Dec 1, 2021
This loop was studied by mid 80s. Pain experience can come from injury, stress related. Actual cycle itself can cause pain, it has to do with your brain.
We got to confront very things we fear.
YT The Fear-Avoidance Cycle & How to Get Out of It
Dec 1, 2021
They are not dangerous. Not truly threatening, it is all coming from your brain and nervous symptoms. There is nothing really wrong with me, other than having signaling from my limbic brain that is creating this pain experience.
YT Healing Chronic Pain
Dec 1, 2021
Struggling to identify emotions, screaming about it and being upset because they don't know how to process it otherwise, I would give them benefit of doubt and not beat them up about it.
YT Healing From CPTSD
Dec 1, 2021
We get self centered, not sharing is emergency protection measure, but not the way to live our lives. It is demanded to be included, isolation is peaceful but we get more self-centered, we get too weird.
YT Crappy Childhood Fairy
Dec 1, 2021
Although Pazuzu is considered an evil spirit, he was called upon to ward off other malicious spirits. He would protect humans against any variety of misfortune or plague.
Dec 1, 2021
-Who gives them the money to consume?
-The first creatures, but they don't give it, they lend it. With a system called "closed cycle". First they work in their factory, then they lend them the money. Then convince them to buy their products, so restoring their money.
Omicron,1963
Dec 1, 2021
Killed by the inhabited creature that suddenly attacked with an unknown and deadly force called Conscience. Unfortunately this is a force we are unable to control. Planet Earth is infected and the creatures are uninhabitable.
Omicron (1963)
Dec 1, 2021
A 2013 study by Ross Levine and Yona Rubinstein finds that as teenagers, many successful entrepreneurs exhibited aggressive behavior, broke the rules, and got into trouble.
DK The Business Book: Big Ideas Simply Explained
Dec 2, 2021
We as humans are not endowed with tools to fix ourselves. We will end up with immature ego defense mechanisms in order to try to fix our mental problems - and it will make things worse.
We need external help from experts to guide us along.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2021/06/complex-trauma-induce-social-anxiety.html
Dec 2, 2021
In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.
Coco Chanel
Dec 2, 2021
The nine-dots puzzle -
The solution involves drawing lines “outside the box.”
THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX
DK The Business Book
Dec 2, 2021
You have to be willing to be misunderstood.
Jeff Bezos
Dec 2, 2021
Most people feel more comfortable following what others are doing than standing out as a “loner” or maverick. Ignoring the herd takes great psychological strength.
IGNORING THE HERD, Warren Buffett
DK The Business Book
Dec 2, 2021
Being polite seems like such an arrogant gesture to me. I see a lot of pain in this world. It makes me angry, so I shout. What else am I going to to? Up run for office?
Heart Beat (1980)
Dec 2, 2021
They shocked us. They outraged us. They didn't do anything wrong. They just did it first.
Heart Beat (1980)
Dec 2, 2021
Points of sizable change are hard to spot, so executives must constantly scan the horizon, like a ship’s watchmen looking for an iceberg that could sink the business.
Only the paranoid survive - Avoiding complacency
DK The Business Book
Dec 3, 2021
As long as we keep rescuing, they never have to live those consequences. Codependent is enabling their disease to continue, we enable the addicts, disease to flourish.
Codependent No More No. 54
YT Elizabeth Kupferman
Dec 3, 2021
He just took the gun from someone who had no expertise in guns, he never questioned his assistant 'Dave, why are you giving me the gun?'.
CNN
Dec 3, 2021
Determining who belongs in our live and who doesn't. It allows us to be ourselves in safe way and enjoy our life.
YT Boundaries! #7:The IMPACT: Are You Respecting This One Fundamental Boundary?
Dec 3, 2021
We try to make other person wrong rather than us choosing valued principles to motivate us to do a thing. There is a very different place of power.
"I have to do this" because of "they are this way" is powerless.
