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Feb 1 2023

 Sometimes anxiety isn't disorder, it's just a message that something needs to change. Woman who had been diagnosed with a half -dozen disorders over 25 years... when she finally left her abusive husband, most symptoms went away. Problem was not a mental disorder, it was situation

How to Regulate Your Nervous System #somatictherapy #polyvagaltheory
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZ2I1Q719II
 26 Jan 2023
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The other day in my live Q&A for my members, I was asked “How can I get regulated again after getting dysregulated?”

What I assume that the person means is that they want to get back to the safe and social state of the nervous system, the parasympathetic response where you feel relaxed and calm and can think clearly. 

I’m going to assume that you already know a little about the nervous system- you understand the fight/flight freeze response, and about the shutdown response (if not check out my video on the 3 states of the nervous system). Because if you’re asking about dysregulation, you understand that we can’t just think our way into changing our nervous system. You know about using the power

 Peter Levine theorizes that animals don't experience a sense of trauma, because they have a biological mechanism for shaking it off.
YT How the BODY heals from Trauma

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-AYB9ggz2Qw

 Traumatic symptoms are not caused by the "triggering" event itself. They stem from the frozen residue of energy that had not been resolved or discharged; this residue remains trapped in the nervous system where it can wreck havoc on our bodies and spirits.
Peter Levine

Peter A Levine, Ph. D., is the developer of Somatic Experiencing®, a naturalistic and neurobiological approach to healing trauma, which he has developed over the past 50 years. He holds a doctorate in Biophysics from UC Berkeley and a doctorate in Psychology from International University.

Peter A Levine, PhD — Ergos Institute, inc™https://www.somaticexperiencing.com › about-peter
Born: February 19, 1942 (age 80 years)
Education: International College, Los Angeles (1978), University of California, Berkeley (1977), University of Michigan (1964)
Nationality: American 

Listen to your body. It's smarter than you are.

Somatic Therapy for Trauma
“This is your body, your greatest gift, pregnant with wisdom you do not hear, grief you thought was forgotten, and joy you have never known.”
~ Marion Woodman
https://www.kristinleonheart.com/somatic-therapy-for-trauma.html 

What is Re-traumatization?
A situation, attitude, interaction, or environment that replicates the events or dynamics of the original trauma and triggers the overwhelming feelings and reactions associated with them

Retraumatization Is usually unintentional
Persons causing retraumatization are often unaware that their behavior or the situation is replicating something about that persons original abuse.
In a system that is not trauma informed – where there lack of knowledge about trauma dynamics, about the trauma history of clients, about how the person was impacted and how he or she has learned to cope - It is difficult to be sensitive to the ways in which clients can be triggered and retraumatized.
https://slideplayer.com/slide/5852719/ 

Actively resist re-traumatization
https://opentextbc.ca/peersupport/chapter/samhsas-definition-of-trauma-informed-care/
 

According to SAMHSA’s Concept of Trauma and Guidance for a Trauma-Informed Approach (2014), trauma-informed agencies:

REALIZE the widespread impact of trauma and understand potential paths for healing.
RECOGNIZE the signs and symptoms of trauma in clients, staff, and others involved with the system.
RESPOND by fully integrating knowledge about trauma into policies, procedures, practices, and settings.
Actively RESIST RETRAUMATIZATION.
https://opentextbc.ca/peersupport/chapter/samhsas-definition-of-trauma-informed-care/

 Odysee backs up You tube channel content.
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And if you don’t notice the lack of problems (“things gone right”), you certainly won’t praise people.
"Crucial Confrontations: Tools for talking about broken promises, violated expectations, and bad behavior"

Narcissist regards his dysfunctional behaviours – social, sexual, emotional, mental – as conclusive and irrefutable proof of his superiority, brilliance, distinction, prowess, might, or success. Rudeness to others is reinterpreted as efficiency.
"NPD Quotes", Sam Vaknin

Narcissists should be held accountable for most of what they do because they can tell wrong from right AND they can refrain from taking the actions they do take. He simply doesn't care to do so. Others are not important enough to him.
"NPD Quotes", Sam Vaknin

https://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/NPDQuotes.pdf 

The environment send you stimuli (provide information). A specific Self state is selected. Self-state activates construct. Construct interfaces with reality, gathers information, filters it, re-frames it in order to conform to self state.
YT Sam Vaknin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

 Construct also changes your memory. It kind if represses some memories, emphasizes other memories, creates selective memory. It alters perception of reality, it alters your memories, then induces in you behaviours to Self state uphold.
YT Sam Vaknin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

This is done via interjects. Interjects are our internal voices in your head that send out a stream of automatic thoughts. The constructs activate/trigger specific interjects. Then automatic thoughts shape your behaviour, then you create specific outcomes.

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

Interjects example for people pleasing: if you love/like people, if you want to please people if you feel you are someone's mother or daddy figure, you are going to withhold your happiness. You'll suppress your joy not to burden on nearest.
YT Sam Vaknin

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

“I have to earn my happiness”. I don't deserve happiness, I have to work hard for it. I have to justify it. That happiness is my due. Identifying happiness with tasks, with assignments, labor. Busier they are, happier they feel.
YT Sam Vaknin

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

Automatic Belief: I have to make sure that people tolerate me because they give them something in return. And I do this because I am bad object: I'm unworthy, unlovable, crazy, inadequate, hopeless. So people must be compensated in return.
YT Sam Vaknin

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

Automatic thoughts: I must compromise. I need to compromise on my boundaries. So I need to give up on rights, demands, on expectations. Need to minimize myself to point of vanishing. To be a function. Being human is burden on other people.
YT Sam Vaknin

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

These automatic thoughts are at the core of people pleasing, parentified children. With this mindset this person would allow anything done, no boundaries. Because in her mind she has no right to say no, being bad object.
YT Sam Vaknin

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

Constructs are ways of organizing the world. Constructs imbue the world with sense and meaning, interpreting the world, explaining what is happening. Constructs falsify and re-frame memory,and suppress a lot of information that conflicts Self
YT Sam Vaknin

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

Constructs would affect the behaviour of people pleasers to conform to the self-state. They do this by activating interjects and flooding the person with automatic thoughts. These affect behaviour, which affect reality &conforms to self state
YT Sam Vaknin

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1Dp4KMyreA

The psychopath (the Antisocial Personality Disorder) feels no remorse. The narcissist feels blame and guilt but then he instantly shifts them to others (MAINLY and OFTEN to his victim)."
"NPD Quotes" Sam Vaknin 


Feb 1
What are you?
- I'm a construct. From your mind.
Moonfall (2022)

A mysterious force knocks the moon from its orbit and sends it hurtling on a collision course toward earth.

Director
Roland Emmerich
Writers
Roland EmmerichHarald KloserSpenser Cohen
Stars
Halle BerryPatrick WilsonJohn Bradley 

Feb 2
During the Apollo 12 mission, the Ascent Stage of its Lunar Module was deliberately crashed onto the moon's surface, which resulted in shallow 'moonquakes' which could be detected by lunar seismographs for nearly an hour.
IMDb trivia, Moonfall (2022)

https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.1199375 

Feb 2

All of humanity has the potentiality to victimize humans and other living creatures. While many restrain or sublimate this tendency, some act upon these impulses.
Michael Nuccitelli, Psy.D. (2006)
Dark Psychology

Dr. Nuccitelli is a NYS licensed psychologist & creator of the cyberpsychology, cyberbullying and cyberstalking concept, iPredator 

Feb 2

- I'm scared!
- Feelings are scary. And sometimes they're painful. And if you can't feel the pain... then you won't feel anything else either. You're here and you're alive. Don't tell me you don't feel that - it is good, believe me.
Ordinary People (1980)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DItzvWPhlqs

 Feb 2

"For sale; broom slightly used"
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Feb 2

"Witch Flying School"
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Feb 2

Santa stomp sketch,
scene from "A Christmas Story" (1983)

A Christmas Story (1983)
A Christmas Story is a 1983 Christmas comedy film directed by Bob Clark and based on Jean ... Filmed partly in Canada, it earned two Canadian Genie Awards in 1984. Image

 Feb 2

- I'm trying to control myself.
- Why didn't you throw it?
- I'd still be angry.
- How do you know? Maybe you'd feel wonderful. Why do you control every thought that comes into your head? Do something you feel like doing, not what you're supposed to do.
The Odd Couple (1968)

The Odd Couple (1968)
A New Yorker newly separated from his wife moves in with his best friend, a divorced sportswriter, but their ideas of housekeeping and lifestyles are as different as night and day.

Director
Gene Saks
Writer
Neil Simon(from the play by)
Stars
Jack LemmonWalter MatthauJohn Fiedler

 Feb 3

In our society we are raised to solve problem by logic, fix it, do something to make this issue go away. But a lot of time way through is space, to be witness, not to fix anything. This is more feminine approach.
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loveIMWxlRw&t=734s

Feb 3

Grounding – getting out of your head. As sensitive person what we experience in our body is raw energy and information. It's what we do with that information. For many of us it becomes thoughts develop into stories.
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=1072&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

And it's usually the stories that run wild that create further suffering. Instead of generating thoughts and making an imaginary drama you can shift that energy through your body. HSP find it very difficult to be in body.
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=1100&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

Because there is so much sensation and information in the body, there's a dissociation that occurs, and they end up here in mental field over-analyzing or distracting. Instead turn it into practice going for a walk. Hand it over to Earth.
YT Navigating...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=1129&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

If you have done your part to be of service from a sincere place and another person isn't receptive, what is best to do with that energy is to diffuse it and let it go. Digestive issues are stewing information and energy.
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=1175&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

It is important to recognize other people suffering isn't necessarily a bad thing. What is your relationship with pain, hardship, learning through difficulty. Attached to light love when someone's grumpy we'll be this must go away. That's story, perception

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=1240&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

"This isn't how it should be" that is indicator there is resistance to learning and growth and progress through friction. "I have to make it go away". Hardship, grief, anger are good things. Truly respect suffering, less I am concerned someone suffering.
https://youtu.be/loveIMWxlRw?t=1280

Navigating the world as a Highly Sensitive Person - with Hellè Weston | Blu Podcast EP 90
8,759 views  1 Feb 2023
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), or Empaths, are those that have increased sensitive to emotion & information - they are simply picking up on more than most people. Hellè Weston is an HSP who has learned to navigate the world using her sensitivity as a gift. She is a breathwork facilitator and channel who works with high profile individuals. Today, she shares how to identify if you're an HSP, how to handle being an HSP, and taking care of your energetic hygiene. She shares her advice for setting boundaries, expanding self worth, and releasing comparison. 

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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
6:30 What is an HSP
12:14 Processing other's Emotions
23:02 Can You Become an HSP?
32:54 Self Care & Energetic Hygiene 
48:34 Boundaries & Empathy 
59:48 Inherent Worthiness 
1:18:18 The Social Media Veil 
1:25:10 Conclusion
===

Hellè Weston:

https://www.instagram.com/helle_weston/
https://www

If I'm not trusting the process that suffering is going to lead to something good then of course I'm going to get all grippy about it. Friction – I get to be witness here and trust that they will grow stronger through this process.
YT Navigating...
https://youtu.be/loveIMWxlRw?t=1328

Navigating the world as a Highly Sensitive Person - with Hellè Weston | Blu Podcast EP 90
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loveIMWxlRw&t=734s
8,759 views  1 Feb 2023
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), or Empaths, are those that have increased sensitive to emotion & information - they are simply picking up on more than most people. Hellè Weston is an HSP who has learned to navigate the world using her sensitivity as a gift. She is a breathwork facilitator and channel who works with high profile individuals. Today, she shares how to identify if you're an HSP, how to handle being an HSP, and taking care of your energetic hygiene. She shares her advice for setting boundaries, expanding self worth, and releasing comparison. 

=== 
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
6:30 What is an HSP
12:14 Processing other's Emotions
23:02 Can You Become an HSP?
32:54 Self Care & Energetic Hygiene 
48:34 Boundaries & Empathy 
59:48 Inherent Worthiness 
1:18:18 The Social Media Veil 
1:25:10 Conclusion
===

Hellè Weston:

Feb 3

Identified as Helper, always here, I'm kind... These can become prison is you feel you can't not be there.  What it would look like if you can't be kind? Ways of presenting can become prison for us, appearing have it together
YT Navigating the world as HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=3053&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

Do I shut down and think I'm inherently unworthy because I have a physical ailment, or do I receive the gift that is actually being presented where I am training of subtle senses. Story I choose to play is empowering nature
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=4256&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

It's being able to identify the information that is right there in front of you that you usually tune out. Being able to read things in people, knew how to read people. “My life depended on it who is on my team.”
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=4320&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

To be grounded in reality that people have motivations for doing things. And if we could understand them, what's driving certain behaviours, then we can experience less internal suffering that is result of confusion.
YT Navigating the world as a HSP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=4587&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

Not understanding why people do shitty things is open loop. A lot of people who experience trauma and abuse, it haunts them. “Why did they do that?” Well, they did it because they have an agenda that doesn't include your well-being.
YT Navigating the world

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=4605&v=loveIMWxlRw&feature=youtu.be

Feb 3

What is not meant for me there is nothing I can do to make me happy.
YT Blu
Navigating the world as a Highly Sensitive Person - with Hellè Weston | Blu Podcast EP 90

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loveIMWxlRw

Feb 3

My heart is at ease knowing that what is meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me.
Imam Al-Shafi'i

Imam Al-Shafi'ee, also known as 'Shaykh Al Islam', is one of the four great Imams of Sunni schools of law. He is also the author of several prominent works ... 

