehow you can get control over this terrible situation. It's very unlikely you can force somebody to change.
🟥 Crappy Childhood Fairy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syWJHEvTCS8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syWJHEvTCS8
How Trauma-Driven Thinking Pushes You Into TRAPS
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A history of trauma can leave you defenseless against terrible mistakes. When you feel confused and you find yourself hiding the truth of your life from the people who care about you, you may be in a dangerous state of denial. Denial is a destructive force, and when you’re in it, you can’t see it. Everything depends on reaching out for help. In this video I respond to a letter from a woman who is psychologically trapped in an exploitative "marriage." Hear my advice for how to wake up and get support to prevent more damage to her life.

Mar 13

If you were raised by a toxic parent, you may be anxious, hypersensitive and distrustful of other people. You may isolate yourself. You may choose to be alone. And people may assume that you’re arrogant or that you think you’re better than them. But you’re just trying to avoid the toxicity. Because when you were raised in this type of environment and you become aware of it, you begin to see it everywhere. And you feel like there’s nowhere to go but within yourself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQ0Rf5Gk_b4

 Mar 13

I don't have to defend myself. I don't have to beg them to hear me. When clients begin to become aware of how their childhoods have impacted them, they often struggle with the need, belief or feeling that they should tell their parents what they think and know. You can't make someone acknowledge how they harmed you. How their words affected you, their inability to love in consistent way allowed to believe that the world is safe.
🟥 Lisa A. Romano
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Signs You Were Raised by a Toxic Parent/The Invisible Scars of Childhood Trauma
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#toxicparenting #toxicparents #dysfunctionalfamily In this video, learn about the signs you were raised by a toxic parent. Adult children from narcissistic, toxic, dysfunctional, or neglectful homes often do not realize how the way they were treated by their parents impacts them over a lifetime. In this video, Lisa A. Romano will unveil some of the signs that indicate that you were raised by a toxic parent. 

In this video, you will hear some of the things toxic parents say to their children and learn about the invisible scars verbal abuse causes. Children who experience emotional neglect and childhood trauma, often struggle with setting boundaries, speaking up for themselves, and with feeling good about who they are. Toxic parents condition their children to live in states of hypervigilance, which can lead to codependency, low self esteem, and feeling not good enough.

If you are ready to breakthrough the patterns, programs, and faulty beliefs created by adverse childhood conditions, visit the following link to learn how you can begin working with Lisa and her team for a 90 day intensive healing journey.
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Mar 13

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Mar 15

When we were regularly told maybe we're told to stop running because it makes dad mad, or when we're crying we're told that we're being too much, we end up internalizing a belief that we're responsible for someone else's emotions. For how they feel. For what they think. We end up learning that our joy can upset other people, or that our crying and emotions are undesirable. So we start to disconnect from ourselves.
🟥 The Holistic Psychologist
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HOW TO HEAL FROM CODEPENDENCY


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Mar 15

We end up becoming more attentive or hypervigilant to the people around us. We're always worrying about if we're upsetting someone. Some of us even end up going into a caretaker role. Where we're always on the lookout for something anyone else could want or need, and in the same time we're neglecting ourselves. We become adult who doesn't know and value oneself. We end up over-relying on other people to feel good about ourselves. Codependency.
🟥 The Holistic Psychologist
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HOW TO HEAL FROM CODEPENDENCY
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 Mar 15

Although often overlooked, sensitivity to emotions is one of the most common symptoms of high functioning autism. These individuals can function in day-to-day life but struggle to control their emotions the same way that neurotypical, or non-autistic people, are able to do. For example, a frustrating morning experience like running out of milk or being cut off while driving can cause irritability and difficulty concentrating for the rest of the day.
https://www.appliedbehavioranalysisprogram

Mar 15

So called "mild" autism doesn't mean one experiences autism mildly. It means you experience their autism mildly. You may not know how hard they've worked to get to the level they are.
(adam walton)

https://hes-extraordinary.com/high-functioning-autistic-falling-through-cracks

Mar 15

most NT people classify or describe someone's autism is based on how it effects or impacts THEM, not how it effects the autistic person. People are aware of my ADHD/autism, but they still can't seem to understand why I struggle as much as I do, because to them, it SEEMS like it shouldn't effect me as much as it does. Then it becomes a character flaw to them...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iIuWWOC2FHA

Mar 15

It sounds as though high-functioning means your challenges are less. What it really means is whatever struggle I'm going through, you can't see them. Putting in a huge amount of effort behind the scenes to appear to be doing really well. The key here is the amount of effort that it takes to do really well. All of these times we've been pushing ourselves to our absolute limit, behind the scenes where you can't see it.
🟥 Autism From The Inside
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIdJ-IVNc_g
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High Functioning Autism is not what you think. There are a lot of stereotypes out there but what it actually looks like in adults can be quite different. It's also a myth that 'high functioning' means reduced challenges. Often the opposite is true. High functioning means, invisible needs, and if those needs aren't supported the results can be catastrophic.

Mar 15

Neurodiversity is a concept, it was developed by a social worker and an autism advocate named Judy Singer. She talked about it as an allegory with biodiversity. So in any healthy ecosystem we need to have a huge diversity of plants and animals and species to make that ecosystem work well. As humans, the concept of neurodiversity is the same so that autistic ADHD people, are part of same community rather than there is a norm.
🟥 PBS Vitals
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How Adult Autism Goes Undetected


235,599 views  2 Mar 2023
You’re an adult and you think you are autistic, what do you do? Autism, psychologically diagnosed as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), is most commonly thought of as a developmental disorder diagnosed during childhood. In 2018, the CDC reported that 1 in 44 US children were diagnosed as autistic, but what happens when these kids grow up? And what about those that fell through a gap in the system and were under-reported. In this episode of Vitals, we hear from Kip Chow, an autistic advocate, educator, and someone that was officially diagnosed as autistic as an adult, on why they think the system for assessing autism is lacking.  We also spoke to Dr. Lesley Cook, a clinical psychologist and an expert in the field of neurodiversity-affirming assessment and treatment of children, adolescents and adults. 

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Mar 15

High-functioning are very rigid. They're very structure and order oriented. They make lists. Go through robotic routines. They're very predictable, machine-like. They have repetitive and restrictive habits. And very often people find them very odd because they're very compulsive and insistent on these habits, procedures, routines. They're devoted to them. And they become very dysregulated, very anxious if they can't carry out these routines.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GjuAdqi1nA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GjuAdqi1nA
High-functioning Autism: Psychopathy? Narcissism?


79,420 views  29 Mar 2021  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
People with high-functioning autism lack empathy and engage in criminal behaviors. Are they psychopaths? Narcissists?

Autism is not caused by vaccines, that much we know. But is it caused by bad parenting?

Refrigerator Mothers

The concept of “refrigerator mothers” has been long debunked. Autism is a brain disorder and possibly hereditary. It is not linked to bad parenting. But a dead, narcissistic mother can cause her autistic child to defend himself by developing narcissism.
 
ADHD has been intimately linked to the precursors in children of adult narcissism and psychopathy: conduct disorder and oppositional defiant disorder (ODD).

A bad, dead, cold, mother fosters in the autistic child narcissistic defenses and in her other children attention deficits, hyperactivity, and antisocial behavior. These dysfunctions make it difficult for the child to translate his/her reflexive empathy into mentalizing a theory of mind. Early childhood abuse and trauma, therefore, inhibit the development of a mature form of empathy, with cognitive and emotional components.

There are three problems with raising awareness and educating people about Autism Spectrum Disorders:

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 Mar 16

Autism spectrum disorders are very often misdiagnosed as personality disorders. NPD should never be diagnosed before the end of adolescence and early young adulthood. Pathological narcissism is not pathological when it occurs in children and in adolescence. Narcissism generally is very healthy in these two phases of separation and individuation when we acquire identity, when we differentiate  roles, when we learn to be what we later become.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo
Are Autistic People Narcissists? (READ DESCRIPTION) ( Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Oct 2020)


29,440 views  22 Oct 2020  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
Speaker in the Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Pharmacovigilance, and Clinical Trials and Drug Safety, October 2020

My topic: "Narcissism and Autism".

There are three problems with raising awareness and educating people about Autism Spectrum Disorders:

1. We don't know the aetiology of autism (what causes it) and whether the brain abnormalities often observed in autistic patients cause it, are caused by it, or are merely correlated (effectuated by a third, common factor);

2. Autism is a family of disorders which have little in common with each other. Some autistic persons are high-functioning and accomplished, others self-harm, are hypersensitive to stimuli, and noncommumicative; and

3. The long-discredited, "refrigerator mother" theory blamed emotionally unavailable, "dead", or "frigid" mothers for the pathogenesis of autism in their children. This deterred parents from seeking help.