YT Happiness After Codependency
Dec 3, 2021
Healthy relationships don't have the toxic element. I see that confusion a lot with people. "oh it suppose to have this". It doesn't. Healthy relationships don't have the toxic elements involved. Sometimes there is a poor skill but it is rarity-not pattern
Dec 3, 2021
Systems are opposite from goals. Systems are about creating repeatable set of actions instead of focusing on a final goal.
YT Friedrich Nietzsche - How To Own Yourself (Existentialism)
Dec 3, 2021
Nietzsche warns us to: "Be careful, lest in casting out your demon you exorcise the best thing in you".
YT Philosophies for Life
Dec 3, 2021
Repressing our emotions can lead to disintegration of the self. If we repress our emotions, we damage the structure of our own psychological identity. Of course, repressing some of the very negative emotions helps us adapt to society.
Dec 3, 2021
If sensitive kids were cared for, they become better off than the non sensitive kids. We need some of us to be deeply affected by it – agent of feedback and change for the society.
YT Why the world needs you highly sensitive people
Dec 3, 2021
One of the most powerful emotional drivers in wooing a customer is money—the promise of getting more for less. Coca-Cola is credited with introducing the first such enticement in 1887, with a coupon for a free glass of cola.
MAKE YOUR CUSTOMERS LOVE YOU
DK The Business Book
Dec 3, 2021
Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it's worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains.
Steve Jobs.
Dec 3, 2021
Before you say you can't do something, try it.
Toyoda
Dec 3, 2021
"It is a capital mistake to theorize before one has data."
This is a quote from Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's iconic character Sherlock Holmes.
Dec 4, 2021
Found on a tombstone in a town near Ephesus, in Turkey, the “song of Seikilos” is the earliest complete, notated musical composition.
c. 200 BCE – 100 CE
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 4, 2021
Maybe you can't receive this message today, it's too hard for you;
as principle in life if you want something good, you have to pay the price for it. And if you want to become someone you love, you got to pay the price for it daily.
HOUR OF POWER
Dec 4, 2021
If you're not living the life you want, the thing that lies between you and the thing you want is suffering.
Get rid of things that's allowing you to live mediocre life that you already hate. You already hate that life. Why not burn it to the ground?
HoP
Dec 4, 2021
Choose to be early to everything so that you never have to hurry.
Jesus doesn't call us to discipleship just to be like good people. He calls us there so that we can have the kind of life, eternal living, joy to wake up in the morning.
HOUR OF POWER
Dec 5, 2021
Handel is the greatest composer that ever lived …I would uncover my head and kneel down on his tomb.
Ludwig van Beethoven
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 5, 2021
Modern man has only to take a short step to wind up in the primeval jungle of his ancestors.
Night School (1981)
Dec 5, 2021
To be wrong is nothing unless you continue to remember it.
Confucius
Dec 5, 2021
For his voyage to a new world, the Apollo 11 mission to the moon in 1969, Neil Armstrong took a recording of
Dvorák’s Symphony No. 9 and is said to have listened to it as he stepped out.
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 5, 2021
Olivier Messiaen composed Quartet for the End of Time while a prisoner at Camp Stalag VIII-A, Silesia (Poland) premiering the work to 5,000 fellow prisoners outside in freezing weather.
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 6, 2021
While audiences new to 4´33˝ tend to think the work is absurd, the experience of hearing the ambient noises of the concert hall against which music is usually played is an enlightening one.
4'33" (1952), JOHN CAGE
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 6, 2021
An anechoic chamber in Bell Laboratories, New Jersey, in the 1950s, is lined with wedge-shaped pieces of fibre-glass, which was commonly used in such chambers to absorb echoes.
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 6, 2021
We expect others to change to suit our needs and wants if we pressure them enough. It sets us up for disappointment. People don't change if they don't want to change. No one likes to be told what to do.