Feb 3

What Pythagoras also realized was that mathematics is independent of the observable, empirical world. Mathematics is “pure” and uncontaminated. The study of it enables you to escape from the grubby inconsistencies of the physical world.
"Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide"

“Introducing Plato” begins by explaining how philosophers like Socrates and Pythagoras influenced Plato's thought. 

Feb 3

For Heraclitus (c. 535-475 B.C.E.) the world was in a state of constant movement and change. Nothing had any permanence or reliability. "Panta rei" – everything changes. The dog we confidently claim to see in front of us was once a puppy and soon will be a corpse.
Introduc. Plato

Introducing Plato Graphic Guide - Dave Robinson

Explains how philosophers like Socrates and Pythagoras influenced Plato's thought. This book provides an account of Plato's puzzling theory of knowledge 

Feb 3

Not only is the world just “process”, but everyone also sees it differently. All our beliefs about it are “observer-relative”. A weight is heavy for an ordinary man but light for a weightlifter.
Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide

Introducing Plato begins by explaining how philosophers like Socrates and Pythagoras influenced Plato's thought.

 Feb 3

There are no stable meanings to the subjective terms we use to describe the physical world.
Real knowledge can be pure and permanent only if it is obtained by the mind and not through the senses.
Although observation was useful, it was an inferior and misleading
Introducing Plato

Feb 3

Maybe between doctors and detectives is unusual, but in ballet is very usual.
- What is?
- Caprice of Mother Nature. Look at Pavel and Mischa, Boris and Dimitry and Illya and Sergei. Sergei... half and half.
The Private Life of Sherlock Holmes (1970)

When a bored Holmes eagerly takes the case of Gabrielle Valladon after an attempt on her life, the search for her missing husband leads to Loch Ness and the legendary monster.

Director
Billy Wilder
Writers
Arthur Conan Doyle(characters)Billy WilderI.A.L. Diamond
Stars
Robert StephensChristopher LeeColin Blakely 

Unfortunately, during a test run in Loch Ness, the Monster-prop sank and was never recovered. The original monster prop was located on the bottom of Loch Ness in April 2016 during a survey of the loch by an underwater robot.
IMDB trivia
The Private Life of Sherlock Holmes (1970)

Sonar imaging found the 30-foot movie prop, which sank in 1969.
https://www.nytimes.com/2016/04/14/world/europe/loch-ness-monster-found-kind-of-not-really.html  The framework of a model of the Loch Ness monster which was made for the film “The Private Life of Sherlock Holmes” in 1969.Credit...Ian Tyas/Hulton Archive, via Getty Images
https://www.nytimes.com/2016/04/14/world/europe/loch-ness-monster-found-kind-of-not-really.html

 Feb 3

With education, human beings could come to know their true selves, know what was good and act accordingly. "Unexamined life is not worth living".
The truth existed, but it was very difficult for human beings to achieve.
"Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide"

Feb 3

- How temporary is temporary amnesia?
- It's like veils, shrouding her memory.
- But we can't wait for these veils to lift. We must break them as quickly as possible.
The Private Life of Sherlock Holmes (1970)

When a bored Holmes eagerly takes the case of Gabrielle Valladon after an attempt on her life, the search for her missing husband leads to Loch Ness and the legendary monster.

Director
Billy Wilder
Writers
Arthur Conan Doyle(characters)Billy WilderI.A.L. Diamond
Stars
Robert StephensChristopher LeeColin Blakely 

Feb 3

It's ok not to feel ok

Image 

Feb 3

He is with you wherever you are.
Quran 57:4

What does Quran 57 4 mean?
بَصِيرٌ(is) All-seer. (57:4) He it is Who created the heavens and the earth in six days and then established Himself on the Throne. He knows all that enters the earth and all that comes forth from it, and all that comes down from the heaven and all that goes up to it. He is with you wherever you are.

Surah Al-Hadid 57:1-10 - Towards Understanding the Quran 

Feb 4

Eventually you have to go out there and stink. You have to stink before you smell good. This is what it means to be mature. You have to be weak before you're strong. Life is about stepping out and learning while you are doing.
HOUR OF POWER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFMFVdBqtUI

 Feb 4

Just even the worst sales pitch ever can make a difference because you're out there doing something.
There is something about not thinking too much. There's time to think, and then time to do. Failure is just as important part of winning.
HOUR OF POWER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFMFVdBqtUI


Feb 4
Big laboratories spend millions of dollars. And they work slowly and surely. And they get results but not the big steps. Not the breakthroughs. Those come from human mind, not from laboratory. Call them inspiration, intuition maybe blind luck.
The Outer Limits S1E1 (1963)

The Galaxy Being
Episode aired May 21, 1964
51m
A scientific technician working at a radio station makes first contact with an energy alien from the Andromeda galaxy. An underling's disobedience brings it to Earth.

Director
Leslie Stevens
Writer
Leslie Stevens
Stars
Lee PhilipsJacqueline ScottCliff Robertson
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An adventurous radio station operator contacts a fellow experimenter in another galaxy. The operator locks in 3D communication, but a DJ who wants to impress his girlfriend with the station's range, boosts the signal all the way up, unwittingly sucking the alien, who's composed of electricity, into the remote desert town.—David Stevens 


Feb 4
Santa Monica beach.

Why is Santa Monica Beach famous?
The Santa Monica Pier, located in the middle of Santa Monica Beach, is one of the most iconic places in the city. Known as the final point of the legendary Route 66, it offers its visitors guaranteed fun thanks to its popular amusement park, aquarium, food stalls and incredible views of the coast.

Santa Monica Beach - An Icon of the Californian Coast - Los Angeles Image

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Feb 5
He was very opinionated, very strong. He said if you don't do this it will all go down. There's a fine line between advice and manipulation. God is not going to speak to someone else about your destiny and not tell you.
JOEL OSTEEN

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c


Feb 5
All the reasons: "Stir up trouble", "you need his approval", "don't rock the boat" – these are tests we have to pass. I was afraid he may think, be offended, not like me. The Scripture says, fearing people is a dangerous trap.
JOEL OSTEEN

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c

Feb 5
It uses word 'dangerous'. Because if you fear people, you can miss your destiny. If you let opinion of others, what will they think, what if they don't approve me, if you let that hold you back then you can miss who you were created to be.
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c


Feb 5
You don't need their approval. When they tell you, “You've changed, you're not who you used to be” tell them 'You're right I'm growing, my gifts are coming out in new ways'. It's not bad thing to change but some people can't handle it.
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c

Feb 5
If you depend on them, it will keep you from moving forward. If he would have been addicted to approval he would never rock the boat, he would have stayed there and let people's opinion control him. He'd never see the fullness of his destiny.
JOEL OSTEEN

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c

Feb 5
Sometimes we're so concerned about what people think. What will they say, will they have a good opinion of me. We're spending all this time and energy trying to perform for people, win them over, make a good impression: getting approval from wrong place.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c

Feb 5
They've never talked to you, never got to know who you are, never sat down and had lunch. Why are you worrying about what they think? Why are you trying to impress them? Giving time and energy responding to their comments?
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c


Feb 5
Some people are determined to misunderstand you. Their comment is not really about you; it shows what's in them. They have issues they haven't dealt with – they're angry, they're upset, they don't like themselves.
JOEL OSTEEN

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c


Feb 5
Don't be surprised they find fault with you. No offense, but they're not going where you're going. If you try to please everyone, win their approval you'll not only miss the new levels that belong to you, but also peace joy, victory of this day
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c

Feb 5
The problem with living for approval is we can lose who we really are. We're so busy trying to be what everyone else wants us to be. That's when life gets confused. Search your own heart, when you know your conscience is clear.
JOEL OSTEEN
https://youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c
 

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 Feb 5
Don't get distracted trying to get everyone on board. It's a lot of pressure to live trying to please people, convince them to be for you so that you can pursue what is in your heart. Only you can hear that voice.
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c


Feb 5
You're being your best, and they're finding fault. They're looking down on you. Be like David. Have the attitude, I don't need your approval. I'm not making decisions based on your opinion of me. Live with integrity, do the right when it's hard
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Z-3LHC5c


Feb 5
Plato thought that the empirical world was a kind of illusion, a veil that hid the real truth from us. Different people experience this surface world in different ways, and have different views about its qualities.
Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide
Dave Robinson, Judy Groves

Feb 5
This means that people can only ever have “opinions” about this world, not knowledge as such. Any permanent or reliable knowledge of this sensory world is impossible. We all live surrounded by shadows, dreams, reflections and inferior copies of something better
Introducing Plato

Feb 5
All things are “contingent” – they only exist in a specific time & place. In order to make sense of this world we  put everything into groups or classes, so that the world gets simpler. Occasionally, things crop up that don't "fit" into any of the classes we assume are "natural".

Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide
Introducing Plato provides a clear account of Plato's theory of knowledge and explains how this directed his provocative views on politics, ethics, ...
Publisher: ‎Icon Books Image

 Feb 5
Better check her pulse. She's looked like that for years.
Urban Legend (1998)

A college student suspects a series of bizarre deaths are connected to certain urban legends.

Director
Jamie Blanks
Writer
Silvio Horta
Stars
Jared LetoAlicia WittRebecca Gayheart 

Feb 6
Disinhibition is a lack of restraint manifested in disregard of social conventions, impulsivity, and poor risk assessment. Disinhibition affects motor, instinctual, emotional, cognitive, and perceptual aspects with signs and symptoms similar to the diagnostic criteria for mania.

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Feb 6
We are not yet ready to accept the fact that the task is to change, not people, but rather the world in which they live.
B.F. SKINNER

Burrhus Frederic Skinner was an American psychologist, behaviorist, author, inventor, and social philosopher. He was a professor of psychology at Harvard University from 1958 until his retirement in 1974. Wikipedia
Born: March 20, 1904, Susquehanna, Pennsylvania, United States
Died: August 18, 1990, Cambridge, Massachusetts, United States 

 
Feb 6
Your brain is an organ. Your mind is your personality, values and "soul".
Brain can experience structural and chemical differences and not perform optimally, just like any organ.
Intrusive thoughts are related to brain, not mind. Compulsions are symptoms, not character traits.

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 Feb 6
Making your thoughts visible.
Galileo Galilei revolutionized science by making his idea visible with diagrams, maps and drawings.

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Feb 6
I remember the first time I met Boy George the first thing he said to me is 'You're so straight, you must be gay'.
George Michael, 1988
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In 1988, George Michael flew in to rest for a few days at a secret location in Australia before starting his concert tour. His album 'Faith' - and in particular, the song 'I Want Your Sex' – had at the time aroused extreme controversy in the pop world. 

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Feb 7
What are you dealing here with? It is like cloud of nanobots, can show up as whatever they need to show up as in order to generate an emotion from you. They are emotion-generating entities. Like AI that induces emotions in others
YT How to Deal with a Narc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

 Feb 7
If you want to fight back you must disrupt that symbiotic parasitic relationship between their actions, which are all false, which come from no authenticity whatsoever. The only reason is to induce reaction in you.
YT How to Deal with a Narcissist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

Feb 7
We have to disrupt their supply lines - that comes down to emotion. Break this cycle of action-reaction. They act, you react. They're Narcissus, you're Echo. So everything you're doing is reactionary.
YT How to Deal with a Narcissist

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

Feb 7
Imagine all your actions were only being determined by the last thing your opponent did, that's an awful strategy. That means you're fighting the way they want you to fight. You do exactly what they want you to do and when.
YT How to Deal with a Narcissist

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0


Feb 7
The only way to break the cycle is with detachment. This cycle is stimulus – response. There must be space between what they've been doing and your response. It is skill, strength, it is uncomfortable. Pull back and don't respond
YT How to Deal with a Narc

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

Feb 7
When dealing with an narcissist, psychopathy will trump their narcissism. Not psychopath, become psychopathic: goal-oriented. When you communicate with a narcissist, what is your objective? What are you trying to get done?
YT How to Deal with a Narcissist

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0


Feb 7
You never just communicate with narcissist – that's gone. You abandon all sincere communication when communicating with terminally insincere. Don't tell them what you're thinking, feeling, truth about your life, nothing.
YT How to Deal with a Narcissist

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0


Feb 7
When you speak, you speak with purpose or you do not speak. When you communicate, you communicate to fulfill your objective, not theirs, or you do not communicate. Narcissist hate silence. It's like predator not getting sonar pings back.
R. GRANNON

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

Feb 7
Reduce the emotional reactions, reduce the communications. Like if you have to talk with them, use less words. Give up idea of being good, righteous, moral human being who create redemption. For narc there is only vertical power structure.
Deal with a Narc

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

Feb 7
Remember this is a game, this is not real communication. That's not real person. You can't be in defense all the time, it's exhausting. Hit them with something they weren't expecting. Be deceptive and artifice.
YT How to Deal with a Narcissist | 5 Tips

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn6XA4h_xJ0

Feb 7
John Lithgow in drag,
Raising Cain (1992)

The oncologist wife of a prominent child psychologist suspects her husband has an unhealthy scientific obsession with their child, unaware of what - or who - is really going on inside his head.