The ignorance, taboos, stigma, biases, prejudices, and lack of evidence-based theories and practices that pervade mental health apply even more so to autism.

Speaker in other international conferences on psychology, psychiatry, mental health, and neuroscience:

Mar 16

Learning to become, taking on the world, exploring our environment, assuming risks –these requires grandiosity –it requires narcissism. Healthy narcissism underlies a regulated sense of self-esteem, self-confidence and a sense of self-worth. But Asperger's and other autistic spectrum disorders can safely be diagnosed even at the age of 3. The Asperger's disorder patient is self-centered exactly like narcissist. Patient is like imitating and not behaving
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo
Are Autistic People Narcissists? (READ DESCRIPTION) ( Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Oct 2020)

29,440 views  22 Oct 2020  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
Speaker in the Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Pharmacovigilance, and Clinical Trials and Drug Safety, October 2020

My topic: "Narcissism and Autism".

There are three problems with raising awareness and educating people about Autism Spectrum Disorders:

1. We don't know the aetiology of autism (what causes it) and whether the brain abnormalities often observed in autistic patients cause it, are caused by it, or are merely correlated (effectuated by a third, common factor);

2. Autism is a family of disorders which have little in common with each other. Some autistic persons are high-functioning and accomplished, others self-harm, are hypersensitive to stimuli, and noncommumicative; and

3. The long-discredited, "refrigerator mother" theory blamed emotionally unavailable, "dead", or "frigid" mothers for the pathogenesis of autism in their children. This deterred parents from seeking help.

The ignorance, taboos, stigma, biases, prejudices, and lack of evidence-based theories and practices that pervade mental health apply even more so to autism.

Speaker in other international conferences on psychology, psychiatry, mental health, and neuroscience:

 Mar 16

The narcissist switches between social agility/gregariousness and social impairment/schizoid mode. And these switches are voluntary. They're utterly controllable. They are choices. Also defiance, reactants, anti-social behavior are choices. Everything that narcissist does are choices. His social dysfunction is outcome of conscious deliberate premediated haughtiness and and reluctance to invest mental energy in cultivating relationships with inferior others
🟥 P. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo
Are Autistic People Narcissists? (READ DESCRIPTION) ( Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Oct 2020)

29,440 views  22 Oct 2020  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
Speaker in the Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Pharmacovigilance, and Clinical Trials and Drug Safety, October 2020

My topic: "Narcissism and Autism".

There are three problems with raising awareness and educating people about Autism Spectrum Disorders:

1. We don't know the aetiology of autism (what causes it) and whether the brain abnormalities often observed in autistic patients cause it, are caused by it, or are merely correlated (effectuated by a third, common factor);

2. Autism is a family of disorders which have little in common with each other. Some autistic persons are high-functioning and accomplished, others self-harm, are hypersensitive to stimuli, and noncommumicative; and

3. The long-discredited, "refrigerator mother" theory blamed emotionally unavailable, "dead", or "frigid" mothers for the pathogenesis of autism in their children. This deterred parents from seeking help.

The ignorance, taboos, stigma, biases, prejudices, and lack of evidence-based theories and practices that pervade mental health apply even more so to autism.

Speaker in other international conferences on psychology, psychiatry, mental health, and neuroscience:

Mar 16

Everyone is inferior to narcissist. Not worthy of his cosmically precious time and resources. It's not the case with autistic patient. When the narcissist is confronted with potential sources of narcissistic supply (attention, adulation, admiration) the narcissist easily switches, regains his social skills. He becomes charming. He becomes sociable. He suddenly loves people. He suddenly love bombs them, grooms, tries to convert to long term supply.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo
Are Autistic People Narcissists? (READ DESCRIPTION) ( Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Oct 2020)

29,440 views  22 Oct 2020  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
Speaker in the Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Pharmacovigilance, and Clinical Trials and Drug Safety, October 2020

My topic: "Narcissism and Autism".

There are three problems with raising awareness and educating people about Autism Spectrum Disorders:

1. We don't know the aetiology of autism (what causes it) and whether the brain abnormalities often observed in autistic patients cause it, are caused by it, or are merely correlated (effectuated by a third, common factor);

2. Autism is a family of disorders which have little in common with each other. Some autistic persons are high-functioning and accomplished, others self-harm, are hypersensitive to stimuli, and noncommumicative; and

3. The long-discredited, "refrigerator mother" theory blamed emotionally unavailable, "dead", or "frigid" mothers for the pathogenesis of autism in their children. This deterred parents from seeking help.

The ignorance, taboos, stigma, biases, prejudices, and lack of evidence-based theories and practices that pervade mental health apply even more so to autism.

Speaker in other international conferences on psychology, psychiatry, mental health, and neuroscience:

Mar 16

The narcissist can choose to be pro-social and communal. The autistic patient cannot. Never mind how hard he wish he could, he cannot. Many narcissist reach highest ranks of their community, they become pillars of community, chief executive officers of Fortune 500 companies. They head voluntary organizations, they become famous actors, politicians, they make it. They are very adept at social game. Extortion of supply puts end to his career.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV9yVbe5iFo
Are Autistic People Narcissists? (READ DESCRIPTION) ( Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Oct 2020)

29,440 views  22 Oct 2020  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
Speaker in the Webinar on Psychosomatic Medicine, Pharmacovigilance, and Clinical Trials and Drug Safety, October 2020

My topic: "Narcissism and Autism".

There are three problems with raising awareness and educating people about Autism Spectrum Disorders:

1. We don't know the aetiology of autism (what causes it) and whether the brain abnormalities often observed in autistic patients cause it, are caused by it, or are merely correlated (effectuated by a third, common factor);

2. Autism is a family of disorders which have little in common with each other. Some autistic persons are high-functioning and accomplished, others self-harm, are hypersensitive to stimuli, and noncommumicative; and

3. The long-discredited, "refrigerator mother" theory blamed emotionally unavailable, "dead", or "frigid" mothers for the pathogenesis of autism in their children. This deterred parents from seeking help.

The ignorance, taboos, stigma, biases, prejudices, and lack of evidence-based theories and practices that pervade mental health apply even more so to autism.

Speaker in other international conferences on psychology, psychiatry, mental health, and neuroscience:

Mar 16

As an autistic person, I've learned recently that the ways I express empathy can sometimes be misconstrued as narcissistic. For example, when someone is telling me about a hard time they're going through, and I've experienced something similar, I'll tell them about my own experience. I've learned that this can be seen as narcissistically trying to shift focus onto myself, but in my mind, its empathetic because I'm trying to comfort them

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEDda93M_mg

Mar 16

some autistic have hyper-empathy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEDda93M_mg

Mar 16

They are not indifferent in knowing that they harmed someone when they are told about it. In fact individuals with autism spectrum disorder may often be quite genuinely remorseful and sad at learning that they may have caused harm to another person through their words or straightforwardness. Giving such feedback will check in and apologize and try to learn better. Person with narcissism will minimize, dismiss and be contemptuous.
🟥 DoctorRamani
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEDda93M_mg
Why autism is DIFFERENT from narcissism

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Mar 16

You create the world of the dream. We bring the subject into that dream, and they fill it with their subconscious.
Well, dreams, they feel real while we're in them, right? It's only when we wake up that we realize something was actually strange. You never really remember the beginning of a dream, do you? You always wind up right in the middle of what's going on.
🎞️ Inception (2010)

A thief who steals corporate secrets through the use of dream-sharing technology is given the inverse task of planting an idea into the mind of a C.E.O., but his tragic past may doom the project and his team to disaster.

Director
Christopher Nolan
Writer
Christopher Nolan
Stars
Leonardo DiCaprioJoseph Gordon-LevittElliot Page

Mar 16

You can literally talk to my subconscious. That's one of the ways we extract information from the subject.
- How else do you do it?
- By creating something secure, like a bank vault or a jail. The mind automatically fills it with information it's trying to protect.
🎞️ Inception (2010)

A thief who steals corporate secrets through the use of dream-sharing technology is given the inverse task of planting an idea into the mind of a C.E.O., but his tragic past may doom the project and his team to disaster.