YT The Thoughtful Beast
Dec 6, 2021
What you want from other – trying someone else to fulfill it for you, can I fulfill it myself? It is best when you take responsibility of your happiness back in your own hands.
YT The Thoughtful Beast
Dec 6, 2021
Don't look someone else to complete need for you and get disappointed when they not. When you are happy and complete with yourself, you will know when to leave relationship – you have boundaries.
YT Cognitive Distortions: The Fallacy of Change
Dec 6, 2021
Expecting things from people is unkind and unfair. If you don't put it loosely, you will put unfair expectations on people, that will crystalize into resentment - you will push people away.
HOUR OF POWER
Openness: Hold Your Dream Loosely - Bobby Schuller
Dec 6, 2021
To fit into certain mould we constructed. There is no better way to ruin everyone's Christmas than by coming into Christmas with gigantic un-changeably expectations how Christmas is suppose to be.
Expectations don't come from humble heart.
HOUR OF POWER
Dec 6, 2021
See other people as phenomena, they simply exist. Work with what they give you, instead of resisting and trying to change them.
ROBERT GREENE
Dec 6, 2021
'The fallacy of change has you expecting other people will change their ways to suit your expectations or needs, particularly when you pressure them enough. For example, you want your partner to focus only on you, despite knowing that they've always been very social.'
Dec 6, 2021
Nobody cares what I am doing, nobody will remember what I say in couple of weeks. Avoid being super offensive. It will weed people that don't have same ideologies as you if you say something controversial, and they don't like that.
YT Phammock
Dec 6, 2021
If you are doing something good, with good intent, with love and compassion and people still reacting towards it, then surely that is for them to handle. Not you by trying to protecting them.
YT Master Sri Akarshana
Dec 6, 2021
The role of the musician must be this fundamental research: to find answers to phenomena we don’t understand.
Iannis Xenakis
Dec 6, 2021
Riley’s hypnotic musical approach also influenced the rise of “ambient” music in the 1970s.
IN C (1964), TERRY RILEY
DK The Classical Music Book
Dec 6, 2021
Your superior intellect is no match for our puny weapons.
Treehouse of Horror II (1991)
Dec 6, 2021
If your desire is for good, the people will be good.
Confucius
Dec 6, 2021
Knowing what the “good life” is requires intellectual ability and knowledge of ethics and morality. Only philosophers have this ability and knowledge. Political power should only be given to philosophers.
PLATO 427–347 BCE
DK The Politics Book
Dec 7, 2021
Augustine of Hippo perfectly described the corrupt states in Eastern Europe, especially Balkans:
"If justice be taken away, what are governments but great bands of robbers?"
Dec 7, 2021
Marge: Homer what's wrong?
Bart: I'd say the pressure finally got to dad... but what pressure?
The Simpsons: Treehouse of Horror III
Dec 7, 2021
Young George Costanza in his first movie,
The Burning (1981).
Dec 7, 2021
Criticizing Machiavelli leads us to examine ourselves and the extent to which we are prepared to overlook the dubious machinations of our governments if the outcome works in our favor.
NICCOLÒ MACHIAVELLI (1469-1527)
DK The Politics Book
Dec 8, 2021
The Sun Tzu begins with the understanding that conflict is an integral part of life.
Good habits can be as limiting as bad:
'Pure and honest, one can be shamed'.
'Loving the people, one can be aggravated.'
Any fixed quality is an impediment
"The Art of War",The Denma Translation
Dec 8, 2021
Another obstacle is our own projections. These prevent us from learning anything we don't already know. We never see the enemy because we can't even see ourselves clearly. Thus our world, fresh and new at every moment,turns into something stiffly familiar
"Sun Tzu The Art of War"
Dec 8, 2021
You were made to feel you have to make them happy, your survival dependent on it. Hiding your authentic self so it might make someone unhappy. You were not to put on this planet to make sure everyone else never gets angry.