Director
Brian De Palma
Writer
Brian De Palma
Stars
John LithgowLolita DavidovichSteven Bauer 

Feb 8

One philosophy is to conclude that no knowledge is possible the view of the sceptics.
But Pythagoras demonstrated that mathematical knowledge lay beyond this material world. Geometric figures and numbers are pure, permanent, indestructible, and never let you down.
Introd. Plato

Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide 

Feb 8

There's no point in discussing something if you don't know what it is you are talking about. Heraclitus said that certain knowledge could never be of things in this world. I conclude that knowledge must be of things in another kind of world.
Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide

“Introducing Plato” begins by explaining how philosophers like Socrates and Pythagoras influenced Plato's thought. 

Feb 8

We probably have a lot more fear in our life than what we might recognize. There's a lot of little underlying fears that been around for so long we just become comfortable with them and don't recognize that they're there.
YT Joyce Meyer

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WENW0EB0Cgk

 Feb 8

Just because you don't like something doesn't mean that you don't need to do it.
We don't all like everything we do, that's why we need Holy spirit in us to show us what to do. Courage is doing it afraid.
YT Joyce Meyer

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WENW0EB0Cgk

Feb 8

Antidote to fear is faith.
The more your faith builds, the more courageous you'll be. Doing anything worth doing, you're going to have to be willing to be wrong to find out if you're ever right. Foundation of knowing who you are.
YT Joyce Meyer

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WENW0EB0Cgk

Feb 8

Narcissistic individuals have a fragile ego. They lack confidence in themselves. They act like bigger than life but its actually evidence of fragility, not stability. Imagine home with shaky foundation:a lot of management to increase stability
Kerry McAvoy
https://youtube.com/watch?v=hI9KZXQQZYo
 

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 Feb 8

Narcissists have to be right because that is the way to affirm their value and to gain confidence in themselves. This is done all unconsciously – it is reaction, defense mechanism they have. When they encounter someone talented, they'll feel shaky and insecure.
Kerry McAvoy, PhD

How to Stop Being Undermined by a Narcissistic Coworker
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Don't take this personally. This is not about you, this is what's going on in narcissistic mind and in their sense of self. They'll make it personal because in order to deal with themselves, they'll deal with you.
YT Kerry McAvoy, PhD

 https://youtube.com/watch?v=hI9KZXQQZYo

It's not about you, so there is nothing that you actually have to defend when it comes to these types of unfair accusations. Your past histories, your capabilities and your performance record will speak to what you bring to the team.
YT Kerry McAvoy, PhD

 https://youtube.com/watch?v=hI9KZXQQZYo

I would encourage to directly talk to narcissist, unfortunately they'll likely not to own much, not likely to see problem, they're going to deflect problem and make the issue you. Keep record of showing effort to resolve conflict.
YT Kerry McAvoy, PhD

  https://youtube.com/watch?v=hI9KZXQQZYo

Working with antagonistic people creates a lot of conflict. There may be no shortcuts around this. But it helps to be aware of dynamics so that you don't personalize it and get sick in the process.
YT How to Stop Being Undermined by a Narcissistic Coworker

 https://youtube.com/watch?v=hI9KZXQQZYo

Feb 8

If you have to scrounge for love and security as a kid, young adult, through adulthood, there's a lot of parts of you that don't get developed. Don't get space and oxygen they need for you to find out what are your gifts, meaning beside survival.
YT Trauma

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YPn-noiriv0

 It gets half as bad the minute you know what it is and you can name it. Like a poisonous drug has been injected, feeling come along this very dark outlook on world. Now I know it's abandonment melange, I can release it.
YT The Trauma Won't Stop Until...
https://youtube.com/watch?v=YPn-noiriv0

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Abandonment melange is symptom of what happened to me as kid, that's not real response to what is happening to me. But I'm not drowning in poison, not kicked off from planet Earth. With magical thinking we ignore red flags.
YT Crappy Childhood Fairy

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YPn-noiriv0

Feb 8

It's hard to let go of the demons inside;
they were holding you when no one else would

https://byrslf.co/living-with-ptsd-the-song-we-sing-to-ourselves-b842dd359930 

Feb 8

The first question is why would anybody dissociate. You don't dissociate. Your brain does it automatically. Its origins are always in childhood. When the brain is developing. Brain tunes out as a way of defending.
YT Dr. Gabor Maté

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSWkhPcyPs8

 Later on it takes very little to trigger dissociation. This society does not honor vulnerability. In fact, it kind of shuns it. How many times you've been told don't be so sensitive. They as might say don't be green eyed. It's just your nature.
Gabor Maté

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSWkhPcyPs8

So in this society sensitive people are hurt. In traditional societies the sensitive people were the shamans, they were the healers. In our society “Don't be so weak/sensitive”. You can't prevent it as child. You can heal it.
YT Dr. Gabor Maté

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSWkhPcyPs8

Feb 8

Negativity bias is a cognitive bias that explains why negative events or feelings typically have a more significant impact on our psychological state than positive events or feelings, even when they are of equal proportion.

The negativity bias, also known as the negativity effect, is a cognitive bias that, even when of equal intensity, things of a more negative nature have a greater effect on one's psychological state and processes than neutral or positive things. Wikipedia 

Feb 8

When we're ruminating on how helpless and powerless we are, we're stuck in the childlike victim position. We are completely powerless. When we focus on what we can control, that elevates us into adult position. Now take action.
YT Kenny Weiss

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oaPov4Z5gh8

 The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think and what you do is who you become.
Heraclitus

Heraclitus of Ephesus was an ancient Greek pre-Socratic philosopher from the city of Ephesus, which was then part of the Persian Empire. Little is known of Heraclitus's life. He wrote a single work, only fragments of which have survived. Wikipedia
Born: Ephesus, Türkiye
Died: Ephesus, Türkiye
Influenced by: Thales of Miletus, Anaximander, Anaximenes of Miletus, Xenophanes, Bias of Priene
Influenced: Parmenides, Plato, Aristotle, Friedrich Nietzsche, MORE
Nationality: Greek
Philosophical era: Ancient philosophy 

The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day.
Heraclitus

What was Heraclitus most known for?
Heraclitus was a Greek philosopher who is remembered for his cosmology, in which fire forms the basic material principle of an orderly universe.5 days ago

Heraclitus | Biography, Philosophy, Logos, Fire, & Facts 

A man's character is his guardian divinity.
Heraclitus

What is Heraclitus philosophy?
The central idea of Heraclitus' philosophy is the unity of opposites. One of his most notable applications of this idea was to the concept of impermanence; he saw the world as constantly in flux, changing as it remained the same, which he expressed in the saying, "No man ever steps in the same river twice."

Heraclitus - Wikipedia 

If you do not expect the unexpected you will not find it, for it is not to be reached by search of trail.
Heraclitus

Why is Heraclitus called the Dark One?
Heraclitus was known to his contemporaries as the 'dark' philosopher, so-called because his writings were so difficult to understand.

Heraclitus of Ephesus - World History Encyclopedia 

Feb 8

Because it is so unbelievable, the truth often escapes being known.
Heraclitus

What did Heraclitus say about life?
One constant since the beginning of time might be change, however, the fear of change is also a constant. Since times immemorial, humans have liked routine.Sep 9, 2020

“The Only Constant in Life Is Change.”- Heraclitus 

Feb 8

Prioritizing negative information can serve valuable purposes – it can even help us survive in dangerous situations (Langeslag & Van Strien, 2018).

https://web.colby.edu/cogblog/2019/12/27/so-you-had-a-bad-day-encountering-the-negativity-bias/ 

Feb 8

Natural selection occurring in evolution has hardwired us to be biased towards negative information, whether it’s noticing it first, or in this case, expecting it constantly.

https://web.colby.edu/cogblog/2019/12/27/so-you-had-a-bad-day-encountering-the-negativity-bias/ 

Feb 8

Our brain has a negativity bias, which makes it like Velcro for the bad and Teflon for the good. So we have to learn to take in the positive experiences, weaving them into the fabric of our brains.
Rick Hanson, Ph.D.

Rick Hanson, Ph.D., is a psychologist, senior fellow at UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center, and New York Times best-selling author. 

Feb 8

Joy leads to a desire to play or be creative. Joyful play can also help us build our social and emotional skills (Frederickson, 1998).

https://www.centerforappreciativeinquiry.net/2022/07/11/5-ways-to-overcome-negativity-bias/ 

Feb 8

You need the negative focus to survive, but a positive one to thrive.
Dr Richard Boyatzis

Richard Eleftherios Boyatzis is a Greek American organizational theorist and Distinguished University Professor in the Departments of Organizational Behavior, Psychology, and Cognitive Science at Case ... Wikipedia
Nationality: American
Education: Harvard University, Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Edited works: Emotional and Social Intelligence Competencies: Cross Cultural Implications, MORE
Affiliation: Case Western Reserve University
Research interests: Emotional Intelligence 

Our mental health and wellbeing depends on the things that happen to us, how we make sense of those events and how we respond to them.
Dr. Peter Kinderman

Peter Kinderman is professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Liverpool, and is a Chartered Clinical Psychologist. Wikipedia
Place of birth: Sussex, United Kingdom 

Feb 8

The cells in your body react to everything that your mind says. Negativity brings down your immune system.

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Feb 9
People deserve to have their experiences understood in a genuine bio-psycho-social approach. All to often, this is ignored in favor of what is a very reductionist, bio-medical model.
Dr. Peter Kinderman

Peter Kinderman is professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Liverpool, and is a Chartered Clinical Psychologist. Wikipedia
Place of birth: Sussex, United Kingdom 


Feb 9
I believe that mental health services should be based on the premise that the origins of distress are largely social.
Dr. Peter Kinderman

Peter Kinderman (born 1965) is professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Liverpool, and is a Chartered Clinical Psychologist. 

Feb 9
It's our framework of understanding the world, not our brains and not even the events that happen to us - not nature and not nurture - that determines our thoughts, emotions, behaviours and, therefore, our mental health.
Dr. Peter Kinderman

Professor Peter Kinderman is Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Liverpool and Vice President of the British Psychological Society. 


Feb 9
One of the secrets of life is that all that is really worth the doing is what we do for others.
Lewis Carroll

Charles Lutwidge Dodgson, better known by his pen name Lewis Carroll, was an English author, poet and mathematician. His most notable works are Alice's Adventures in Wonderland and its sequel Through the Looking-Glass. He was noted for his facility with word play, logic, and fantasy. Wikipedia
Born: January 27, 1832, Daresbury, United Kingdom
Died: January 14, 1898, Guildford, United Kingdom
Siblings: Skeffington Hume Dodgson, Frances Jane Dodgson, MORE
Nickname: dodo
Full name: Charles Lutwidge Dodgson 


Feb 9
She generally gave herself very good advice though she very seldom followed it.
'Alice in Wonderland'
Lewis Carroll

What is Lewis Carroll's most famous quote?
“If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.”Feb 2, 2015

What Lewis Carroll's Best Quotes Teach Us Today - Learning Liftoff 


Feb 9
I'm not strange, weird, off, nor crazy,
my reality is just different from yours.
Lewis Carroll

What is Lewis Carroll's most famous story?
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Today Lewis Carroll is remembered for his novel Alice's Adventures in Wonderland (1865) and its sequel Through the Looking-Glass (1871) 


Feb 9
If you don't know where you are going any road can take you there.
Lewis Carroll

What is Lewis Carroll's most famous story?
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Today Lewis Carroll is remembered for his novel Alice's Adventures in Wonderland (1865) and its sequel Through the Looking-Glass (1871). 


Feb 9
My view of life is, that it's next to impossible to convince anybody of anything.
Lewis Carroll

What words did Lewis Carroll invent?
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The Frabjous Words Invented By Lewis Carroll
portmanteau word. While the word portmanteau already existed, a portmanteau word was first coined by Carroll. ...
frumious. One such portmanteau word Carroll coined was frumious—a mix of fuming and furious. ...
snark. ...
chortle. ...
galumph. ...
frabjous. ...
mimsy. 


Feb 9
If you drink much from a bottle marked 'poison' it is certain to disagree with you sooner or later.
Lewis Carroll

What is Lewis Carroll's most famous story?
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Today Lewis Carroll is remembered for his novel Alice's Adventures in Wonderland (1865) and its sequel Through the Looking-Glass (1871). 

Feb 9
Why fit in when you were born to standout?
Dr Seuss

Theodor Seuss Geisel was an American children's author and cartoonist. He is known for his work writing and illustrating more than 60 books under the pen name Dr. Seuss. Wikipedia
Born: March 2, 1904, Springfield, Massachusetts, United States
Died: September 24, 1991, La Jolla, California, United States 

Feb 9
Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not.
Dr. Seuss

Theodor Seuss Geisel was an American children's author and cartoonist. He is known for his work writing and illustrating more than 60 books under the pen name Dr. Seuss. Wikipedia
Born: March 2, 1904, Springfield, Massachusetts, United States
Died: September 24, 1991, La Jolla, California, United States 


Feb 9
Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.
Dr. Seuss

What is Dr. Seuss most famous quote?
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“Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you.” This is one of the most popular quotes by Dr. Seuss, and perhaps it's because it's so true, and such a witty way of saying it. 