Director
Christopher Nolan
Writer
Christopher Nolan
Stars
Leonardo DiCaprioJoseph Gordon-LevittElliot Page

Mar 16

Why are they all looking at me?
- Because my subconscious feels that someone else is creating this world. The more you change things, the quicker the projections start to converge on you. They sense the foreign nature of the dreamer. They attack, like white blood cells fighting an infection.
🎞️ Inception (2010)

A thief who steals corporate secrets through the use of dream-sharing technology is given the inverse task of planting an idea into the mind of a C.E.O., but his tragic past may doom the project and his team to disaster.

Director
Christopher Nolan
Writer
Christopher Nolan
Stars
Leonardo DiCaprioJoseph Gordon-LevittElliot Page

Mar 16

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Mar 16

Narcissists tend to be incapable of something called "object constancy," which means they struggle to have positive feelings at the same time as negative ones.
Once they are fired up for a fight, they can be incredibly cruel, because all they can comprehend in the moment are feelings of resentment and anger.
As a result, an argument about the smallest of issues can escalate quickly/fiercely.
they will use everything in their power to make you feel insignificant and small.
https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-sto

Mar 16

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Mar 17

 Let's say a person who works in a toxic workplace environment is harassed, demeaned, diminished, demoted or maybe even fired, I'm amazed how many people who have endured harassment of some form in the workplace actually feel ashamed. They weren't the perpetrator. This was something that was done to them. Shame is something within themselves that is imprisoning them. It comes from legacy issues of narcissistic family. Carry that identity of being damaged
🟥 DoctorRamani
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTyIOO6czJU
The shame people feel when they come from narcissistic families

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May 17

Coming from dysfunctional family does not make you damaged. That is simply a part of story. But if you carry that identity that you are somehow shameful or damaged the choices you make in your life are going to be in line with that identity. Your narcissistic family has already harmed you enough. Don't let them keep harming you by holding on to the identities they've put on you of you being less than.
🟥 DoctorRamani
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTyIOO6czJU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTyIOO6czJU
The shame people feel when they come from narcissistic families
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Mar 17

🏉 Rugby - Tournoi des Six Nations, 2024-03-16, 18-41-59, France 2
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Mar 17

🏉 XV-15, 2024-03-16, 20-29-20, France 2
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Mar 17

You don't have to allow what is outside to get inside. Just because you are surrounded by situations that should be frustrating, they talk about me I should be offended – don't let storm get in you. If you are controlled by your circumstances, life is going to be rollercoaster. When you are at peace, you are at position of power. There is rest. All that time you spend worrying you are draining your energy.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
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Stay In Peace | Joel Osteen

35,036 views  14 Mar 2024  LAKEWOOD CHURCH
Don't let outside circumstances influence your inner peace and joy. When you know God is directing your steps, you can live at rest no matter what you're facing.

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Mar 17

☘️ La fête de la Saint-Patrick et de la Bretagne au Dôme de Paris

La fête de la Saint-Patrick et de la Bretagne au Dôme de Paris, 2024-03-17, 14-40-28, France 5

En 2023, la Fête de la Saint-Patrick a invité la Bretagne à venir célébrer son quinzième anniversaire lors d'une soirée au Dôme de Paris. Avec pour la première fois la participation de Dan Ar Braz et la commémoration sur scène des 70 ans du Bagad de Lann Bihoué. Les "Marins d'Iroise" et le Pipe Band de musique écossaise, le Samarobriva Pipe Band sont également de la partie, ainsi que l'un des meilleurs cercles de danse de Bretagne, le Cercle du Croisty, plusieurs fois nominé Meilleur groupe de danse bretonne. Enfin, les Irlandais Danceperados of Irlande, acclamés dans toute l'Europe, complètent l'affiche.

In 2023, St. Patrick's Day invited Brittany to come and celebrate its fifteenth anniversary during an evening at the Dôme de Paris. With for the first time the participation of Dan Ar Braz and the commemoration on stage of the 70th anniversary of Bagad by Lann Bihoué. The "Marins d'Iroise" and the Pipe Band of Scottish music, the Samarobriva Pipe Band are also there, as well as one of the best dance circles in Brittany, the Cercle du Croisty, several times nominated for Best Dance Group Breton. Finally, the Irish Danceperados of Ireland, acclaimed throughout Europe, complete the bill.


Mar 17

As long as you are pleasant, kind, and courteous you've done nothing wrong.
🟥 The INFJ Circle
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AcdeINWS64

Why the INFJ Destroys EGOS (without Even Trying)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AcdeINWS64

5,762 views  16 Mar 2024  #infj #myersbriggs #infjpersonalitytype
In this video I discuss the ways that INFJs can destroy the egos of others without even trying. While the INFJ is far from mean or malicious, they are unique - and many of the activities and topics they enjoy are intimidating to other people.

When you add on the fact that INFJs can see right through people, well, you have a vicious combo that is sure to destroy some egos.

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Mar 17

Mentalization goes with the assumption of intentionality. That is very confusing to many victims of narcissistic abuse because we observe narcissist behaving or psychopath or borderline. We try to mentalize the narcissist, try to understand. We try to make constructive theory as to what made borderline do what she did. But these theories fall flat. Because we can't really penetrate minds of narcissists, psychopaths and borderlines. So there is gap.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIefBSuvAGw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIefBSuvAGw
ADHD, Autism, Narcissism: No Empathy in Dead Mother Triad


78,609 views  13 Sept 2020  Mind of the Psychopathic Narcissist
The concept of “refrigerator mothers” has been long debunked.  Autism is a brain disorder. It is not linked to bad parenting. But a dead, narcissistic mother can cause her autistic child to defend himself by developing narcissism.

ADHD has been intimately linked to the precursors in children of adult narcissism and psychopathy: conduct disorder and oppositional defiant disorder (ODD).

A bad, dead, cold, mother fosters in the autistic child narcissistic defenses and in her other children attention deficits, hyperactivity, and antisocial behavior. These dysfunctions make it difficult for the child to translate his/her reflexive empathy into mentalizing a theory of mind. Early childhood abuse and trauma, therefore, inhibit the development of a mature form of empathy, with cognitive and emotional components.

Mar 17

In a dying culture, narcissism appears to embody - in the guise of personal "growth" and "awareness" - the highest attainment of spiritual enlightenment. The custodians of culture hope, at bottom, merely to survive its collapse.
🟦 Christopher Lasch


Mar 18

I don’t think social anxiety is regression.  On the contrary, it’s progression in being more aware of our surroundings, of other people’s thoughts and looking at us, of being judged, the possibility of being touched or talked to, etc.  
It’s very normal for social anxiety to progressively get worse from toddlerhood through puberty.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azygIvgcB_U

Mar 18

Righteousness turns to the one who in life is guided by Good Thought and Self-Dominance. It is in the radiance of these forces that he can redesign and cause this oppressed world to flourish.
🔥 Gathas of Zarathustra 15:3
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynZiSR6Wv0U

I Shall Speak Words Never Spoken Before | Zoroastrian Quotes from the Gathas of Zarathustra Spitama

427 views  13 Mar 2024  #zoroastrian #zoroastrianism #zarathustra
This video offers a unique glimpse into the spiritual teachings of Zarathustra, also known as Zoroaster, the renowned prophet of one of the world's oldest monotheistic religions, Zoroastrianism.

Who Was Zarathustra?
Zarathustra Spitama, known to the Greeks as Zoroaster, is a figure shrouded in the mists of ancient history. Believed to have lived between 1500 and 1000 BCE in the region that is now Iran, he was a spiritual leader and sage whose teachings challenged the existing beliefs of his time. He is credited with the authorship of the Gathas, the sacred hymns at the core of the Zoroastrian faith.

The Timeless Teachings of the Gathas
The Gathas are a collection of seventeen hymns that convey the core tenets of Zoroastrianism. Composed by Zarathustra, these verses encapsulate his revelations and expositions on the nature of existence, the cosmic struggle between good and evil, and the path toward righteousness and truth. The quotes in our video, drawn directly from these sacred texts, offer insights into the essence of good thoughts, words, and deeds — the triad that forms the foundation of Zoroastrian ethics.

Mar 18

The deceitful hurt us with their evil, but they know they may also be hurt.
They have nothing for people other than destruction and waste. That is why they flee Good Thought and reject your doctrine with hostility.
🔥 Gathas of Zarathustra 7:8

I Shall Speak Words Never Spoken Before | Zoroastrian Quotes from the Gathas of Zarathustra Spitama
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynZiSR6Wv0U
The Luminous Gift of Wisdom
The video emphasizes that wisdom and enlightenment are born from Good Thought. As Zarathustra recognized Ahura Mazda as the creator and sustainer of existence, he urged followers to engage in contemplation and attunement to divine guidance. The Gathas express this revelation as a personal and universal truth that can lead humanity to the ultimate joy of both the physical and the spiritual realms.