YT Michele Lee Nieves Coaching
Dec 9, 2021
SKS rule – what I need to stop doing, what do I need to keep doing and what do you need me to start doing.
Behavioral activation therapy – act like the person you want to become.
YT Mel Robbins
Dec 9, 2021
I failed to understand that for every person out there is a new vision for world. Any person you meet they'll see the world according to them.
YT Bruno Maiorana
Dec 9, 2021
No one can—nor should—try to define what happiness is for someone else, so a rule based on happiness cannot be applied consistently.
No generally valid principle of legislation can be based on happiness.
Immanuel Kant (1724–1804)
DK The Politics Book
Dec 9, 2021
Kant’s position follows on from the English philosopher John Locke’s earlier idea of the social contract, which says that people make a contract with the state in
which they each freely consent to give up some of their freedom in exchange for the state’s protection.
Politics Book
Dec 9, 2021
"Humans are selfish by nature and must be controlled."
Hobbes
Dec 9, 2021
I'm so tired of waiting to grow up. Some day it will happen and I'll be the only person who can make me feel bad or good about anything I do.
The Secret Diary of Laura Palmer, Jennifer Lynch (1990)
Dec 9, 2021
The liberty of the individual must be thus far limited; he must not make himself a nuisance to other people.
John Stuart Mill
Dec 10, 2021
Problem is trying to find our value with what we do and not who we are, it can make us feel lonely. Because our worth is tied to what we do, not what we are.
YT Michelle Farris, Relationship Therapist
Dec 10, 2021
We don't say what we want or how we feel about something because we think that will cause a problem. That's how we stayed safe. You don't realize you are thwarting your ability to be loved by other people. Love happens when we can receive and give. Not when we just give
YT Farris
Dec 10, 2021
We were brought up to think of other people's feelings before our owns. So standing up for yourself feels like you are being aggressive or insulting others. Be ok with being a little bit selfish. As long as you are not hurting anyone.
YT Xceedable
Dec 10, 2021
An appeaser believes he is not powerful enough to defeat a tyrant. Therefore he makes concessions in order to avoid going to war. His concessions make him weaker. His concessions make the tyrant stronger.
WINSTON CHURCHILL (1874–1965)
DK The Politics Book
Dec 10, 2021
Winston Churchill refused at all times to discuss anything at all with Hitler or with his representatives. Radical but reasoned, this non-negotiable defiance of tyranny, to the death if need be, was the core idea that would bring down the Nazis.
W. CHURCHILL
DK The Politics Book
Dec 10, 2021
Radio 538 TOP40
ACRAZE - Do It To It (ft. Cherish)
Dec 10, 2021
Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Dec 11, 2021
But although they can see all of time, they don't try to change the course of events. While the Trafalmadorians may be at peace with their lack of agency, Vonnegut's human characters are still getting used to it.
YT Why should you read Kurt Vonnegut?
Dec 11, 2021
A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved.
We are all here to help each other through this thing...whatever it is.
YT TED-Ed
Dec 11, 2021
Parable: two yeast sat discussing the possible purposes of life as they ate sugar and suffocated in their own excrement. Because of their limited intelligence, they never came close to guessing that they were making champagne.
Dec 11, 2021
The most important thing in life is not what you do. It's who you become. And that is the only thing you take into Eternity. What you do comes from who you are.
HOUR OF POWER
Dec 11, 2021
Many of us have this way of fixating on the weed that grows beside us rather than paying attention to how we're growing. He called it Missing tile syndrome. Many of us are so good at what we do that perfectionism ruins our joy.
HOUR OF POWER
Dec 11, 2021
You feel like you're doing well but it's so easy to fixate on someone else who's doing better. Or it's so easy to fixate on this thing that's missing in your life. Instead of pay attention to the many good things that you have today, to focus on the little things that's missing.
Dec 11, 2021
Wave-like character of matter becomes directly apparent only upon careful microscopic investigation.