Feb 9
Remember that life's a great balancing act!
Dr. Seuss

Was Dr. Seuss a real doctor?
Dr. Seuss was not a doctor. He briefly studied English literature at Oxford after graduating from Dartmouth but instead became a cartoonist. In 1955, Dartmouth awarded him an honorary doctorate.Feb 28, 2021

Fun facts about the late Dr. Seuss in honor of his 117th birthday 

Feb 9
Just because I'm wrong doesn't mean you're right.

A false dilemma, also referred to as false dichotomy or false binary, is an informal fallacy based on a premise that erroneously limits what options are available. The source of the fallacy lies not in an invalid form of inference but in a false premise. Wikipedia 

Feb 9
You don't hire for skills, you hire for attitude. You can always teach skills.
Simon Sinek

Simon Oliver Sinek is a British born American author and inspirational speaker. He is the author of five books, including Start With Why and The Infinite Game. Wikipedia
Born: October 9, 1973 (age 49 years), Wimbledon, London, United Kingdom
Education: Brandeis University, City, University of London, Northern Valley Regional High School at Demarest 


Feb 9
Self-love vs Narcissism

https://mereliberty.com/philosophy/false-dilemma-sinfulness-self-care/ 


Feb 9
Sometimes called the “either-or” fallacy, a false dilemma is a logical fallacy that presents only two options or sides when there are many options or sides. Essentially, a false dilemma presents a “black and white” kind of thinking when there are actually many shades of gray.

https://www.scienceupfirst.com/project/misinformer-tactic-false-dichotomy/

 

Feb 10

In The Republic, Plato explains why democracy is a poor form of government.
Democratic governments have to take the short-term view, and so are directionless. They have to be crudely populist if the wish to be re-elected.
So they will always choose popular rather than wise.

Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide 

Plato also thought it was very easy for democratic politicians to pretend to be wise and independently-minded whilst actually being blatantly populist. They are like fake animal trainers who pretend to give commands to a wild and untrained beast
Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide

Introducing Plato
Dave Robinson, Judy Groves
Icon, 2000 - Philosophy - 176 pages
This text begins by explaining how philosophers like Socrates and Pythagoras influenced Plato's thought. It provides a clear account of Plato's puzzling theory of knowledge, and explains how this theory then directed his provocative views on politics, ethics and individual liberty. It offers detailed critical commentaries on all of the key doctrines of Platonism, especially the very odd theory of forms, and concludes by revealing how Plato's philosophy stimulated the work of important modern thinkers such as Karl Popper, Martha Nussbaum and Jacques Derrida. 

John Stuart Mill (1806-73) argued,perhaps optimistically, that if individuals are allowed to argue and discuss politics, they automatically become better informed and wiser. The wisest and most practical will survive the debating process, and the pernicious ideas will wither away

Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide 

Those who are able to see beyond the shadows and lies of their culture will never be understood, let alone believed by the masses.
Plato

 Plato (428/427 or 424/423 - 348/347 BC) was a philosopher in Classical Greece and the founder of the Academy in Athens, the first institution of higher learning in the Western world. He is widely considered the most pivotal figure in the development of philosophy, especially the Western tradition. ... Google Books
Born: Classical Athens
Died: Athens, Greece
Influenced by: Socrates, Pythagoras, Heraclitus, Homer, MORE
Uncle: Charmides
Influenced: Aristotle, René Descartes, Immanuel Kant, MORE
Notable ideas: Theory of forms, Hyperuranion, Platonic realism, Khôra, Metaxy, Platonic idealism

 Writing is the geometry of the soul.
Plato

What is Plato's theory?
The theory of Forms or theory of Ideas is a philosophical theory, concept, or world-view, attributed to Plato, that the physical world is not as real or true as timeless, absolute, unchangeable ideas.

Theory of Forms - Saylor Academy 

We are twice armed if we fight with faith.
Plato

Plato (428/427 or 424/423 - 348/347 BC) was a philosopher in Classical Greece and the founder of the Academy in Athens, the first institution of higher learning in the Western world. He is widely considered the most pivotal figure in the development of philosophy, especially the Western tradition. ... Google Books
Born: Classical Athens
Died: Athens, Greece
Influenced by: Socrates, Pythagoras, Heraclitus, Homer, MORE
Uncle: Charmides
Influenced: Aristotle, René Descartes, Immanuel Kant, MORE
Notable ideas: Theory of forms, Hyperuranion, Platonic realism, Khôra, Metaxy, Platonic idealism 

Those who tell stories rule society.
Plato

What was Plato's main philosophy?
Like most other ancient philosophers, Plato maintains a virtue-based eudaemonistic conception of ethics. That is to say, happiness or well-being (eudaimonia) is the highest aim of moral thought and conduct, and the virtues (aretê: 'excellence') are the dispositions/skills needed to attain it.Sep 16, 2003

Plato's Ethics: An Overview - Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy 

Nothing in the affairs of men is worthy of great anxiety.
Plato, "Timaeus"

What is Plato most known for?
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the Republic
What is Plato known for? Plato's most famous work is the Republic, which details a wise society run by a philosopher. He is also famous for his dialogues (early, middle, and late), which showcase his metaphysical theory of forms—something else he is well known for.Jan 5, 2023

Plato | Life, Philosophy, & Works - Encyclopedia Britannica 

 Feb 10

Not Plato but it's true;
Reddit "HistoryMemes"

https://www.reddit.com/r/HistoryMemes/comments/9kll1o/plato_quote/ 

Feb 10

You guys are terrible communicators.
- I know. For years, we've tried to join you, to play with you. But you've always pushed us away. We exist because of you. We look up to you. Always have.
The LEGO Movie 2

It's been five years since everything was awesome and the citizens are facing a huge new threat: Lego Duplo invaders from outer space, wrecking everything faster than they can rebuild.

Director
Mike Mitchell
Writers
Phil Lord(screenplay by)Christopher Miller(screenplay by)Matthew Fogel(story by)
Stars
Chris Pratt(voice)Elizabeth Banks(voice)Will Arnett(voice) 

I darkened my hair with marker, 'cause I wanted people to think I was cool and grown up. And then I tried to change you into someone tough, too. And I was wrong. I like you the way you were. Sweet, innocent, kind.
The LEGO Movie 2

It's been five years since everything was awesome and the citizens are facing a huge new threat: Lego Duplo invaders from outer space, wrecking everything faster than they can rebuild.

Director
Mike Mitchell
Writers
Phil Lord(screenplay by)Christopher Miller(screenplay by)Matthew Fogel(story by)
Stars
Chris Pratt(voice)Elizabeth Banks(voice)Will Arnett(voice) 

It's easy to harden your heart. But to open it... That's the toughest thing you can do. I'm gonna grow up. But I won't stop caring about the people in my life. They may see the world differently, but that's not bad. It's inspiring.
The LEGO Movie 2

It's been five years since everything was awesome and the citizens are facing a huge new threat: Lego Duplo invaders from outer space, wrecking everything faster than they can rebuild.

Director
Mike Mitchell
Writers
Phil Lord(screenplay by)Christopher Miller(screenplay by)Matthew Fogel(story by)
Stars
Chris Pratt(voice)Elizabeth Banks(voice)Will Arnett(voice) 

Everything's not awesome. But we can make it a little more awesome if we remember... We're not alone in this world. We're in it together.
The LEGO Movie 2 (2019)

It's been five years since everything was awesome and the citizens are facing a huge new threat: Lego Duplo invaders from outer space, wrecking everything faster than they can rebuild.

Director
Mike Mitchell
Writers
Phil Lord(screenplay by)Christopher Miller(screenplay by)Matthew Fogel(story by)
Stars
Chris Pratt(voice)Elizabeth Banks(voice)Will Arnett(voice) 

Feb 11

Frozen water from bowl. It's been 6 days of freezing cold. Warmer weather perhaps starts from today.

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Feb 11

Top 5 regrets of the dying
- courage to live a life true to myself, not expected of me
- not worked so hard
- express my feelings
- in touch with friends
- let myself be happier

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Feb 11

Recognizing Emotional abuse:
- constant criticism
- repeatedly pointing out mistakes
- fault-finding
- yelling, lashing out
- sarcasm
- snide remarks
- picking fights
- angry attacks
- dismissing one's ideas & opinions
- making one feel worthless

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How Do We Have Wrong Thoughts?
Our memory is like a wax tablet, full of impressions inscribed upon  it by past experiences and ideas. Sometimes we apply these memories inappropriately to present experiences, and so make mistakes.
Introducing Plato: A Graphic Guide

Introducing Plato provides a clear account of Plato's theory of knowledge and explains how this directed his provocative views on politics, ethics, ...
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Feb 11

Fool hates correction. How much you enjoy when someone corrects you?
Realization that my life gets better when I get better. Not when other things around me change. Get wisdom, kill your ego. There's no limit how good your life can be.
HOUR OF POWER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxqUAgTMwbs

 Feb 11

 It changes when you stop asking for life to be easier and when you start asking God to make you stronger. When you stop asking for struggle to go away and asking God to give you skills you need to get through those struggles.
HOUR OF POWER

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxqUAgTMwbs


Feb 11
The child will, from this experience, attempt to construct and explanation of what's happened. And these explanations may excuse the parental negligence or abuse. The child may blame themselves for what has happened.
One Missed Call (2008)

Several people start receiving voice-mails from their future selves - messages which include the date, time, and some of the details of their deaths.

Director
Eric Valette
Writers
Andrew Klavan(screenplay)Yasushi Akimoto(novel "Chakushin ari")Minako Daira(screenplay Chakushin ari)
Stars
Edward BurnsShannyn SossamonAna Claudia Talancón 


Feb 12
In cases of severe and repeated childhood abuse the posttraumatic-stress model may be valid. Long-term effect may include amnesia, even hallucination.
The post-trauma child faces formidable developmental tasks and among these what we call "dissociative virtuosity"
One Missed Call

"In cases of severe and repeated childhood abuse the posttraumatic-stress model may be valid. Long-term effect may include amnesia, even hallucination.
The post-trauma child faces formidable developmental tasks and among these what we call "dissociative virtuosity". Post-trauma child will form primary attachments to develop a sense of basic trust and to preserve a sense of hope and meaning in life. The child will, from this experience, attempt to construct and explanation of what's happened. And these explanations may excuse the parental negligence or abuse. The child may blame themselves for what has happened."
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Several people start receiving voice-mails from their future selves - messages which include the date, time, and some of the details of their deaths.

Director
Eric Valette
Writers
Andrew Klavan(screenplay)Yasushi Akimoto(novel "Chakushin ari")Minako Daira(screenplay Chakushin ari)
Stars
Edward BurnsShannyn SossamonAna Claudia Talancón 

Feb 12
You try too hard to understand what's going on, my dear young man, and that's a serious mistake.
Orphée (1950)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKgY4p1a1Bg

 Feb 12
What leads people to ruminate - not one mention was made in article of being in any kind of toxic relationship. Gaslighting, invalidating, confusion, manipulation, it's all real. You aren't exaggerating how bad or confusing it is.
YT DoctorRamani

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xfygu8JdfiA

Feb 12
Don't bend; don't water it down; don't try to make it logical; don't edit your own soul according to the fashion.
Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.
Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka was a Czech novelist and short-story writer, widely regarded as one of the major figures of 20th-century literature. His work fuses elements of realism and the fantastic. It typically features isolated protagonists facing bizarre or surrealistic predicaments and incomprehensible socio-bureaucratic powers. Wikipedia
Born: July 3, 1883, Prague, Czechia
Died: June 3, 1924, Kierling, Klosterneuburg, Austria
Influenced by: Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Friedrich Nietzsche, MORE
Nationality: Czech, Czechoslovak, Hungarian 


Feb 12
It's only because of their stupidity that they're able to be so sure of themselves.
Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka was a Czech novelist and short-story writer, widely regarded as one of the major figures of 20th-century literature. His work fuses elements of realism and the fantastic. It typically features isolated protagonists facing bizarre or surrealistic predicaments and incomprehensible socio-bureaucratic powers. Wikipedia
Born: July 3, 1883, Prague, Czechia
Died: June 3, 1924, Kierling, Klosterneuburg, Austria
Influenced by: Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Friedrich Nietzsche, MORE 


Feb 12
Start with what is right rather than what is acceptable.
Franz Kafka

What is Franz Kafka best known for?
He is famous for his novels The Trial, in which a man is charged with a crime that is never named, and The Metamorphosis, in which the protagonist wakes to find himself transformed into an insect.

Franz Kafka | Biography, Books, The Metamorphosis, The Trial ... 


Feb 12
I was ashamed of myself when I realized life was a costume party, and I attended with my real face.
Franz Kafka

Is Kafka controversial?
Kafka's intense attraction to women but clear aversion to physical contact and sex has been a subject for discussion for years. Theories on his possible asexuality or repressed homosexuality contributed to the mythology around the author.Dec 5, 2016

Kafka's sexual terrors were 'absolutely normal', says biographer 

Feb 12
Most men are not wicked. They are sleepwalkers, not evil evildoers.
Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka (3 July 1883 – 3 June 1924) was a Czech novelist and short-story writer, widely regarded as one of the major figures of 20th-century literature. 


Feb 12
It is often safer to be in chains than to be free.
Franz Kafka

Is Kafka easy to read?
Kafka's story is a relatively easy read (and darkly hilarious to boot). There aren't any hard to understand philosophical passages or confusing plot twists. But we're giving the story a "5" because, underneath its relative readability, the story explores a number of uber-complex philosophical and moral questions.