Overcoming Deception with Radiance
The radiant side of existence, according to Zarathustra, triumphs over deception. The Gathas encourage overcoming the deceivers' guile by clinging to the tenets of Good Thought and Righteousness. The video brings to life these powerful concepts, demonstrating how one can navigate life's challenges with integrity and spiritual clarity.

Mar 18

In order to achieve the ultimate goal of a long life, in harmony with Good Thought, I shall call upon my Inner Voice, the “Seraosha” (Holy Spirit), which is the best of all voices for support. ...and I will firmly step on the solid path of Righteousness, to reach Your abode of commandment, O Ahura Mazda (Lord God).
🔥 Gathas of Zarathustra 6:5

 I Shall Speak Words Never Spoken Before | Zoroastrian Quotes from the Gathas of Zarathustra Spitama

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynZiSR6Wv0U
Embodying Good Thought, Words, and Deeds
This video sheds light on Zarathustra's call for personal accountability and the significance of purity in thought, speech, and action. The Gathas speak to the transformative power of aligning oneself with Good Thought, as it leads to righteous Words and noble Deeds. The prophet’s words, still relevant today, encourage us to embody these principles in our daily lives.

"I Shall Sing You Songs No One Has Sung Before"
Zarathustra's commitment to sharing the wisdom revealed to him by Ahura Mazda is encapsulated in the quote, "I shall sing you songs no one has sung before." His voice, echoing across the ages, invites us to partake in a spiritual odyssey that transcends conventional understanding and guides us toward a higher purpose.

Mar 18

George Orwell's contention was that it is a sure sign of trouble when things can no longer be called by their right names and described in plain, forthright speech.
🟦 Christopher Lasch


Mar 18

🏉 Rugby. Serie A Elite maschile - 15a gior, 2024-03-17, 16-08-54, Rai Sport HD

 




Mar 18

🏉 Valorugby Emilia 31 - 13 Rangers Vicenza,
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Mar 19

🇮🇪 river Shannon

Der Shannon ist der längste Fluss Irlands. Auf einer Strecke von 340 Kilometern trennt er den rauen Westen von den sanfteren Hochebenen im Osten und ist Heimat einer faszinieren Tierwelt.

The Shannon is the longest river in Ireland. Over a distance of 340 kilometers, it separates the rugged west from the gentler plateaus in the east and is home to fascinating wildlife.



 Mar 20

I ain't no gunman. I couldn't kill anybody.
- I know that cowboy. You've just trying to impress the lady.
🎞️ Gunfight at the O.K. Corral (1957)

Lawman Wyatt Earp and outlaw Doc Holliday form an unlikely alliance which culminates in their participation in the legendary Gunfight at the O.K. Corral.

Director
John Sturges
Writers
Leon UrisGeorge Scullin
Stars
Burt LancasterKirk DouglasRhonda Fleming

 Mar 20

It's not your fault Katie. It's not my fault, it's not anybody's fault. It's just the way cards fold.
🎞️ Gunfight at the O.K. Corral (1957)

 Lawman Wyatt Earp and outlaw Doc Holliday form an unlikely alliance which culminates in their participation in the legendary Gunfight at the O.K. Corral.

Director
John Sturges
Writers
Leon UrisGeorge Scullin
Stars
Burt LancasterKirk DouglasRhonda Fleming

Mar 20

I'd give up anything. I'd go anywhere for you. But you got to meet me half way.
🎞️ Gunfight at the O.K. Corral (1957)

Lawman Wyatt Earp and outlaw Doc Holliday form an unlikely alliance which culminates in their participation in the legendary Gunfight at the O.K. Corral.

Director
John Sturges
Writers
Leon UrisGeorge Scullin
Stars
Burt LancasterKirk DouglasRhonda Fleming

Mar 20

Objects is fancy word for other people. If we do not have a strong sense of object constancy we begin to irrationally question the reality of our relationship to that object in its absence. It's about what they form perceptually in their minds when you're not there. Not what we form together, architecture, structure of this relationship together, all goes away when you're not there. When hands are not there and I can't see them, clinginess.
🟥 Object Constancy Theory
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WchjRvw6iUI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WchjRvw6iUI
Does the Borderline Miss You? Object Constancy Theory


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Mar 20

 🇹🇷 The Piri Reis map is a world map compiled in 1513 by the Ottoman admiral and cartographer Piri Reis.

Datoteka:Piri Reis map of Europe and the Mediterranean Sea.jpg – Wikipedija

Piri Reis map - Wikipedia

The Reality and Myth of the Piri Reis Map of 1513

Piri Reis map - Wikipedia

Mar 20

🇫🇷 Oronce Fine maps

A Modern and Complete Map of the World by the Royal Mathematician Oronce Fine

The Orontius Finaeus map - Bad Archaeology

Celestial Mechanics, by Oronce Fine (1549) – SOCKS

Le sphere de monde by Oronce Fine, 1549 f | Celestial mechanics, Celestial map

Mar 20

🎞️ Smurfs: The Lost Village (2017)

A mysterious map sets Smurfette and her friends Brainy, Clumsy and Hefty on an exciting race through the Forbidden Forest, leading to the discovery of the biggest secret in Smurf history.

Director
Kelly Asbury
Writers
Stacey HarmanPamela RibonPeyo
Stars
Demi LovatoRainn WilsonJoe Manganiello

Les Schtroumpfs et le village perdu, 2024-03-19, 21-29-27, Gulli



 Mar 21

people who are victims of narcissistic abuse will end up in therapy being diagnosed with all sorts of dehumanizing diagnosis - while the perpetrators of coercive control and abuse are left alone.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialAnxiety_Ide

Mar 21

We're only going to feel negative emotions if people have a reaction towards that we agree on some level. “Why are you not blonde?” If it is something that I don't have a judgement about at all, blonde being better, I don't have reaction towards that. If someone says and I don't have problem with that, I'm not going to care. More so, I am not going to think about what that person thinks in that instance.
🟥 Wenzes - INFJ LIFE COACH
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA
WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY DARES TO BE SEEN (this happens) - Rarest Personality Type MBTI

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INFJ Life Coach  Lesson: Today, we delve into the transformative journey of an INFJ when they finally embrace visibility. While fears of standing out are universal, INFJs seem to experience this fear amplified. The underlying reason is simple - our rarity. As only 1% of the population, our authenticity naturally draws attention, inviting both positive and negative reactions. Unlike others who blend in effortlessly, INFJs face a unique challenge. Yet, once we bravely step into the spotlight, confronting our deepest fears, an internal metamorphosis unfolds. This profound shift within us ultimately renders external opinions insignificant.

Mar 21

We feel the judgement, we feel the abandonment, we feel the rejection when there's part of us that believes that, as well. On a subconscious level we've been taught, conditioned, conditioned ourselves to feel like we're inadequate. If you feel if you express yourself people are going to see you and say you're weird, it's because deep down we believe that we are weird. Go out and allow to be seen. Not looking for external praise, I am not special
🟥 Wenzes - INFJ LIFE COACH
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA
WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY DARES TO BE SEEN (this happens) - Rarest Personality Type MBTI


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INFJ Life Coach  Lesson: Today, we delve into the transformative journey of an INFJ when they finally embrace visibility. While fears of standing out are universal, INFJs seem to experience this fear amplified. The underlying reason is simple - our rarity. As only 1% of the population, our authenticity naturally draws attention, inviting both positive and negative reactions. Unlike others who blend in effortlessly, INFJs face a unique challenge. Yet, once we bravely step into the spotlight, confronting our deepest fears, an internal metamorphosis unfolds. This profound shift within us ultimately renders external opinions insignificant.

Mar 21

You actually get to a place where you say, I wanna get to place where I don't feel that external judgement. And I also am not looking for external praise. Get to place I am worthy no matter what I say, no matter what I do. You'll see how much of those things that you might've been ashamed of, are actually part of what makes you so great and what you like about yourself. Independent of what other people might think about it.
🟥 Wenzes - INFJ LIFE COACH
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA
WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY DARES TO BE SEEN (this happens) - Rarest Personality Type MBTI

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INFJ Life Coach  Lesson: Today, we delve into the transformative journey of an INFJ when they finally embrace visibility. While fears of standing out are universal, INFJs seem to experience this fear amplified. The underlying reason is simple - our rarity. As only 1% of the population, our authenticity naturally draws attention, inviting both positive and negative reactions. Unlike others who blend in effortlessly, INFJs face a unique challenge. Yet, once we bravely step into the spotlight, confronting our deepest fears, an internal metamorphosis unfolds. This profound shift within us ultimately renders external opinions insignificant.