Brian Greene, The Elegant Universe
Dec 11, 2021
She said that there are a lot of things in life, she thinks, that don't seem right at first, and then you settle into them.
The Secret Diary of Laura Palmer, Jennifer Lynch
Dec 11, 2021
Don't Dream It. Be It.
The Rocky Horror Picture Show - The Comic Book
Dec 11, 2021
Advertising is a funny thing. If people stop paying attention to it, pretty soon it goes away. If you stop paying attention to the monsters, they lose their powers.
Treehouse of Horror VI (1995)
Dec 12, 2021
The problem is sometimes there is no logical solution. This is what faith is all about. You have to be comfortable with not knowing. You don't have to figure it out. You don't have to come up with the plan. It's okay not to know.
JOEL OSTEEN
Dec 12, 2021
We think we have to have it all figured out. Take the pressure off. You don't have to know. God is directing your steps. He has a blueprint for your life.
JOEL OSTEEN
https://youtube.com/watch?v=9_kuLYgWJUI
Dec 12, 2021
What would it take to get there you might say its ok where I am, talk myself out of it. You start worrying, losing sleep. Be comfortable not knowing. There are some thing we were not suppose to know. You're taking yourself off the throne and putting God back on the throne.
OSTEEN
Dec 12, 2021
Sometimes you have to turn your mind off. Don't try to figure everything out. Yes, use wisdom, use common sense, but when you start getting frustrated, you can't find the solution, you're tempted to live worried, that's a sign God doesn't want you to know.
Dec 12, 2021
Human beings, also Mazda's creation, have an important role in keeping disorder and evil at bay by using their free will to do good. Good thoughts, good words, and good deeds support asha, the fundamental order of the universe.
Zoroastrians
1400–1200 BCE
DK The Religions Book
Dec 12, 2021
Shankara argued that human reason is limited to the objects of sense experience: that is, it is not possible to get outside or beyond the senses to see the world as it really is. It is possible to be mistaken, because all sensory knowledge is ambiguous.
Adi Shankara
DK Religions
Dec 12, 2021
Jesus said that the final replacement of our present world with the kingdom of God would be delayed, giving people time to secure themselves a place in that kingdom by believing in him.
Jesus of Nazareth
4 BCE–30 CE, Judea
DK The Religions Book (Big Ideas Simply Explained)
Dec 13, 2021
Yoga means union. It feels like one. You will have no problem with everything, you will communicate absolutely because you have opened up your boundaries.
YT The Great Sadhguru
Dec 13, 2021
You being at ease is the most important. Otherwise, you will not experience life the way it is. In agitation everything is distorted.
YT The Great Sadhguru
Dec 13, 2021
Express you're disappointed. Let her know. It doesn't mean being jerk about it. "It makes me feel disappointed to hear that but I understand- make it up to me, -can I ask why, -is everything ok."
YT How To Stop Being A People Pleaser
Dec 13, 2021
Expressing your disappointment is a really good way not to be walked all over and not become a doormat. You are giving them feedback, they need to know. Don't act like it doesn't bother you.
YT emlovz
Dec 13, 2021
Society tells us we are not good enough. The idea that only a particular size, shape, or color is beautiful was invented by some drunk movie director in Hollywood.
YT How Society Ruins Your Happiness: Ethel Gumm Effect
Dec 13, 2021
True happiness comes from loving yourself and creating your path. Sometimes you'll have to do your things, be yourself and go against the norms.
YT How Society Ruins Your Happiness: Ethel Gumm Effect
Dec 13, 2021
Social comparison theory suggested that people have an inner drive to evaluate themselves often in comparison to others. People make all kinds of judgements about themselves through social comparison or analyzing the self in relation to others.
YT Hunt TV
Dec 13, 2021
Studies have found that social comparison can make us really unhappy, affect our mental health, or even lead to committing suicide. To make it worse, now, we can compare our lives with the fake life of a stranger.