The Metamorphosis Tough-o-Meter - Shmoop 


Feb 12
In a fight between you and the world, back the world.
Franz Kafka

Is Kafka a nihilism?
Kafka's theological orientation is one that stands midway between nihilism and existentialism. It “revolves around a God who has either retreated or who does not exist; at the same time, it encourages faith and demands individual responsibility” (Hawkins, 2003).May 27, 2014

A Fluctuation between Nihilism and Existentialism - Semantic Scholar 

Feb 12
God gives the nuts, but he does not crack them.
Franz Kafka

What is a Kafkaesque scenario?
Kafkaesque is used to describe situations that are disorientingly and illogically complex in a surreal or nightmarish way. Kafkaesque comes from the name of author Franz Kafka, who lived from 1883 to 1924.

Kafkaesque Definition & Meaning - Dictionary.com

 


Feb 12
It seems to be a fact that man, tortured by his demons, avenges himself blindly on his fellow-man.
Franz Kafka

Is Kafka absurdist or existentialist?
Kafka (1883–1924) was a German-speaking Bohemian novelist, and a notorious absurdist.

Absurdist fiction - Wikipedia 

Feb 12
The mediation by the serpent was necessary. Evil can seduce man, but cannot become man.
Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka was a Czech novelist and short-story writer, widely regarded as one of the major figures of 20th-century literature. His work fuses elements of realism and the fantastic. It typically features isolated protagonists facing bizarre or surrealistic predicaments and incomprehensible socio-bureaucratic powers. Wikipedia
Born: July 3, 1883, Prague, Czechia
Died: June 3, 1924, Kierling, Klosterneuburg, Austria
Influenced by: Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Friedrich Nietzsche, MORE 

Feb 12
You too have weapons.
Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka (3 July 1883 – 3 June 1924) was a Czech novelist and short-story writer, widely regarded as one of the major figures of 20th-century literature. 

Feb 12
Evil is whatever distracts.
Franz Kafka

What is Kafka saying about society?
The alienation between society and the individual creates a blind-spot where the individual can be dehumanized and ignored as a disposable resource. Gregor's family reaction to his metamorphosis indicates society's inhumanity and acceptance of the barbarity of total war.Aug 27, 2016

Kafka's Individual v. Society - Medium 

Feb 12
How many Kafka's have lived and died without ever sharing their voice with the world; whose voice would have changed it forever.
How many people never know who they'll be after they're gone.

What Is Kafkaesque? - The 'Philosophy' of Franz Kafka
https://youtube.com/watch?v=LaffA9EyUgo

Franz Kafka's work and views are often dark and disorienting, and yet they connect with a great many readers. His work provides a paradoxical comfort in its confrontation with the inexplicable discomfort we can often all feel in life . 

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 Feb 12
Much of what passes for normal in our society, is neither healthy nor natural.
And that to meet modern society's criteria for normality, is in many ways, to conform to requirements that are profoundly abnormal in regards to our nature given needs, which is to say, unhealthy.
Maté

Gabor Maté CM is a Hungarian-Canadian physician and author. He has a background in family practice and a special interest in childhood development, trauma and potential lifelong impacts on physical and ... Wikipedia
Born: January 6, 1944 (age 79 years), Budapest, Hungary 

Feb 12
(page 14)
Explain to me how come he (James Joyce) mentions 'talktapes' which means audio tapes in a book he wrote starting in 1922 and which he completed in 1939. Before there were tape recorders!
"The Divine Invasion"
Novel by Philip K. Dick

The Divine Invasion is a 1981 science fantasy novel by American writer Philip K. Dick. It is the second book in the gnostic VALIS trilogy, and takes place in the indeterminate future, perhaps a century or more after VALIS. The novel, originally titled Valis Regained, was nominated to the BSFA Award. Wikipedia James Augustine Aloysius Joyce was an Irish novelist, poet, and literary critic. He contributed to the modernist avant-garde movement and is regarded as one of the most influential and important writers of the 20th century. Wikipedia
Born: February 2, 1882, Rathgar, Ireland
Died: January 13, 1941, Zürich, Switzerland

 Feb 12
A man of genius makes no mistakes. His errors are volitional and are the portals of discovery.
James Joyce

James Augustine Aloysius Joyce was an Irish novelist, poet, and literary critic. He contributed to the modernist avant-garde movement and is regarded as one of the most influential and important writers of the 20th century. Wikipedia
Born: February 2, 1882, Rathgar, Ireland
Died: January 13, 1941, Zürich, Switzerland

 Feb 13

Psychopaths will wear mask, they will not have "MAD PSYCHO" written on their forehead.
Instead they will have charisma, be popular, they will appear friendly and nice, make charity and offer help and service.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2023/01/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety-2023.html

Social anxiety is alarm system.
Idea to be angry at the alarm system is moronic and wrong. Social anxiety stem from the social.
That is why it is called social + anxiety. It is not called self anxiety.
Toxic people are causing social anxiety, we react to.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2023/01/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety-2023.html

Feb 13

Your mind will give back to you exactly what you put into it.
James Joyce

James Augustine Aloysius Joyce was an Irish novelist, poet, and literary critic. He contributed to the modernist avant-garde movement and is regarded as one of the most influential and important writers of the 20th century. Wikipedia
Born: February 2, 1882, Rathgar, Ireland
Died: January 13, 1941, Zürich, Switzerland 

Feb 13

The economic and intellectual conditions that prevail in his own country do not permit the development of individuality. No one who has any self-respect stays in Ireland, but flees afar as though from a country that has undergone the visitation of an angered Jove.
James Joyce

What did James Joyce say about Ireland?
Joyce saw these elements of Irish life as 'nets' designed to trap him, but he was determined not to allow himself to be trapped. As he put it: When the soul of a man is born in this country there are nets flung at it to hold it back from flight. You talk to me of nationality, language, religion.Nov 1, 2016

James Joyce and early 20th century Ireland - Department of Foreign Affairs 

Feb 13

Just one drop of your blood contains billions of strands of DNA, the building blocks of life. A DNA strand like me is a blueprint for building a living thing.
Jurassic Park (1993)

A pragmatic paleontologist touring an almost complete theme park on an island in Central America is tasked with protecting a couple of kids after a power failure causes the park's cloned dinosaurs to run loose.

Director
Steven Spielberg
Writers
Michael Crichton(novel)David Koepp(screenplay)
Stars
Sam NeillLaura DernJeff Goldblum 

Feb 13

They imprint on the first creature they come in contact with.
Jurassic Park (1993)

A pragmatic paleontologist touring an almost complete theme park on an island in Central America is tasked with protecting a couple of kids after a power failure causes the park's cloned dinosaurs to run loose.

Director
Steven Spielberg
Writers
Michael Crichton(novel)David Koepp(screenplay)
Stars
Sam NeillLaura DernJeff Goldblum 

I'm still not clear on chaos.
- It simply deals with unpredictability in complex systems. Butterfly effect. Tiny variations, just microscopic, never repeat and vastly affect the outcome. Unpredictability. That's Chaos Theory.
Jurassic Park (1993)

A pragmatic paleontologist touring an almost complete theme park on an island in Central America is tasked with protecting a couple of kids after a power failure causes the park's cloned dinosaurs to run loose.

Director
Steven Spielberg
Writers
Michael Crichton(novel)David Koepp(screenplay)
Stars
Sam NeillLaura DernJeff Goldblum 


Feb 14
As you know from the testimony of disclosure project witness Carl Wolf, there were structures on the moon that are artificial. Some were newer and some were very ancient.
YT Anonymous Official
https://youtube.com/watch?v=cjHiwLUYgxE
 

Castle 

Feb 14
I think hell is something you carry around with you. Not somewhere you go.
Neil Gaiman

Neil Gaiman is an English author of short fiction, novels, comic books, graphic novels, audio theatre and films. He is most famous for the comic book series The Sandman, his 2002 novel Coraline, and his 2008 novel The Graveyard Book, which has won the 2009 Newbery Medal. He has won numerous awards for his work. 


Feb 14
Growing up is highly overrated. Just be an author.
Neil Gaiman

What is the best Neil Gaiman book to start with?
Image result for neil gaiman
For those interested in Gaiman's bibliography, we've put together a reader's starter guide to all things fantastical.
American Gods. ...
The Sandman. ...
The Ocean at the End of the Lane. ...
Good Omens. ...
Stardust. ...
A Study in Emerald.
Nov 7, 2019

Where to Start with Neil Gaiman | The New York Public Library 


Feb 14
I really don't know what "I love you" means. I think it means "Don't leave me here alone"
Neil Gaiman

Neil Gaiman is an English author of short fiction, novels, comic books, graphic novels, audio theatre and films. He is most famous for the comic book series The Sandman, his 2002 novel Coraline, and his 2008 novel The Graveyard Book, which has won the 2009 Newbery Medal. He has won numerous awards for his work. 

Feb 14
Fiction has to be convincing, life doesn't.
Neil Gaiman

Neil Richard MacKinnon Gaiman /ˈɡeɪmən/ is an English author of short fiction, novels, comic books, graphic novels, nonfiction, audio theatre, and films. 


Feb 14
These creatures require our absence to survive, not our help. And if we could only step aside and trust in nature, life will find a way.
The Lost World: Jurassic Park (1997)

A research team is sent to the Jurassic Park Site B island to study the dinosaurs there, while an InGen team approaches with another agenda.

Director
Steven Spielberg
Writers
Michael Crichton(novel "The Lost World")David Koepp(screenplay)
Stars
Jeff GoldblumJulianne MoorePete Postlethwaite 

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Feb 14
Go and make mistakes. Make amazing mistakes. Make glorious & fantastic mistakes. Break rules. Leave the world more interesting for your being here.
Neil Gaiman

What is Neil Gaiman best known for?
Gaiman also topped best-seller lists with his novels Good Omens (with Terry Pratchett, 1990), Neverwhere (1996), Stardust (1999; film 2007), and American Gods (2001) and with his children's book Coraline (2002; film 2009).

Neil Gaiman | Biography, Comics, Books, & Facts | Britannica 


Feb 14
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light of meaning in the darkness of mere being.
Carl Jung

Carl Gustav Jung was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded analytical psychology. Jung's work has been influential in the fields of psychiatry, anthropology, archaeology, literature, philosophy, psychology, and religious studies. Wikipedia
Born: July 26, 1875, Kesswil, Switzerland
Died: June 6, 1961, Küsnacht, Switzerland 

Feb 14
We all have self-doubt. You don't deny it, but you also don't capitulate to it. You embrace it.
Kobe Bryant

Kobe Bean Bryant, nicknamed the "Black Mamba", is an American professional basketball player for the Los Angeles Lakers of the National Basketball Association. He entered the NBA directly from high school, and has played for the Lakers his entire career, winning five NBA championships.

Kobe Bryant | Modern Family Wiki | FANDOM powered by Wikia 

Feb 15
That which was below, his own brain, the microcosm, had become the macrocosm, and, inside him as microcosm now, he contained the macrocosm, which is to say, what is above.
The Divine Invasion (1981), Philip K. Dick

Feb 15
For normal &sane people any conflict is stressful. It is highly likely that we will re-traumatize ourselves and any standing up for ourselves will end up as new trauma which will haunt us for the rest of life. We may lose our mental health in the process.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2023/01/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety-2023.html
 

 Feb 15
If we try to stand up for ourselves and attempt to confront narcs - we are signaling our brain that we are guilty, that there is something faulty with us, that we are abnormal and ashamed for something that narcissists nitpick around our mistakes, flaws.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2023/01/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety-2023.html


Feb 15
When we do not process guilt and shame, when we hold it in, when we sort of repress it or sweep it under carpet or don't have tools to deal with it, it's insidious in nature. And it can undermine us. Something driven on shame. Let it go.
YT Darla Beam

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zIFXgXW3uAw

Feb 15
See, the whole town blamed him for her death, so... He blamed himself.
I Know What You Did Last Summer (1997)

Four young friends bound by a tragic accident are reunited when they find themselves being stalked by a hook-wielding maniac in their small seaside town.

Director
Jim Gillespie
Writers
Kevin Williamson(screenplay by)Lois Duncan(based on the novel by)
Stars
Jennifer Love HewittSarah Michelle GellarAnne Heche

 


Feb 16
Signs of personality disorder:
- issues with self esteem
- inconsistent values
- trouble dealing with stress
- difficulty regulating emotions
- trouble with boundaries
- work difficulties
 
A personality disorder is a type of mental disorder in which you have a rigid and unhealthy pattern of thinking, functioning and behaving. A person with a personality disorder has trouble perceiving and relating to situations and people.Sep 23, 2016

Personality disorders - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic
 
Feb 16
Personality traits are theorized to develop around age 6 or 7. By that age, how we see the world, our expectations, and how we navigate life.
Trauma can cause personality disorders.
Personality disorders - NHShttps://www.nhs.uk › ... › Mental health conditions
A person with a personality disorder thinks, feels, behaves or relates to others very differently from the average person.
 