Mar 21

Take back control how we feel about ourselves. If you subconsciously believe that you can't be yourself, because that is unacceptable, you're going to surround yourself with people who believe the same thing, who wouldn't accept you for you being yourself. There will be a shift in dynamic because you are going to show up as a different person, and connect in different way. Fear of abandonment, judgement, rejection always held you back.
🟥 Wenzes - INFJ LIFE COACH
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA
WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY DARES TO BE SEEN (this happens) - Rarest Personality Type MBTI

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INFJ Life Coach  Lesson: Today, we delve into the transformative journey of an INFJ when they finally embrace visibility. While fears of standing out are universal, INFJs seem to experience this fear amplified. The underlying reason is simple - our rarity. As only 1% of the population, our authenticity naturally draws attention, inviting both positive and negative reactions. Unlike others who blend in effortlessly, INFJs face a unique challenge. Yet, once we bravely step into the spotlight, confronting our deepest fears, an internal metamorphosis unfolds. This profound shift within us ultimately renders external opinions insignificant.

Mar 21

Learn more about who you are, and you become more of who you are, and you continue to do things that make you excited about being you – you get to show up as yourself and say, if anybody around me wants to connect with me, then only while I'm being myself. And that is the necessary ingredient in order to feel connected. If we don't dare to be seen because we believe there is unlovable part we're never get to place other see real you.
🟥 Wenzes - INFJ LIFE COACH
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utPF3201_cA
WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY DARES TO BE SEEN (this happens) - Rarest Personality Type MBTI

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INFJ Life Coach  Lesson: Today, we delve into the transformative journey of an INFJ when they finally embrace visibility. While fears of standing out are universal, INFJs seem to experience this fear amplified. The underlying reason is simple - our rarity. As only 1% of the population, our authenticity naturally draws attention, inviting both positive and negative reactions. Unlike others who blend in effortlessly, INFJs face a unique challenge. Yet, once we bravely step into the spotlight, confronting our deepest fears, an internal metamorphosis unfolds. This profound shift within us ultimately renders external opinions insignificant.

Mar 21

Linear Perspective: Brunelleschi's Experiment translate the volumetric world that we move through, through time, one a frozen two-dimensional surface is really an extraordinary achievement.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkNMM8uiMww


Mar 22

A big thing for me was actually realizing my family dynamic was not normal and to learn to regulate my nervous system on my own and move on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GFepbkhil4

Mar 22

Like Charlie Brown cartoon: she puts football down, he runs to kick it and she pulls it back every time. The narcissistic parent will end up doing that as well. They'll set the ball down, let's have a good time, & as soon you get there they pull it back. And then give you some criticism, doubting you, doubting your reality, shaming, guilting, and this causes lots of problems it keeps us hanging on. We want acceptance, them apologizing. That is not conditional
🟥 Jerry Wise
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GFepbkhil4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GFepbkhil4
Narcissistic Parents: Dirty Ways they Will Sabotage Your Detachment Process


10,998 views  17 Mar 2024  Breaking Free from Narcissistic Parents & Family
In this video, I discuss some of the ways and tactics narcissistic parents use to stop you from detaching from them.

If you're finally ready to get your dysfunctional, narcissistic family out of you and enjoy a life free of their toxic grip, here's how I can help👇🏼

Mar 22

“I think you are stupid”. - And your point is? So what! You think I'm stupid. How does that change the world? You come to that belief or maybe you haven't even come to that belief but you're going to use that phrase to try trick and dirty-trick me back into being enmeshed with you. Because now I'm going to be upset. If I can upset you, I can capture you. And I can enmesh with you. We already are enmeshed. It does not matter to me your inner dialogue.
🟥 Jerry Wise
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GFepbkhil4

Narcissistic Parents: Dirty Ways they Will Sabotage Your Detachment Process
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GFepbkhil4

10,998 views  17 Mar 2024  Breaking Free from Narcissistic Parents & Family
In this video, I discuss some of the ways and tactics narcissistic parents use to stop you from detaching from them.

If you're finally ready to get your dysfunctional, narcissistic family out of you and enjoy a life free of their toxic grip, here's how I can help👇🏼

🔥Access my FREE Training - ‘Build the Self You Were Never Allowed to Have!’ https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webina...

Mar 22

I'm going to stay out of your inner dialogue- Their feelings and their actions. Detach from those. Stay out of their emotional process. Because we get into their emotional process then we're all churning up inside here with them. If you want today not to be upset by them at all, I'd give you magic pill, magic wand, what would be downside? Would you have relationship with them? For some bad is better due to abandonment fears. Or hope for change.
🟥 Jerry Wise
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GFepbkhil4

Narcissistic Parents: Dirty Ways they Will Sabotage Your Detachment Process
10,998 views  17 Mar 2024  Breaking Free from Narcissistic Parents & Family
In this video, I discuss some of the ways and tactics narcissistic parents use to stop you from detaching from them.

If you're finally ready to get your dysfunctional, narcissistic family out of you and enjoy a life free of their toxic grip, here's how I can help👇🏼

🔥Access my FREE Training - ‘Build the Self You Were Never Allowed to Have!’ https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webina...

Mar 22

No contact – this is not to be used as some type of tool or weapon  that's abuse. The relationship is over. Closure – we feel responsible for them and we need closure to know why relationship is over. If not, we will think it's us. Like child that doesn't understand divorce and internalizes it and says it's me. It's good with obsessive unstable people like this to make it clear. Never contact me again. They will threaten you.
🟥 NO CONTACT With the Borderline
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okvvBcqBhVk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okvvBcqBhVk
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Mar 22

You want to help borderline – reject them. It's just like drug addict. Will not stop with everybody being sweet and nice and give everything they need. We make biggest changes in our life due to fear of loss. I'm about to lose everything – okay I'll quit. If borderlines are going to get help and they can, they're not going to do with you holding their hand and giving them everything they need. They go to lose some.
🟥 NO CONTACT With the Borderline
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okvvBcqBhVk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okvvBcqBhVk

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Mar 22

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Scotland





Mar 23

When you're connected to God's wisdom you look like dummy to everybody else.
Go before you're prepared. Once you have a plan, once you have a vision – act. Do. Go. You got many opportunities, you don't have a lot of time. When you win, you learn nothing. Keep losing.
✝️ HOUR OF POWER
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Get a Breakthrough - Bobby Schuller Sermons


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🇮🇪 Irischer Kompass: Grüner Süden

The basking shark

A journey of discovery shows the diverse landscapes of Ireland - spread across the four cardinal points of the compass rose. The Irish island has a particularly varied natural backdrop, from extensive sandy beaches and dune landscapes to steep coasts, lush green plateaus and idyllic islands. The striking differences in topography and nature influence culture and the lives of the residents. Each region has its own history, is different in nature and climate and shaped by the people who live there.

Kilani National Park

The Waterford Greenway

Mar 23

🇮🇪 Copper Coast

Irischer Kompass - Grüner Süden
Der Süden Irlands kommt mit seiner mystischen grünen Landschaft und verträumten Seen dem Klischeebild der "Grünen Insel" am nächsten. Im Südwesten ragen bergige Halbinseln in den Atlantik.

 

UNESCO Geopark


Mar 24

When I dared point out BP behaviors, I’m a gaslighter.  When I restrained her from punching me in the face, I’m the abuser.  With professional help, I’ve escaped the BP blender and things make sense again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iMFm-JB_l4

Mar 24

When they get into rages, if they're around people who believe whatever they're raging about, it can be really bad for the non-personality disordered people around them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iMFm-JB_l4

Mar 24

Don't allow somebody to decide who you are. Everyone's equal in this world and we're all worthy of what we need, and want. If you don't believe so, you aren't going to find it and you can't wait for somebody else to come along and make you feel worthy of it. That's not how it works. Nobody can. Only you can decide that. We have to start by getting rid of people like this in our life and learning how to protect ourselves.
🟥 How The Borderline's Accusations Will Destroy You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iMFm-JB_l4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iMFm-JB_l4

8,269 views  29 Sept 2023  UNITED STATES
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Mar 24

You cannot have healthy relationship with a narcissist. And forgiving them or trying to get closure from them is not going to help you. Don't involve them in your healing.
🟥 Why Forgiving a Narcissist Will Backfire On You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6GsU2JNEMA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6GsU2JNEMA
381,176 views  1 Jul 2022  #femalenarcissist #covertnarcissism #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder
In this video I will provide 5 reasons why forgiving a narcissist will not lead to change. 