YT How Society Ruins Your Happiness
Dec 13, 2021
Proverb "There are many roads that lead to a market". Most of our pains and troubles comes as result of our desire to fit into societal definition of success. True happiness comes when you realize you are good enough in your own right.
YT Hunt TV
Dec 14, 2021
Extremist fascist and communist ideologies seem to offer easy solutions to national problems.
The disintegration of formal structures of government clears the way for Adolf Hitler to become dictator.
THE REICHSTAG FIRE (1933)
DK The History Book
Dec 14, 2021
It wasn’t until the 1993 launch of a user-friendly Web browser called Mosaic that the Web took off for more general use.
THE LAUNCH OF THE FIRST WEBSITE (1991)
DK The History Book
Dec 14, 2021
Alec Baldwin's claim live tested:
A working revolver cannot fire when the hammer is dropped after half cock.
YT Legally Armed America
https://youtube.com/watch?v=Rl_PEtnqINg
Dec 14, 2021
In 1986, Halley’s comet passed to within 0.42 astronomical units (AU) of Earth.
In 1066 it came within 0.1 AU.
HALLEY’S COMET
The Astronomy Book
Dec 14, 2021
If you can’t explain it to a six year old, you don’t understand it yourself.
Albert Einstein
Dec 14, 2021
Dark matter could be evidence that the universe is one of many that exist next to one another, in separate spatial dimensions, in a bubblelike multiverse.
DARK MATTER
DK The Astronomy Book
Dec 15, 2021
Recognizing that there was something here that I could control but my learned helplessness told me I didn't have control over. Look for the things you think you can't control where actually you do have a plenty of choice.
YT Tamara Ridge - Trauma Recovery
Dec 15, 2021
You learned to believe on innate level that world is not safe, abandonment issues, you don't feel world is safe place. You are in state of survival, try to avoid more pain. You do not develop yourself, you try to avoid the pain.
YT Lisa A. Romano
Dec 15, 2021
People who cannot appreciate who you are, then you are programmed to believe that there's nothing valuable about you. That is why children fawn, become hypervigilant and feel anxiety. Seeking approval outside.
YT Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.
Dec 15, 2021
Believing that there are people outside you to love you enough, it is just a fantasy. You don't have to fight and prove them – that is part of codependency, looking for permission to feel what I feel.
YT Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.
Dec 15, 2021
It would be awesome if you could sit this person down and talk to you – but this will not happen. They have to care. They have to care about you. They don't have capacity or desire to really care about you.
YT Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.
Dec 15, 2021
Someone with high narcissistic trait tries to figure how you are wrong. They try to find holes in the story. They don't listen to you. They look how they turn your request into them being victim.
YT Intelligent Ways to Disarm Toxic People
Dec 15, 2021
Your vulnerabilities are your boundaries. Setting boundaries with narcissist will not work. I never realized I was wasting my breath on someone built not to hear me. You have to know whom you are dealing with. You deserve better.
YT Lisa A. Romano
Dec 16, 2021
This Holiday season know your neighbor before you love them.
SNL
Dec 16, 2021
Bucko the cat helping with Christmas lights.
Dec 16, 2021
Hephaestus caught Ares and Aphrodite with a golden net. Golden net was so fine that it was invisible and set it up above his bed.
Dec 16, 2021
Things you learn thanks to movie subtitles:
Croatian word for Queen comes from Turkish language.
Dec 17, 2021
And as to those who when oppressed have fled their country for the sake of God, we will surely provide them a goodly abode in this world, but greater the reward of the next life
Sura XVI The Bee
THE KORAN
Dec 17, 2021
You get idea it is your job to take care of everyone else, that's where you tie your identity. "I am good because I rescue". We don't realize we are abandoning ourselves.