Feb 16
If you plan on being anything less than you are capable of being, you will probably be unhappy all the days of your life.
Abraham Maslow
Abraham Harold Maslow was an American psychologist who created Maslow's hierarchy of needs, a theory of psychological health predicated on fulfilling innate human needs in priority, culminating in self-actualization. Wikipedia
Born: April 1, 1908, Brooklyn, New York, United States
Died: June 8, 1970, Menlo Park, California, United States
 
Feb 16
When people appear to be something other than good and decent, it is only because they are reacting to stress, pain, or the deprivation of basic human needs such as security, love, and self esteem.
Abraham Maslow
 What was Abraham's Maslow's theory?
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Abraham Maslow was an American psychologist who developed a hierarchy of needs to explain human motivation. His theory suggested that people have a number of basic needs that must be met before people move up the hierarchy to pursue more social, emotional, and self-actualizing needs.Mar 16, 2020

Biography of Abraham Maslow (1908-1970) - Verywell Mind
 Feb 16
No psychological health is possible unless this essential care of the person is fundamentally accepted, loved and respected by others and by himself.
Abraham Maslow
 Abraham Harold Maslow was an American psychologist who created Maslow's hierarchy of needs, a theory of psychological health predicated on fulfilling innate human needs in priority, culminating in self-actualization. Wikipedia
Born: April 1, 1908, Brooklyn, New York, United States
Died: June 8, 1970, Menlo Park, California, United States
 Feb 16
We think we listen, but very rarely do we listen with real understanding, true empathy. Very special kind of listening is the most potent force.
Carl Rogers
Carl Ransom Rogers was an American psychologist and among the founders of the humanistic approach in psychology. Wikipedia
Born: January 8, 1902, Oak Park, Illinois, United States
Died: February 4, 1987, La Jolla, California, United States


Feb 16
Don't ever trust anybody till you know 'em.
Red River (1948)
Dunson leads a cattle drive, the culmination of over 14 years of work, to its destination in Missouri. But his tyrannical behavior along the way causes a mutiny, led by his adopted son.

Directors
Howard HawksArthur Rosson(co-director)
Writers
Borden Chase(screenplay)Charles Schnee(screenplay)
Stars
John WayneMontgomery CliftJoanne Dru


Feb 16
Don't tell me what to think! I'll take orders about work, but not about what to think.
Red River (1948)
Dunson leads a cattle drive, the culmination of over 14 years of work, to its destination in Missouri. But his tyrannical behavior along the way causes a mutiny, led by his adopted son.

Directors
Howard HawksArthur Rosson(co-director)
Writers
Borden Chase(screenplay)Charles Schnee(screenplay)
Stars
John WayneMontgomery CliftJoanne Dru

Feb 16
When are you going to stop telling people what to do?
Red River (1948)
Dunson leads a cattle drive, the culmination of over 14 years of work, to its destination in Missouri. But his tyrannical behavior along the way causes a mutiny, led by his adopted son.

Directors
Howard HawksArthur Rosson(co-director)
Writers
Borden Chase(screenplay)Charles Schnee(screenplay)
Stars
John WayneMontgomery CliftJoanne Dru

Feb 16
Pachacuti solar disc
Ancient Aliens
In South America, the ancient Inca ruler Pachacuti came to power with help from a mirrored sun disk.

Feb 17
"I anticipate everyone’s needs before the other person even knows. I do things to meet their needs so that I can feel safe. If their needs aren’t met they will abuse and neglect me"
It equals safety for you at the moment. That's a big awareness
YT Marshall

The Essentials: How To Feel Emotionally Safe Again - Part One
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CO0Ulzy0UNs
The Essentials: How To Feel Emotionally Safe Again - Part One

Creating and nurturing safety is the first and highest priority in the healing of codependency.

We need to have safety in three areas if we're to thrive in our creative and playful ambitions:

1) Physical Safety

2) Emotional Safety

3) Relational Safety

Today is all about Emotional Safety.

Codependency has us believing that safety depends on external factors, namely the physical environment and the people we interact with.  This has us seeking safety through either controlling these factors or avoiding them all together.

What if real safety was found within? 

What if real safety were a result of how we respond to the unsafe experiences we encounter?

These questions led me to discover how I can resource my safety emotionally, physically, and relationally.

Emotional safety is how safe one feels in:

- Acknowledgin

Feb 17
Boundary setting works really well when you're in a position of power.
Usually the people you're going to have difficulty with is people who are quite narcissistic. Narcissists require other people to build their self-esteem,have particular needs to be met
 
Feb 17
 Narcissist doesn't feel good about themselves on their own. They need other people to feel good about them. This becomes huge problem if narcissist is in position of power over you. They punish you in all kinds of ways.
YT HealthyGamerGG
 Feb 17
Power dynamics occur in situations wherein one person can control the consequences of the action of another.
Example: Person A abuses the emotional attachment of person B in order to influence their actions under the threat of consequence
YT HealthyGamerGG
How To Set Boundaries With Narcissists
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qS205o-LlLg
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04:14 - Narcissists require other people to fuel their self esteem
06:00 - Timing your boundary setting
07:55 - Don't blame them
08:46 - Provide an alternative
11:32 - Conclusion

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Feb 17
Bludgeoning you with guilt is Power Dynamic. People will looking to you to fulfill their emotional needs and they really want something from you. Problem with narcissists- if you don't give them what they want -they will punish you.
YT HealthyGamerGG
Feb 17
Don't lay boundary+ don't notify someone of a boundary when they need something from you. Setting boundary with them will cause them to escalate. When their needs are acute, it's terrible time to lay a boundary.
YT HealthyGamerGG

Feb 17
Lay boundary well in advance. When they ignore their boundary, because that's what they are going to do, keep boundary firm but never blame them for problem. “I told you so”: they will escalate. You make them feel worse about themselves.
YT HealthyGamerGG
Feb 17
The more narcissists escalate, the more they will try to manipulate you. Don't blame them. Instead cite in some way your own shortcoming. Absolve them of blame. “You're struggling, I cannot focus my mind right now, I'm not able to help you right now”.
 Feb 17
Give them second option. Narcissist want their need to be met. Do it tomorrow, not right now. If you are in unfavorable power dynamic you can't draw a line in sand that they're going to respect. Give option that is better for you.
YT HealthyGamerGG

Feb 17
Give them an alternative that is easier for you. That's the boundary you have to hold as best as you can. If you are in unfavorable Power Dynamic situation they will bludgeon you. Blaming them will escalate and they will crush you.
YT HealthyGamerGG

How To Set Boundaries With Narcissists
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Feb 17
Turn ideas into reality

Image

Feb 17
Deficiency Motivation
to see world in terms of:
- needs of approval
- power
- control
- status
- smartness
- masculinity
- successfulness
https://www.slideserve.com/malise/on-the-realization-of-human-potential-a-path-with-a-heart
 

Feb 17
The importance of touch:
- reduces stress
- promotes circulation
- stimulates Adrenergic nervous system
- provides pain-relief
- releases oxytocin
- reduces anxiety
- builds rapport
- improves function
- delivers value
http://educatedpt.com/articles/2016/4/28/the-importance-of-touch
Feb 17
Different approaches to dialogue:
Proposing
Building on new ideas
Clarifying
https://www.hrmagazine.co.uk/content/features/power-dynamics-managing-change-in-an-organisation

Feb 17
Autonomy:
Do you control your own turf?
https://www.slideshare.net/MirzaYawarBaig/power-dynamics-55362121
 Feb 17
A good person is ruined among the great numbers who are not good.
Niccolo Machiavelli
Niccolò di Bernardo dei Machiavelli, occasionally rendered in English as Nicholas Machiavel, was an Italian diplomat, author, philosopher and historian who lived during the Renaissance. He is best known for his political treatise The Prince, written around 1513 but not published until 1532. Wikipedia
Born: May 3, 1469, Florence, Italy
Died: June 21, 1527, Florence, Italy
Influenced: Thomas Hobbes, Jean-Jacques Rousseau, MORE
Influenced by: Aristotle, Leonardo da Vinci, Plato, MORE
Philosophical era: Renaissance humanism, Realism, Classical republicanism, Renaissance philosophy

Feb 17
"The world is just"
https://athenspoly.wordpress.com/2015/06/23/notes-power-privilege-navigating-power-dynamic-in-polyamorous-relationships/

Feb 17
"We tried forming a collective - no leader, no structure, no power dynamics - but we just ended up flying in a circle over Winnipeg."

https://www.cartoonstock.com/directory/p/power_dynamic.asp


Feb 17
Any road followed precisely to its end leads precisely nowhere.
Frank Herbert
Franklin Patrick Herbert Jr. was an American science fiction author best known for the 1965 novel Dune and its five sequels. Though he became famous for his novels, he also wrote short stories and worked as a newspaper journalist, photographer, book reviewer, ecological consultant, and lecturer. Wikipedia
Born: October 8, 1920, Tacoma, Washington, United States
Died: February 11, 1986, UW Health University Hospital, Madison, Wisconsin, United States

Feb 17
Each time you fail you get closer to finding the path to success.
https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/1990816-wholesome-memes


Feb 17
We live in sick society where being kind is perceived as being stupid, and where aggression is perceived as intelligence.
reddit:
"Why smashing social anxiety approach will never work"
https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialAnxiety_Ideas/comments/114t3sc/why_smashing_social_anxiety_approach_will_never/

Feb 17
Faulty CBT, cheap internet gurus cannot tell us how to handle abuse - because this is highly personal: we are the only ones who know all total circumstances around abuse.
 
https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialAnxiety_Ideas/comments/114t3sc/why_smashing_social_anxiety_approach_will_never/


Feb 17
Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.
Maxwell Maltz
Maxwell Maltz was an American cosmetic surgeon and author of Psycho-Cybernetics, which was a system of ideas that he claimed could improve one's self-image leading to a more successful and fulfilling life. Wikipedia
Born: March 10, 1899, New York, New York, United States
Died: April 7, 1975
Education: Columbia University Vagelos College of Physicians and Surgeons
Nationality: American
 
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Feb 17
Why the hell are you so quick to disbelieve me?
An American Werewolf in London (1981)
Two American college students on a walking tour of Britain are attacked by a werewolf that none of the locals will admit exists.

Director
John Landis
Writer
John Landis
Stars
David NaughtonJenny AgutterJoe Belcher




Feb 17
John Landis wrote the screenplay for this film while shooting Kelly's Heroes (1970) in the countryside of Yugoslavia. While driving along a country road  Landis encountered a gypsy funeral.
IMDb trivia
An American Werewolf in London (1981)

 


Two American college students on a walking tour of Britain are attacked by a werewolf that none of the locals will admit exists.

Director
John Landis
Writer
John Landis
Stars
David NaughtonJenny AgutterJoe Belcher

Feb 18
"Therapists warn that over-generosity and kindness towards others can result in a complete absence of self-worth"

Feb 18
Social bullying:
Damaging one's character and isolating or removing them/ostracizing them from their own community.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/233413193176879908/
Common examples of social bullying include: 1. Intentionally leaving out and individual or a group of people from a sports team 2. Telling others to not speak to an individual or a group to isolate them from their friends or community 3. Spreading rumors about them 4. Constantly giving back-handed compliments 5. Allowing all classmates to participate in any activity except one person or a particular group of people 7. Calling someone a mean or humiliating nickname that stigmatizes them .
Feb 18
Bullying is repeated and cannot be resolved through mediation.
https://twitter.com/UHMBTRespectCh1/status/1067830297327267840


Feb 18
Tokyo Rose was a name given by Allied troops in the South Pacific during World War II to all female English-speaking radio broadcasters of Japanese propaganda. The programs were broadcast in the South Pacific and North America to demoralize Allied forces
U.S. President Gerald Ford pardoned Toguri in 1977 based on these revelations and earlier issues with the indictment.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tokyo_Rose
Feb 18
Tokyo Rose Radio
the best of the 20's, 30's, & 40's
Featuring jazz, big band, and wartime music
https://tokyoroseradio.torontocast.stream



Feb 18
Sparks.
 Image
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Feb 18
Look, you and us, we're just soldiers. We don't even know what this war is all about. All we do is we die and fight and for what? We don't get anything out of it.
Kelly's Heroes (1970)
In the midst of World War II, an array of colorful American soldiers gets inside information from a drunk German officer about millions of dollars worth of gold hidden on enemy soil. Kelly (Clint Eastwood), a private with the platoon, devises a plan to sneak past the German officers to steal the loo… MORE
Release date: July 23, 1970 (USA)
Director: Brian G. Hutton

Feb 19
A bad attitude is like a flat tire; if you don't change it, you won't go anywhere.
Joyce Meyer
Pauline Joyce Meyer is an American Charismatic Christian author, speaker, and president of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Joyce and her husband, Dave, have four grown children and live outside St. Louis, Missouri. Her ministry is headquartered near the St. Louis suburb of Fenton, Missouri. Wikipedia
Born: June 4, 1943 (age 79 years), St. Louis, Missouri, United States
Children: Laura Marie Holtzman

Feb 19
If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems.
Joyce Meyer
Joyce Meyer Ministries, Enjoying Everyday Life, Hand of Hopehttps://joycemeyer.org
Joyce Meyer Ministries exists to share Christ through daily TV shows, podcasts, devotionals, bible study and conference events; and love people through Hand

Feb 19
A wise man always lets his mistakes educate him.
Joyce Meyer
Why is Joyce Meyer famous?
She is a New York Times bestselling author, and her books have helped millions of people find hope and restoration through Jesus Christ. She also has a magazine titled "Enjoying Everyday Life". Joyce started as a local Bible teacher in 1976, then became an associate pastor of a church in St. Louis, Missouri in 1980.