If this video resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe so that others might find help in it as well! I would so greatly appreciate it.  💜

It's my intention that everyone who watches gets at least one important take-away.  🙏

Mar 24

" the art of knowing is knowing what to ignore"
-Rumi


Mar 24

“What I must do is all that concerns me, not what the people think. You will always find those who think they know what is your duty better than you know it.” Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-reliance.
Accept that wherever you're visible, people will trying to take you down. We're affected by insults and negative opinions because we care about what people think of us. Ignoring people is often the wisest course of action, as it takes the least energy.
🟥 Einzelgänger
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OY17HIE5fSM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OY17HIE5fSM
The Benefits of Ignoring People

81,522 views  22 Mar 2024  #stoicism #ignoring #ignore
Sometimes, by ignoring people, we do ourselves a great favor. Moreover, I’d say that ignoring people from time to time is necessary to keep our sanity in a world that constantly tries to grasp our attention.

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Mar 25

The daily facade of perfection on social media, amplifies her social anxiety, pushing her to be an idealized version of herself. Negative thoughts loomed over my mind until I realized that no one cared but me. Unlike shyness, social anxiety interferes with an individual's ability to perform daily chores or make conversation. Art and dance were healthy way to displace my anxiety. You define your own worth and no one else.
🟥 TEDx Talks
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1t7W3_4T9so
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1t7W3_4T9so
Mysterious Mystical Monster: Social Anxiety | Hiya Vasani | TEDxYouth@JBCNBorivali

49 views  21 Mar 2024
Hiya reflects on the pervasive fear of judgment in both teenagers and adults, discussing personal experiences with social anxiety and the impact of social media on self-esteem. The talk emphasizes the importance of authenticity, the therapeutic benefits of activities like art and dance, and the need to reclaim one's narrative amidst societal pressures and judgments. Hiya is a curious, fearless spirit embracing connections with open hearted wonder and genuine interest. 
 She voices for those people who often feel overwhelmed. She embraces vulnerability, sharing their journey with courage. Through introspection and growth, she inspires others to understand that strength lies in confronting fears and embracing one's authentic self. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

 Mar 25

I had no idea what healthy relationship was. I'm talking between people, not significant other. With social anxiety you have two perspectives to recognize within yourself. 1) you see relationships as transactional. 2) you see people as unpredictable, temporary and even dangerous.
🟥taeedthespirit999
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/phubt2_-JWo

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/phubt2_-JWo

Mar 25

Transactional relationship – you see people as having some sort of value and something that you can gain from them. And what that does is you put certain people on a pedestal. And when you put people on pedestal it makes you try to compensate. So you think you need to offer as much value as you see that person holding, in your mind. That's why when you see someone cool – you can't be yourself. You don't see yourself worthy enough to interact.
🟥 Taeed the Spirit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWJrkF0JGoQ

66 views  21 Mar 2024  #socialanxiety #mentalhealthawareness #AnxiousAttachment
Instagram:  

 / taeed_the_spirit  
Tik Tok:   

 / taeednoparast  

If you've ever felt like social situations are more of a challenge than they should be, you're not alone. Today, I'm diving into something super close to my heart: transforming social anxiety by shifting from an anxious to a secure attachment style. Sounds a bit technical, I know, but stick with me—it's basically about changing the way we think and act in relationships.

Growing up, we all learn different ways to connect with people. If you're like me and ended up on the anxious side of things, it's not a life sentence. It's just what worked best back then. But here's the thing: aiming for a secure attachment style can seriously upgrade your life and how you feel in social settings.

In this video, I'm getting real with you guys about a couple of beliefs that might be holding you back: thinking relationships are just give-and-take, and seeing people as unpredictable or dangerous. 

I'll also share a bit of my own journey, from medications and therapy sessions to literally talking to hundreds of people to find what works.

So, if you're ready to make a change and start enjoying your social life without that nagging anxiety, you're in the right place. 

0:00 Intro
1:22 My Story
5:14 Your Social Anxiety Beliefs
5:57 Relationships are transactional
7:58 People are unpredictable, temporary, and dangerous
9:33 Anxious Attachment Style

Mar 25

Social interaction is not suppose to be performance. It's suppose to be something you enjoy. Forget about the other person even enjoying it. It should just be something you enjoy. If your focus is that it's something you enjoy, the other person will most likely enjoy it as well. You feel like you need to walk on egg-shelves. Person may leave you, blow up on you, or take some sort of revenge.
🟥 Taeed the Spirit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWJrkF0JGoQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWJrkF0JGoQ

66 views  21 Mar 2024  #socialanxiety #mentalhealthawareness #AnxiousAttachment
Instagram:  

 / taeed_the_spirit  
Tik Tok:   

 / taeednoparast  

If you've ever felt like social situations are more of a challenge than they should be, you're not alone. Today, I'm diving into something super close to my heart: transforming social anxiety by shifting from an anxious to a secure attachment style. Sounds a bit technical, I know, but stick with me—it's basically about changing the way we think and act in relationships.

Growing up, we all learn different ways to connect with people. If you're like me and ended up on the anxious side of things, it's not a life sentence. It's just what worked best back then. But here's the thing: aiming for a secure attachment style can seriously upgrade your life and how you feel in social settings.

In this video, I'm getting real with you guys about a couple of beliefs that might be holding you back: thinking relationships are just give-and-take, and seeing people as unpredictable or dangerous. 

I'll also share a bit of my own journey, from medications and therapy sessions to literally talking to hundreds of people to find what works.

So, if you're ready to make a change and start enjoying your social life without that nagging anxiety, you're in the right place.

Mar 25

You think people talk to you because you're giving them something that they can take from me. You're giving them something they find the value. So as soon you think you're no longer providing that value, or they find that value from something or somebody else – they'll leave you. And you think people can't handle their own emotions. You think you need to provide them positive moods and good experiences, controlling their experience.
🟥 Taeed the Spirit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWJrkF0JGoQ

66 views  21 Mar 2024  #socialanxiety #mentalhealthawareness #AnxiousAttachment
Instagram:  

 / taeed_the_spirit  
Tik Tok:   

 / taeednoparast  

If you've ever felt like social situations are more of a challenge than they should be, you're not alone. Today, I'm diving into something super close to my heart: transforming social anxiety by shifting from an anxious to a secure attachment style. Sounds a bit technical, I know, but stick with me—it's basically about changing the way we think and act in relationships.

Growing up, we all learn different ways to connect with people. If you're like me and ended up on the anxious side of things, it's not a life sentence. It's just what worked best back then. But here's the thing: aiming for a secure attachment style can seriously upgrade your life and how you feel in social settings.

In this video, I'm getting real with you guys about a couple of beliefs that might be holding you back: thinking relationships are just give-and-take, and seeing people as unpredictable or dangerous. 

I'll also share a bit of my own journey, from medications and therapy sessions to literally talking to hundreds of people to find what works.

So, if you're ready to make a change and start enjoying your social life without that nagging anxiety, you're in the right place. 

0:00 Intro
1:22 My Story
5:14 Your Social Anxiety Beliefs
5:57 Relationships are transactional
7:58 People are unpredictable, temporary, and dangerous
9:33 Anxious Attachment Style

Mar 25

You are in a way controlling their experience. You wanna make sure their experience is where they cannot come back and retaliate and hurt you. You think someone is in a bad mood or is having bad experience they'll take that out on you. Or you'll have to reap some kind of consequence from that from their bad experience.
Anxious attachment style - constantly check with people.
🟥 Taeed the Spirit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWJrkF0JGoQ

66 views  21 Mar 2024  #socialanxiety #mentalhealthawareness #AnxiousAttachment
Instagram:  

 / taeed_the_spirit  
Tik Tok:   

 / taeednoparast  

If you've ever felt like social situations are more of a challenge than they should be, you're not alone. Today, I'm diving into something super close to my heart: transforming social anxiety by shifting from an anxious to a secure attachment style. Sounds a bit technical, I know, but stick with me—it's basically about changing the way we think and act in relationships.

Growing up, we all learn different ways to connect with people. If you're like me and ended up on the anxious side of things, it's not a life sentence. It's just what worked best back then. But here's the thing: aiming for a secure attachment style can seriously upgrade your life and how you feel in social settings.

In this video, I'm getting real with you guys about a couple of beliefs that might be holding you back: thinking relationships are just give-and-take, and seeing people as unpredictable or dangerous. 

I'll also share a bit of my own journey, from medications and therapy sessions to literally talking to hundreds of people to find what works.