YT Lisa Romano
Dec 17, 2021
You are programmed to believe that you can only find that sense of self outside of you. So it is natural for you to not set boundaries. You will feel guilty anytime anything goes wrong in your experience.
YT Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.
Dec 17, 2021
Something that happens in front of you, literally has nothing to do with you, you can have full blown trauma response thinking this person that this thing happened to is going to be angry. Codependents struggle when they think that other people are angry.
Dec 17, 2021
'Oh my god this person is upset' 'what can I do to make them feel better'. It literally has nothing to do with you. But the internal dialogue of codependent person is fear. And it's tied to feeling guilty for things you're not even guilty of
YT Lisa Romano
Dec 17, 2021
There are predator types of personality out there that will be able to pick up on this idea, sense you have, that causes them feel you need them to be ok. They act angry just to see if you'll jump. I keep mindful it has nothing to do with me.
Lisa Romano
Dec 17, 2021
So becoming fixer is coping mechanism. Certainly if I can fix what upsets you, then you calm down. What I don't realize is that as I am trying to navigate your emotions I actually want to try to control your emotions - so that you can feel calm, so that I can control my emotions.
Dec 18, 2021
Well, the idea is to discover everybody's secret and prevent the other players from discovering yours.
I'll announce what secret it is to look for and give you a clue which will tell you what to do and where to go.
The Last of Sheila (1973)
Dec 18, 2021
That's the thing about secrets. We all know stuff about each other, we just don't know the same stuff.
The Last of Sheila (1973)
Dec 19, 2021
Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.
Laozi, Daoist philosopher
Dec 20, 2021
We're so afraid to be seen as losers, that we're willing to suffer in exchange for other people's approval.
YT Be a Loser if Need Be | The Philosophy of Epictetus
Dec 20, 2021
Being loser has its advantages. Mainly that we do not conform to other people's rules. And spend energy on lesser things just to be sufficient.
YT Einzelgänger
Dec 20, 2021
But interpreting the information correctly can actually be quite tricky.
BBC News
https://www.bbc.com/news/av/59638765
Dec 20, 2021
Without memory of his deed, he cannot possibly feel guilt. And having been relieved of those uniquely American symptoms, guilt and fear, he cannot possibly give himself away.
The Manchurian Candidate (1962)
Dec 21, 2021
Like the medical researcher he was on his way to becoming, Ernesto searched for a cause when he saw a symptom. And, having found what was the cause, he searched for an antidote.
"Che", Jon Lee Anderson
Dec 21, 2021
Conan Doyle was always picking up trifles and tidbits of information, ideas, and concepts that he encountered and stored away with the idea of possibly using them in the future.
DK The Sherlock Holmes Book
Dec 21, 2021
If Earth's atmosphere froze ice layer that would be formed would be 9 meters.
YT Dreksler Astral
Dec 21, 2021
You need to learn how to trust yourself. Listen to your gut, make the right decisions and know they are, indeed, the right decisions.
YT Marisa Peer
Dec 21, 2021
The reason you don't trust yourself is you have allowed yourself to listen to other people or to listen to yourself saying "Well, it might not work".
YT Marisa Peer
Dec 21, 2021
You don't need new ideas, you need more action.
YT How to Reset Your Life for 2022
Dec 21, 2021
Well one motivation is to believe or to have been persuaded to believe in his own guilt. And to live in mortal fear of the consequences.
Daniel (1983)
Dec 21, 2021
NPCs repeat the same actions every day. The storyline kicks off when NPC guy starts to think independently from his script which upsets the other NPCs.
YT Jack Simmonds
Dec 21, 2021
The “Cottingley Fairies” photos, faked by two young girls in 1917, fooled many people—including Conan Doyle—into believing fairies existed. The girls cut out illustrations from magazines, securing them in place with hat pins.