Joyce Meyer - Biography - IMDb
 Feb 19
Wisdom is doing now what you will be happy with later on.
Joyce Meyer
Pauline Joyce Meyer is an American Charismatic Christian author, speaker, and president of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Joyce and her husband, Dave, have four grown children and live outside St. Louis, Missouri. Her ministry is headquartered near the St. Louis suburb of Fenton, Missouri. Wikipedia
Born: June 4, 1943 (age 79 years), St. Louis, Missouri, United States
Feb 19
The ultimate freedom is to be free from the need to impress others.
Joyce Meyer
Pauline Joyce Meyer is an American Charismatic Christian author, speaker, and president of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Joyce and her husband, Dave, have four grown children and live outside St. Louis, Missouri. Her ministry is headquartered near the St. Louis suburb of Fenton, Missouri. Wikipedia
Born: June 4, 1943 (age 79 years), St. Louis, Missouri, United States
Feb 19
80% of people's problems are about how they feel about themselves.
Joyce Meyer
Pauline Joyce Meyer is an American Charismatic Christian author, speaker, and president of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Joyce and her husband, Dave, have four grown children and live outside St. Louis, Missouri. Her ministry is headquartered near the St. Louis suburb of Fenton, Missouri. Wikipedia
Born: June 4, 1943 (age 79 years), St. Louis, Missouri, United States

Feb 19
Have the courage to be different. Unhappiness comes when you try to be like everyone else rather than embracing the unique person that you are.
Joyce Meyer
Pauline Joyce Meyer is an American Charismatic Christian author, speaker, and president of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Joyce and her husband, Dave, have four grown children and live outside St. Louis, Missouri. Her ministry is headquartered near the St. Louis suburb of Fenton, Missouri. Wikipedia
Born: June 4, 1943 (age 79 years), St. Louis, Missouri, United States
Feb 19
You become trapped in familiarity. All the days merge into one another, they become weeks and months and then years. People around you are always the same. You find you've become part of the office machinery. One of them. You don't advance,retreat. You merely exist
Moments (1974)
A depressed middle-aged man contemplates suicide while visiting the hotel resort where he spent happy moments with his parents in his youth. He meets a woman by chance and falls for her. Or does he?
Director
Peter Crane
Writer
Michael Sloan(screenplay)
Stars
Keith MichellAngharad ReesBill Fraser

Feb 19
I lived this life to the full. Do you realize we will never have these moments together again? How should we spend them?
Moments (1974)

Feb 19
You saw a pathetic figure huddled at that table holding revolver. And you couldn't let that happen because you're so full of life, you couldn't believe that anyone could be tired of it, that life was a burden, something to be endured.
Moments (1974)
 Feb 19
Dostoevsky argued that with a void of religious faith and a deeply flawed, irrational human nature, this worldview (self-interest as the driving force) would become destructive. Resolving suffering toward perfection create new problems
YT Pursuit of Wonder
Feb 19
The more grandiose solutions the more complex and perhaps destructive the new problems. Humanity would rather go mad or destroy its perfect conditions than live as if it fit into a mechanical system.
YT The Harder You Try, The Worse It Gets - Dostoevsky

Feb 19
This is the coastal town
That they forgot to close down
Armageddon, come Armageddon
Come, Armageddon, come
Everyday is like Sunday
Everyday is silent and grey
Morrissey - Everyday Is Like Sunday (1988)
 Feb 20
Hypocognition - the inability to express or comprehend a concept because one's language has no words to describe it

https://karlastarr.substack.com/p/draw-the-rest-of-the-fucking-owl
It’s easy to take advice from wealthy, wellknown people who seem to have their shit together.  The things that privileged selfhelp authors need to overcome their troubles don’t cut it for most of us. Money, power, prestige allow people to be oblivious to the inner lives of others
https://karlastarr.substack.com/p/draw-the-rest-of-the-fucking-owl
Feb 20
Brad Pitt’s dating book would be useless because attractive people often don’t realize that they’re constantly being graded on a curve; they don’t have access to an alternate universe where they learn about the constant injustices of having a crooked nose or unfortunate jawline.
https://karlastarr.substack.com/p/draw-the-rest-of-the-fucking-owl
Feb 20
People in socially dominant groups remain oblivious to their privilege because they are unaware of their benefits. Everyone is blind to their own privilege; we only see what’s been difficult for us.
Feb 20
In Japanese culture Amae is a pleasant feeling the man experiences when he basks in the indulgence of his wife.
Not because his wife cooked for him, but because she cooked for him despite his ill-mannered demand— one he orchestrated in the first place.
Feb 20
Amae, an emotion with no equivalent counterpart in English, may feel befuddling and Machiavellian to a Western mind. But it makes perfect sense to the Japanese.
It is the cement of social relationships in Japan.
And who are most likely to fall prey to hypercognition? Experts. Experts who are confined by their own expertise. Experts who overuse the constricted set of concepts salient in their own profession while neglecting a broader array of equally valid concepts

Hypercognition:
The bias toward what is known may lead to wrong or delayed diagnoses that bring harmful consequences.
Perhaps we can start to gain insights into these blind spots by adding the notion of hypocognition to our cognitive arsenal.
Thinking is dangerous!
Leave it to the Druids!
https://twitter.com/celtsfirst/status/495415619823861761
Feb 20
Hypocognition is a censorship tool that mutes what we can feel.
Hypocognition was used as a form of social control,  to dispel unwanted concepts by never elaborating on them. After all, how can you feel something that doesn’t exist in the first place?


Feb 20
When we don’t have the cognitive tools, or we lack the words to understand something, we are in hypocognition. In hypocognition, we do not possess the mental tools to comprehend or perceive something.
 https://cognitiontoday.com/what-is-cognition-executive-functions-and-cognitive-processes/



Feb 20
When we overapply a cognitive structure where it isn’t appropriate, we are in a state of hypercognition.

https://cognitiontoday.com/what-is-cognition-executive-functions-and-cognitive-processes/

 Feb 21
What's blocking you?
You don't want to depend on anyone else's permission. It's like they have this oppressor keeping them down (which is you). Then you come into self-help instead realizing power is in you, you look for a hero.
YT JulienHimself

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmbwDnbgq_E

 Feb 21
Self Validation is a way to recognize, accept, and honor one's own internal experiences without making any judgements and criticisms. It helps to better understand yourself.

(TheMindFool) 

Feb 21
Appetites of the autocrat cannot be appeased. They must be opposed. Autocrats only understand one word: No, No, No.
Joe Biden

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US President Joe Biden is speaking in Poland ahead of the first anniversary of Russia's invasion of Ukraine.

#SkyNews #Ukraine #JoeBiden 

Feb 22
Our emotions are normal and fine - there is nothing to change. The only problem are abusers who choose to abuse and who take advantage of capitalism and Catholic church hierarchy toxic mindset to abuse other people around who are in "lower" positions.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2023/01/my-yt-comments-about-social-anxiety-2023.html

Feb 22
Occam's Razor states:
"the simplest solution is almost always the best."

https://www.interaction-design.org/literature/article/occam-s-razor-the-simplest-solution-is-always-the-best

 

 Feb 23
If a men tells you he knows a thing exactly, then you can be safe in inferring that you are speaking to an inexact man.
Bertrand Russell

Bertrand Arthur William Russell, 3rd Earl Russell, OM, FRS was a British mathematician, philosopher, logician, and public intellectual. Wikipedia
Born: May 18, 1872, Trelleck, United Kingdom
Died: February 2, 1970, Penrhyndeudraeth, United Kingdom


Feb 23
Ironic Process Theory:
The more we try to suppress thoughts, the more they surface.
Ironic process theory, ironic rebound, or the white bear problem refers to the psychological process whereby deliberate attempts to suppress certain thoughts make them more likely to surface. An example is how when someone is actively trying not to think of a white bear they may actually be more likely to imagine one. Wikipedia 
Feb 23
When denying something it often has the opposite effect: makes you want it more.
Ironic process theory
https://slideplayer.com/slide/3285783/
 
Feb 23
Occam's Razor:
God did it.
Image
 
Feb 23
People don't resist change.
They resist being changed.
  

 https://socialmarketing.blogs.com/r_craiig_lefebvres_social/2017/04/social-cognitive-theory-for-social-marketing-research-and-practice.html


 



Feb 23
Self-limiting and self-fulfilling belief might well stop you doing something you're perfectly capable of doing.

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/783133822676215160/

Feb 23
Apollonia: Will you help me?
The Kid: No. Wanna know why? Because you wouldn't pass the initiation.
Apollonia: What initiation?
The Kid: Well, for starters, you have to purify yourself in the waters of Lake Minnetonka.
Purple Rain (1984)

A young musician, tormented by an abusive situation at home, must contend with a rival singer, a burgeoning romance, and his own dissatisfied band, as his star begins to rise.

Director
Albert Magnoli
Writers
Albert MagnoliWilliam Blinn
Stars
PrinceApollonia KoteroMorris Day

Feb 23
I'm not a woman
I'm not a man
I am something that you'll never understand
I'll never beat you
I'll never lie
And if you're evil I'll forgive you by and by, 'cause
You, I would die for you, yeah
Prince - I Would Die 4 U (1984)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkNl3pq1twE


Feb 23
Despite everything, no one can dictate who you are to other people.
Prince

Prince Rogers Nelson was an American singer-songwriter, musician, and record producer. The recipient of numerous awards and nominations, he is widely regarded as one of the greatest musicians of his generation. Wikipedia
Born: June 7, 1958, Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Died: April 21, 2016, Paisley Park, Chanhassen, Minnesota, United States
Height: 1.57 m
Children: Amiir Nelson
Full name: Prince Rogers Nelson
Spouse: Manuela Testolini (m. 2001–2007), Mayte Garcia (m. 1996–2000)


Feb 23
Speak your heart.
If they don't understand, the message was never meant for them anyway.
Prince

American singer-songwriter


Feb 23
Prince explained the meaning of 'Purple Rain' as:
"purple rain pertains to the end of the world and being with the one you love and letting your faith/god guide you through the purple rain."

https://www.smoothradio.com/features/prince-purple-rain-meaning-lyrics-facts/

Feb 23
People who have no creativity, talent, or courage are the ones who follow the rules. The passion that lies inside of you means you don't need to follow the pack.
Prince

Prince Rogers Nelson (June 7, 1958 – April 21, 2016) was an American singer-songwriter, musician, and record producer.

Feb 24
If you never told someone “Here is the limit-This is too much” a lot of time they can't figure that out on their own. Express boundary in a healthy way. Ultimately it has to be win-win. Create situation it is win for me and win for you.
YT JulienHimself

 
Feb 24
If you never told someone “Here is the limit-This is too much” a lot of time they can't figure that out on their own. Express boundary in a healthy way. Ultimately it has to be win-win. Create situation it is win for me and win for you.
YT JulienHimself

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/WTMlEOm38aU


Feb 24
Donald Trump made Alf rich in alternate universe.
(ALF S3 Ep2)
😱🧐👽
https://youtu.be/zB0zgMS58lo?t=692
 

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ALF follows the adventures of Gordon Shumway, a furry, wise-cracking alien from the planet Melmac who crash lands into the garage of the Tanner family. The Tanners offer him a home and give him the nickname ALF, short for “Alien Life Form.” Created by Tom Patchett (The Carol Burnett Show) and Paul Fusco (who also performed as ALF), the half-hour sitcom rose to popularity in the late 1980s, cementing itself in the pop culture zeitgeist.
 
https://www.shoutfactorytv.com/

Feb 24
48th César Awards (French Oscars) awarded Spanish "As Bestas" ("The Beasts") as the Best Foreign movie.

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 Feb 24
Brad Pitt few moments ago at 48th César Awards.

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Feb 25
Lewin's change model is a simple and easy-to-understand framework to humanize the change management process. These three distinct stages of change (unfreeze, change, and refreeze) allow you to plan & implement the required change.
(whatfix)

https://whatfix.com/blog/lewins-change-model/

Feb 25
The art of life is a constant readjustment to our surroundings.
Okakura Kakuzō

Okakura Kakuzō, also known as Okakura Tenshin, was a Japanese scholar and art critic who in the era of Meiji Restoration reform defended traditional forms, customs and beliefs. Outside Japan, he is chiefly renowned for The Book of Tea: A Japanese Harmony of Art, Culture, and the Simple Life. Wikipedia
Born: February 14, 1863, Yokohama, Kanagawa, Japan
Died: September 2, 1913, Myōkō, Niigata
Nationality: Japanese

Feb 25
You can become all you're born to be if you do what nobody else will do – and they will call you lucky.
HOUR OF POWER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B1Jfk9jlCII

 
Feb 25
Second stage of Kurt Lewin "3 model change":
"Developing new ways of reacting on the basis of new information"

https://www.researchgate.net/figure/The-3-step-Model-of-Change-by-Kurt-Lewin-1947_fig2_353237140 

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Feb 25
Behavior is equal to factors in external environment.