So, if you're ready to make a change and start enjoying your social life without that nagging anxiety, you're in the right place. 

0:00 Intro
1:22 My Story
5:14 Your Social Anxiety Beliefs
5:57 Relationships are transactional
7:58 People are unpredictable, temporary, and dangerous
9:33 Anxious Attachment Style

Mar 25

You feel this way for rational reasons. I never viewed it as an anxiety disorder. My friend started to view it as an anxiety disorder and he got f*ing panic attacks. I never got panic attacks. Cuz I never viewed panic attack as problem. I didn't even think about it. You wait, and it goes. You can't get addicted to something if you don't learn about it cuz you just move on.
🟥 Jay - Quit PMO
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ASKQdw8qw5M

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ASKQdw8qw5M
you don't have social anxiety disorder you're just shy (angry rant)


286 views  20 Mar 2024
To get The Freedom Model ebook for free, download "The Freedom Model Online Program" app on the app store, and then you can download the book for free from there.

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Get in contact with me on telegram @jayquitpmo  I will help you quit porn for free - read the freedom model first though, else I'll just be parroting info that's already in the book. Gonna be charging for coaching calls soon.

Book list:

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The Cult of Pharmacology by Richard Degrandpre - talks about the differences between actual drug effects and placebo effects due to the MIND.

 Mar 25

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Mar 25

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Mar 25

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Mar 25

🇮🇹 Movie Land, su Lago di Garda
https://lakegardatravel.net/movieland-





Mar 26

Guy calling you beta male, I don't know if he thinks he's alpha male, but that's not what alpha males do. I suspect people that call themselves alpha males and they have to let you know that they're an alpha and I have to call you beta male that sounds like a little insecure person.
🟥 DeMars Coaching
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VM5HTk8mlM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VM5HTk8mlM
There is Nothing You Can do For a Toxic Person

1,350 views  19 Mar 2024  UNITED STATES
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Mar 16

Because we're leading with authenticity, we are more likely to be finding compatible partners who are also sharing. This does not mean that this process does not take time, easy – but process will not be contaminated. As insecure, we learned authenticity is not to get the way our needs met. Our authentic was rejected. Some part of our identity becomes something to hide or obscure. This leads to development of false Self, social mask to get acceptance.
🟥 Heidi Priebe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY
How Insecure Attachment Keeps Us Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For Us (& How To Break The Cycle)
 
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 Mar 26

Insecure attaching style – we are navigating the world in some way using an unconscious strategy to get connection. Rather than using unfiltered authenticity to get connection. Insecure – the way to make people like us. Anxious: hyper-fixating on what the other person wants from you and mold yourself into the kind of person that you think they would like. Avoidant: focusing how to stay self-sufficient and independent. All this happens on unconscious level.
🟥 Heidi Priebe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY
How Insecure Attachment Keeps Us Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For Us (& How To Break The Cycle)
 
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Mar 26

When we are insecurely attached we necessarily have unmet developmental needs. Those needs are unconsciously driving us when it comes to partner choices. So if I feel at my core like I am not that competent or capable of navigating the world on my own, I'm going to be unconsciously searching first and foremost for a partner who seems incredibly competent and skilled. Enough so that they completely take care of me.
Or searching for partner who over-emotes.
🟥 Heidi Priebe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY
How Insecure Attachment Keeps Us Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For Us (& How To Break The Cycle)
 
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Mar 26

Insecurely attached people look for the inauthenticity that feels familiar to them. And securely attached people look for the authentic intimate connection that feels familiar to them. Person who were before shame and conditioning took over personality. What would become incredibly important to me if i knew for sure entire rest of my life would be focused only on me? That genuinely excite authentic version of me.
🟥 Heidi Priebe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY
How Insecure Attachment Keeps Us Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For Us (& How To Break The Cycle)

Mar 26

Imagine a different universe, where exactly who you are is the most societally celebrated and coveted type of person. Completely and universally accepted, loved and celebrated who would that version of you look like and how would they show up in the world? And what types of rooms would they put themselves in, and what types of conversations would they have. In world where no part of you was shame bound.
🟥 Heidi Priebe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

How Insecure Attachment Keeps Us Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For Us (& How To Break The Cycle)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

Mar 26

If you do really struggle with using relationships as a means of fulfilling your needs- ask yourself, if all of my needs were met, if I were to develop in securely attached person, then who would I want in my life solely because I would enjoy being around them. So instead of what are my deficits and how can I balance them out interpersonally who would I enjoy being around solely because I like them?
Picture sitting at porch with them at old age, talk with.
🟥 Heidi Priebe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY
How Insecure Attachment Keeps Us Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For Us (& How To Break The Cycle)

Mar 26

Pear tree in bloom.





Mar 26

Stop I don't need to hear this. You can't keep doing this to yourself. This is not atonement. This is punishment.
🎞️ NCIS: Los Angeles

 

 Mar 27

You can always tell when a neurotypical isn't OK because they always want to make it your problem.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4Q8SN0QUfk

Mar 27

Worry about yourself. Why are you being so judgmental of another person's behavior? If you don't like them & if you don't like the way they interact, then stop going out for meals with them. If you feel like you have to train all of your friends, dog training, to get friends behave in the way you want, that's a bit weird and controlling.
"Even if eye contact is uncomfortable for you I'd like you to do it because it makes me feel more comfortable"
🟥 I'm Autistic, Now What?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4Q8SN0QUfk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4Q8SN0QUfk
The Neurotypicals are SO NOT OKAY
64,921 views  21 Mar 2024  #actuallyautistic
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 Mar 27

Fawners fear to be called or characterized as difficult. Being called as difficult carries with it a massive opportunity cost – to lose attachments, relationships and connections and relationships and love, it is being abandoned. Catch22 – fawners feel shamed for fawning, there is no winning – if you stand up for yourself you are labeled as difficult, if you fawn, you feel shame. Those indoctrinated we make everyone life easier.
🟥 DoctorRamani
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xZvHkZdAeE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xZvHkZdAeE
What happens when you STOP FAWNING over the narcissist
 
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Mar 27

When I told my friend I was having the repeated experience of being told I was difficult for making some asks about book promotion –she said to me basically –own it. I'm not sure I'll always be able to be seen as difficult, for accommodators who finally stretch who ask for what you need, and get shut down as difficult, remember maybe this is how narcissistic people get sh$t done. Real truth: it's easier to shut you down rather than do things you ask of them
🟥 DoctorRamani
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xZvHkZdAeE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xZvHkZdAeE
What happens when you STOP FAWNING over the narcissist

Mar 27

🇫🇷 The Château de Chenonceau





Mar 28

There is something you have never understood, Joe. These people at the top, they are the same as anybody else. But you had it inside of you to be so much bigger than any of them. You just had to be yourself. That was all. With me you were yourself. Only with me.
🎞️ Room at the Top (1958)

An ambitious young accountant plots to wed a wealthy factory owner's daughter despite falling in love with a married older woman.
Release date: 22 Jan 1959
Runtime: 115 min

Mar 29

Mental illness differs from physical illness because it lies to you. What anxiety, depression, eating disorders, psychosis all have in common is that they lie to you, they tell you you’re a freak, that you’re alone and no one
is going to understand what you’re going through. They thrive in isolation. It’s only by realising that [you’re unwell] that you can start on the road to recovery.
⬜ Bryony Gordon

Radio Times 23.03.2024


Mar 29

The people who abuse and the people who ignore the abuse are THE SAME!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNHUjs8lI6U

 Mar 29

Narcissists and narc parents are rejectors, not accepters. They are always out to reject because they can't accept you, because that will create difficulties with shame within them. And they can't handle that. So they must be superior, they must be in control. And so they will not accept you. They will reject you because they cannot accept other people just the way they are.
🟥 The shocking truth about your abandonment issues
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ts_8i92bC1g

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ts_8i92bC1g

Mar 29

They always always always have to find SOMETHING wrong with you. Flaws about yourself that you never knew existed all for their own benefit. It’s sick.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ts_8i92bC1g

Mar 29

Pathological narcissists have this personality disorder that prevents them from understanding what's wrong with them, and they compensate by seeing all the bad that they can't accept in themselves, seeing it in others. That's called projection. And if they can render you in their mind as sub-human they have all the reason, all the rationale, all the excuses to be really terrible to you. They justify it because they think you're sub-human.
🟥 Ross Rosenberg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTyjoVWtF8s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTyjoVWtF8s
YOU ARE NOT SUBHUMAN! A Narcissist Stole Your Independence and Integrity
1,841 views  Premiered 17 hours ago
In this emotionally compelling video, Ross explains how pathological narcissists manipulate, coerce, and/or gaslight their self-love deficient codependent victims into a symbolic form of "slavery." Historical references to the enslavement of people are discussed to make the above connection. 

ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG 
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and are responsible for the development of his Self-Love Recovery Treatment Program.  Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. 

In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel with 28 million views and 285,000 subscribers and the sale of 175,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

Mar 29

The clocks go forward one hour at 1 am on Saturday night (UK)

Radio Times 30.03.2024

Mar 30

The only way to beat fear in your life is to face it. This is the only way is to face it. You can't think your way out of fear. You can't therapy your way out of fear. You can't drink your way out of fear. You can't sleep your way out of fear. You can't wait your way out of fear and you can't navigate around it. All you can do is to lean into the knife. Go in the direction that scares you because that thing stands in the way of your destiny.
✝️ HOUR OF POWER
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Transform Your Life: Bobby Schuller's Fearless Sermons


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Healing through Facing Your Fears. Pastor Bobby teaches how to get a freedom to release the dream or calling God has placed inside of you, and that with that release, you will put to death the spirit of fear, with his message: “Courage’s Cure: Healing through Facing Your Fears.”

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Mar 30

🎵 Purple Disco Machine

 Do28.03.
2024
22:55Uhr
44:37 min
Purple Disco Machine - From Dresden to the World
Film von Marcus Fitsch

Purple Disco Machine is one of the world's most successful DJs and producers - a star in electronic dance music. Whether Ibiza or Coachella Festival, Mexico City, Austin, Hong Kong or New York, where it is announced, it fills arenas.

The Dresdener became known for remixes for other stars: Sir Elton John, Lady Gaga, Dua Lipa, Fatboy Slim, Gorillaz, Jamiroquai or Diplo. But with his own hits like "Hypnotized", "Dopamine" or "Fireworks" he now has one billion streams at Spotify more than Rammstein and Helene Fischer. Only when he comes home will he remain anonymous. Then he is Tino Piontek, 42 years old, married and father, an almost normal Dresden.

This film tells who this man is and how he became so successful, what his home in Dresden, Phil Collins and his grandma have to do with it.
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28.03.
2024
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44:37 min
Purple Disco Machine - From Dresden to the World
Film by Marcus Fitsch

MDR television

Mar 30

Marge, there is empty spot I always had inside me. I tried to fill it with family, religion, community service but those were the dead ends. I think this chair is the answer.
🎞️ THE SIMPSONS

I Simpson, 2024-03-29, 15-00-06, Italia1 HD


Mar 30

🇮🇪 By train through Ireland

Mit dem Zug durch Irland
Ireland is a classic travel destination with rolling hills, fertile green meadows, rugged coasts, picturesque towns – and a perfect rail network that runs both historic steam trains and modern railways. So what could be more obvious than discovering Ireland on the train? Starting from Dublin, our journey takes you clockwise through the heart of Ireland. Along the east coast we come to a small village in the Wicklow Mountains. The most beautiful scarves are still made here in Ireland's oldest weaving mill. In Waterford we board a steam train and let Ireland's rail history blow around our noses. Trains also brought emigrants to the port city of Cobh. The Titanic anchored here for the last time. The journey takes us further to the south of Ireland


Trains also brought emigrants to the port city of Cobh. The Titanic anchored here for the last time. The journey takes us further to the south of Ireland.The Dingle Peninsula is one of the most beautiful areas in Ireland and the dolphin Fungi has felt very comfortable in the waters in front of it for 31 years. We continue to Galway, a student city that, in addition to a distinctive pub culture, also maintains another legacy: James Lynch is said to have hanged his son here. Passing huge goal fields, we come to the middle of the green island. Near Athlone, we visit probably the most beautiful monastery ruin in Ireland Clonmacnoise. Not far away is the Kilbeggan Distillery. She is the longest serving whiskey distillery in Ireland and just a stone's throw away from Dublin – here we drink our last pint – Cheers

also maintains another legacy: James Lynch is said to have hanged his son here. Passing huge goal fields, we come to the middle of the green island. Near Athlone, we visit probably the most beautiful monastery ruin in Ireland Clonmacnoise. Not far away is the Kilbeggan Distillery. She is the longest serving whiskey distillery in Ireland and just a stone's throw away from Dublin – here we drink our last pint – Cheers!also maintains another legacy: James Lynch is said to have hanged his son here. Passing huge goal fields, we come to the middle of the green island. Near Athlone, we visit probably the most beautiful monastery ruin in Ireland Clonmacnoise. Not far away is the Kilbeggan Distillery. She is the longest serving whiskey distillery in Ireland and just a stone's throw away from Dublin – here we drink our last pint – Cheers!She is the longest serving whiskey distillery in Ireland and just a stone's throw away from Dublin – here we drink our last pint – Cheers!She is the longest serving whiskey distillery in Ireland and just a stone's throw away from Dublin – here we drink our last pint – Cheers!

Mar 30

🇮🇪 Mit dem Zug durch Irland

Mit dem Zug durch Irland
29.03.2024 ∙ alpha-doku ∙ ARD alpha

Rosslare


 In Waterford we board a steam train and let Ireland's rail history blow around our noses.

Mar 30

🇮🇪 Un billet de train pour l'Irlande

By train through Ireland
03/29/2024 ∙ alpha documentary ∙ ARD alpha

Cobh


Limerick

Mar 31

The enemy is not really after your dreams, health, finances. What he is really after is your joy. He knows if you don't have joy, you're going to be weak. You'll be easy prey. If he's keep you discouraged, overwhelmed by pressure, upset about who did you wrong, burdened down by medical report, you'd never smile, you'd never have any passion, everything is heavy – then he'll be able to defeat you in any area.
If you get your joy back, strength will come.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hf9DBboXRk8
Don't Lose Your Joy | Joel Osteen

212,737 views  25 Mar 2024  #JoelOsteen
Your joy is connected to your strength. The more joyful you are, the stronger you’re going to be.

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Mar 31

Don't go through day negative, bitter, complaining. Nothing that happens to you can stop you from destiny. The trouble, the adversity, the disappointment, it's all a test. That's the enemy trying to deceive you into being discouraged. Mourning. Going around with the defeated mentality. If you get your joy back, you get your strength back. If you be of good cheer in the midst of difficulty, that's your faith at work.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hf9DBboXRk8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hf9DBboXRk8
Don't Lose Your Joy | Joel Osteen

212,737 views  25 Mar 2024  #JoelOsteen
Your joy is connected to your strength. The more joyful you are, the stronger you’re going to be.

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Mar 31

No person can take your joy. No bad break, no disappointment, no storm, no calamity. Nothing can take it – you have to give it away. It's your choice. You're in charge of your joy. You need it for your destiny, to accomplish your dreams. It's designed to strengthen you, to empower you. You can get your joy back, it is decision. Rejoice today, be glad today. All these negative things have happened, but I know secret – I am not giving away my joy.
✝️ JOEL OSTEEN
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hf9DBboXRk8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hf9DBboXRk8
Don't Lose Your Joy | Joel Osteen

212,737 views  25 Mar 2024  #JoelOsteen
Your joy is connected to your strength. The more joyful you are, the stronger you’re going to be.

🛎 Subscribe to receive weekly messages of hope, encouragement, and inspiration from Joel! https://bit.ly/JoelYTSub

Mar 31

Hast thou, then, nothing more to mention?
Com'st ever, thus, with ill intention?
Find'st nothing right on earth, eternally?
📖 Faust, by Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
https://www.gutenberg.org/files/14591/1459


Mar 31

I should have listen to him and keep the secret. But it's just not right.
- You're right. It isn't.
🎞️ THE BOLD AND THE BEAUTIFUL


 Mar 31

Simpsons Comics #121 is the one-hundred and twenty-first issue of Simpsons Comics. It was released in the United Kingdom on July 6, 2006.

Mar 31

Simpsons Comics #121 is the one-hundred and twenty-first issue of Simpsons Comics. It was released in the United Kingdom on July 6, 2006.

Mar 31

Your father always charmed his way out of this.
You're doing what Michelle did. Justifying his actions. Finding the way to keep loving him. Seeing the best in people.
🎞️ The Good Father: The Martin MacNeill Story (2021)

A young woman becomes suspicious of her father after her mother dies under suspicious circumstances.

Director
Annie Bradley
Writers
John FasanoAbdi Nazemian
Stars
Tom Everett ScottAnwen O'DriscollNicola Correia-Damude

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