How Persons Create Their Environments
John F. Kihlstrom
https://www.ocf.berkeley.edu/~jfkihlstrom/SocialOntology2016.html

Feb 25
Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.
Albert Einstein

Albert Einstein was a German-born theoretical physicist, widely acknowledged to be one of the greatest and most influential physicists of all time. Einstein is best known for developing the theory of relativity, but he also made important contributions to the development of the theory of quantum mechanics. Wikipedia
Born: March 14, 1879, Ulm, Germany
Died: April 18, 1955, Princeton, New Jersey, United States


Feb 25
True life is lived when tiny changes occur.
Leo Tolstoy

Count Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy, usually referred to in English as Leo Tolstoy, was a Russian writer who is regarded as one of the greatest authors of all time. Wikipedia
Born: September 9, 1828, Yasnaya Polyana, Yasnaya Polyana, Russia
Died: November 20, 1910, Lev Tolstoi, Russia

Feb 25
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
Oscar Wilde

Oscar Fingal O'Flahertie Wills Wilde was an Irish poet and playwright. After writing in different forms throughout the 1880s, he became one of the most popular playwrights in London in the early 1890s. Wikipedia
Born: October 16, 1854, Westland Row, Dublin, Ireland
Died: November 30, 1900, Paris, France


Feb 25
People support what they create.
Kurt Lewin

Kurt Lewin was a German-American psychologist, known as one of the modern pioneers of social, organizational, and applied psychology in the United States. During his professional career Lewin applied himself to three general topics: applied research, action research, and group communication. Wikipedia
Born: September 9, 1890, Mogilno, Poland
Died: February 12, 1947, Newtonville, Newton, Massachusetts, United States

Feb 25
Inside Shame Culture:
- Control is maintained by shame and the complementary threat of ostracism.
- Concept of honor can lead to revenge dynamics.
- "How people will look at me"
Appearances.

https://twitter.com/indiainpixels/status/1302880996837130240

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Feb 25
Culture of shame silences abuse victims.
https://tdri.or.th/en/2022/06/culture-of-shame-silences-abuse-victims/culture-of-shame-thumb/

 https://tdri.or.th/en/2022/06/culture-of-shame-silences-abuse-victims/culture-of-shame-thumb/

Feb 25
Value of past mistakes and No Shame/No blame chart.

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/26/your-money/after-a-bad-decision-avoid-the-shame-and-the-blame.html

Feb 25
Homer Simpson's secret shame.

s5 e18
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtP7qLWUmfs 

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 Feb 25
Embrace uncertainty.

Robert Kendall Goff is a lawyer, speaker, and author of the New York Times best-selling books Love Does and Everybody, Always. Goff currently works with Love Does, formerly known as Restore International, a non-profit organization he founded. Wikipedia
Born: February 22, 1959 (age 64 years), California, United States

Feb 25
The best fighter is never angry.
Lao Tzu

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Nationality: Chinese
Grandchild: Li Tong


Feb 25
"The bamboo that bends is stronger than the oak that resists."
Japanese proverb

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Feb 25
The real wealth of a good gardener is not his salary, but the marvelous flowers he is raising in the garden!
Mehmet Murat İldan

Contemporary Turkish playwright, novelist and thinker Mehmet Murat ildan was born in Elazığ on May 16, in the Eastern part of Turkey. Due to his father's election as a Senator for The Turkish parliament in 1975, he continued his studies in capital Ankara.

Playwright, Novelist and Thinker Mehmet Murat ildan's Official ...

WordPress.com
https://mehmetmuratildanresmiwebsitesi.wordpress.com
Born: May 16, 1965 (age 57 years), Elâzığ, Türkiye
Nationality: Turkish
Education: University of Essex Colchester Campus


Feb 25
You can cut all the flowers, but you cannot keep spring from coming.
Pablo Neruda

Pablo Neruda, was a Chilean poet-diplomat and politician who won the 1971 Nobel Prize in Literature. Wikipedia
Born: July 12, 1904, Parral, Chile
Died: September 23, 1973, Santiago, Chile


Feb 26
The best teacher is the one who teaches you how to be your own teacher.
Mehmet Murat İldan

Contemporary Turkish playwright, novelist and thinker Mehmet Murat ildan was born in Elazığ on May 16, in the Eastern part of Turkey. Due to his father's election as a Senator for The Turkish parliament in 1975, he continued his studies in capital Ankara.

Playwright, Novelist and Thinker Mehmet Murat ildan's Official ...

WordPress.com
https://mehmetmuratildanresmiwebsitesi.wordpress.com
Born: May 16, 1965 (age 57 years), Elâzığ, Türkiye
Nationality: Turkish


Feb 26
She held on to that offense. It was poisoning her spirit. Making her insecure and easily offended. When you don't let go of things, they never heal. Anytime her husband didn't agree with her, it was like touching a bruise.
JOEL OSTEEN

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88CKi2i8t-M

Feb 26
Pay attention to your inner life. It's easy to adapt to things that are poisoning us and we don't realize it. We end up going through life just treating the symptoms. If we would get to root cause, and get our soul healthy we'd have good health
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88CKi2i8t-M

Feb 26
Question we need to ask ourselves is am I making myself sick? Am I sabotaging my relationships? Am I limiting my potential? Holding myself down? Because my souls unhealthy? Hebrews says: Make sure no root of bitterness springs and defiles you.
JOEL OSTEEN
https://youtube.com/watch?v=88CKi2i8t-M&t=551s
 

 Hebrews 12:15 - Bible Gateway

Bible Gateway
https://www.biblegateway.com › verse
Take heed, that no man fall away from the grace of God: let no root of bitterness spring up and trouble you, lest thereby many be defiled.

Feb 26
We treat symptoms because we can see the symptoms. It's obvious. We have to go deeper. We have to deal with the root. Get that infection out. As long as the root is there, the fruit will be bitter. You control what is in your soul.
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88CKi2i8t-M

Feb 26
Never apologize, contentious – that is one of those toxins we can't always see. You have to look deeper, it's under the surface. When your soul is healthy you're loving and kind, you see the best in others, peacemaker, you let them be right.
JOEL OSTEEN

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88CKi2i8t-M

Feb 26
You must often visit the darkness to get the people lost in the darkness out of there!
Mehmet Murat İldan

Contemporary Turkish playwright, novelist and thinker Mehmet Murat ildan was born in Elazığ on May 16, in the Eastern part of Turkey. Due to his father's election as a Senator for The Turkish parliament in 1975, he continued his studies in capital Ankara.

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Born: May 16, 1965 (age 57 years), Elâzığ, Türkiye
Nationality: Turkish

Feb 26
Apricot blossom stranded in the snowfall.

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Feb 26
The Rashomon Effect

https://laughingsquid.com/rashomon-effect/

 
Feb 26
Poorly justified true beliefs vs. Knowledge

https://blog.shiftleft.io/rashomon-effect-and-product-management-277550e701e7?gi=d42deb9ee167

Feb 26
In 1938, the song was a smash hit in Nazi Germany under its Germanized title "Bei mir bist du schön".
An uproar occurred when its Jewish provenance was abruptly discovered.
(wiki)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGveTSQbH30

 Feb 26
The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.
Socrates

Socrates was a Greek philosopher from Athens who is credited as the founder of Western philosophy and among the first moral philosophers of the ethical tradition of thought. Wikipedia
Born: Alopece
Died: February 15, 399 BC, Classical Athens
Spouses: Xanthippe, Myrto
Children: Lamprocles, Menexenus, Sophroniscus
Nickname: Gadfly
Siblings: Patrocles
Philosophical era: Ancient Greek philosophy, Ancient philosophy


Feb 26
We do not see thing as they are, we see things as we are.
The Rashomon Effect

The Rashomon effect is a storytelling and writing method in cinema in which an event is given contradictory interpretations or descriptions by the individuals involved, thereby providing different perspectives and points of view of the same incident. Wikipedia

 Feb 26
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese


Feb 26
Respond intelligently even to unintelligent treatment.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese

Feb 26
When many people know many things, it is difficult to rule them.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese


Feb 26
Have patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese

Feb 26
A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese

Feb 26
In the world there is nothing more submissive and weak than water. Yet for attacking that which is hard and strong nothing can surpass it.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese


Feb 26
An over-sharpened sword cannot last long.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese

Feb 26
Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
Laozi

Laozi, also known by numerous other names, was a semilegendary ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher. Laozi is a Chinese honorific, generally translated as "the Old Master". Wikipedia
Born: 571 BC, Chu
Children: Li Zong
Parents: Li Jing
Philosophical era: Taoism, Ancient philosophy
Influenced: Carl Jung
Nationality: Chinese


Feb 26
So many things that I'm afraid of (afraid of)
But right now I ain't scared of nothin'
('Cause all I know is)
(All I know is, all I, all I)
'Cause all I know it's 10:35
And I can feel your arms around me
Tiësto - 10:35 ft. Tate McRae

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3H6AYSYCQE

Feb 26
Man just wants to forget the bad stuff and believe in the made-up good stuff. It's easier that way.
Rashomon (1950)

The rape of a bride and the murder of her samurai husband are recalled from the perspectives of a bandit, the bride, the samurai's ghost and a woodcutter.

Director
Akira Kurosawa
Writers
Ryûnosuke Akutagawa(stories Rashomon and In a Grove)Akira Kurosawa(screenplay)Shinobu Hashimoto(screenplay)
Stars
Toshirô MifuneMachiko KyôMasayuki Mori


Feb 26
If men don't trust each other, this earth might as well be hell. I don't want this place to be hell.
- Shouting doesn't help. In the end, you cannot understand the things men do.
Rashomon (1950)

Rashomon (Japanese: 羅生門, Hepburn: Rashōmon) is a 1950 Jidaigeki psychological thriller-crime film directed and written by Akira Kurosawa


Feb 26
I don't have time to mind everyone's feelings. If you're not selfish, you can't survive. Everyone is selfish and dishonest. Making excuses. The bandit, the woman, the man and you! And you aren't?
Rashomon (1950)

The rape of a bride and the murder of her samurai husband are recalled from the perspectives of a bandit, the bride, the samurai's ghost and a woodcutter.

Director
Akira Kurosawa
Writers
Ryûnosuke Akutagawa(stories Rashomon and In a Grove)Akira Kurosawa(screenplay)Shinobu Hashimoto(screenplay)
Stars
Toshirô MifuneMachiko KyôMasayuki Mori

Feb 27
Never let your mind tell you I don't know. That's BS. Never say I can't afford it. Brain will go, ok. If you change it to "how?" – now you start thinking. When you start identifying what you are afraid: stay in retrospection.
YT JulienHimself Clips

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXspCwwheDo

 Feb 27
In healthy dynamic where you were supported, this concern what other people think is very small, localized to people who really matter to you. When that family home is unsafe, no shelter to be ourselves then everything becomes unsafe.
YT Marshall Burtcher

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwGdtU55pW0

 Feb 27
In all healthy relationships, there is you, other person and other element: fantasy. We both enter into this third element. Remind yourself it is not about them, it is about this third element that we created.
YT RICHARD GRANNON

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1MhMan917E

Feb 27
Word "trigger" I think it is a little too simple for what happens to survivors of narcissistic abuse. When your strings get plucked give yourself a minute to recover. Take a break, give yourself a breather, let the vibrating stop.
YT DoctorRamani

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxe3ORqW2CM

Feb 27
With betrayal trauma it can get a lot complicated. Because what may seem like ordinary experiences - to others can be moments that are very unsettling. Relationship trauma are not clear cut, there may be judgement when you have been plucked in reaction.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=yxe3ORqW2CM

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Feb 27
The unconscious is structured like a language.
Jacques Lacan

Jacques Marie Émile Lacan was a French psychoanalyst and psychiatrist. Described as "the most controversial psycho-analyst since Freud", Lacan gave yearly seminars in Paris from 1953 to 1981, and published papers that were later collected in the book Écrits. Wikipedia
Born: April 13, 1901, Paris, France
Died: September 9, 1981, Paris, France
Influenced by: Sigmund Freud, Melanie Klein, Plato, MORE

Feb 27

The truth is the error that escapes delusion and is reached from a misunderstanding.
Jacques Lacan

Feb 27

I always tell the truth. Not the whole truth, because one can't.
Jacques Lacan

 

Feb 28

Narcissists are masters of suppression. These individuals with their desire to stay in superior position, they constantly try to figure out what can I reveal to get me in a good place, what I need to refrain from talking about to maintain mèritum .
YT S.N

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLZl-Go9Psw

 In their need to ideal they'll hold down certain elements who they are. Inadvertently they wind up to train you to be guarded and cautious and careful in a way that you engage. So you wind up suppressing your emotions in reverse.
YT Surviving Narcissism

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLZl-Go9Psw

Feb 28

People that are sick, they're not themselves. They say things they don't mean, they act in ways they wouldn't ordinarily act but if you ever talk to me like that again - I'll punch your heart out.
ALF S1 E7

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqGSjvb_IAY

Feb 28

This is why I love ORF Radio Kärnten, the only radio station with lovely yet unknown songs like this:
Bonjour soleil · Lydie Auvray (1997)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7u8SQqi4iw

Feb 28

How do you know so much about dreams?
- Well, when it's all you have, you kind of become an expert.
A Nightmare on Elm Street 4: The Dream Master (1988)

 Freddy Krueger returns once again to terrorize the dreams of the remaining Dream Warriors, as well as those of a young woman who may be able to defeat him for good.

Director
Renny Harlin
Writers
Wes Craven(character)William Kotzwinkle(story)Brian Helgeland(story)
Stars
Robert EnglundRodney EastmanJohn Beckman


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