DK The Sherlock Holmes Book
Dec 22, 2021
At school they taught me how to be
so pure in thought and word and deed
They didn’t quite succeed
For everything I long to do
no matter when or where or who
has one thing in common too
It’s a, it’s a, it’s a, it’s a sin
Pet Shop Boys - It's a Sin
Dec 22, 2021
Abuser twist your reality, make unacceptable situations acceptable to you. Like they are no big deal. Or they might not even happening. They try to make you feel like problem is you. You cause problem by even questioning about it.
YT Stop Making...
Dec 22, 2021
Allen said we should tell the truth. We should say he has a real problem with alcohol,he get's drunk. Nothing more, nothing less. We didn't try to hide anything, there wasn't big expose, nobody disillusioned because nobody lied
Buddhism & Telling the Truth
Dec 22, 2021
the detective explains his method by demonstrating that it all depends on observation. Watson sees things, he says, but he does not observe. Ordinary people fail to notice life’s minutiae
DK The Sherlock Holmes Book
Dec 23, 2021
Even when it's the worst,
It's the best
SNL
Dec 23, 2021
If you want to assert your power, be less polite. That means no hedging, beating around the bush, no apologies. If you want to show respect to someone be more polite.
YT How Communication Works
Dec 23, 2021
a third type of reasoning, one which Holmes himself often uses: “abductive” reasoning. Abduction involves
developing a theory based on all the available facts.
Charles Sanders Peirce (1839–1914)
DK The Sherlock Holmes Book
Dec 24, 2021
Codependents are trained from birth that they don't know what they know. In therapy you get to know what you know. "Are they talking?" Yes, they do. Hunch – it means it is happening, you have high social intelligence.
YT Elizabeth Kupferman
Dec 24, 2021
We have been taught to not see it. I am making it up, they are fine, I am just imagining it.
Start knowing what you know and trust it is true. Indoctrinated to don't know what you know. Guilt feelings of selfishness - that is why you keep doing it.
Dec 25, 2021
Christmas Fireplace.
Dec 25, 2021
Classic FM (UK) playing "Walking In The Air" by Howard Blake, Soloists: William Chen
Dec 25, 2021
I have every hope that the light of truth is breaking through.
Sherlock Holmes
“The Problem of Thor Bridge”
DK The Sherlock Holmes Book
Dec 25, 2021
'What is right is not always popular and what is popular is not always right.'
Albert Einstein
Dec 25, 2021
After identifying a target, a fraudster will study them, researching their behavior and talking with them to determine weaknesses.
Many successful con artists exhibit the same three traits—psychopathy, narcissism, and machiavellianism—known collectively as the “Dark Triad.”
DK
Dec 26, 2021
Brain imaging has shown that lying and repeated deception reduces activity in the amygdala. This reduction can limit the feelings of shame or guilt that are often associated with lying.
DK The Crime Book
Dec 26, 2021
Mantovani Plays the Music of Christmas
Dec 27, 2021
Being told that some of everyday rituals or behavior are actually anxiety issue. That leaves us thinking that we won't fully be recovered until we stop doing these things.
YT 5 Things We Get Told Are Anxiety Symptoms But Actually Aren't
Dec 27, 2021
As a result we end up desperately fighting our natural behaviours and habits and stressing ourselves out when changing them proves to be a struggle.
It's important that we distinguish between doing something because we fear the alternative and doing something because we enjoy it
Dec 27, 2021
Christopher Plummer in drag.
The Silent Partner (1978)
Dec 27, 2021
- To conduct you.
- Whereto?
- To the training centre.
- Training for what?
- For another world.
A Matter of Life and Death (1946)
Dec 27, 2021
but we are judged by people who don’t want to understand the work as a whole or even to look at it. Instead they isolate individual fragments and details, clutching to them and trying to prove that there is some special, main point in them.
Andrei Tarkovsky
DK The Movie Book
Dec 28, 2021
"In a society that profits from your self doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act."
Dec 29, 2021
It takes 90 seconds for brain to re-regulate when your trauma brain believes it is in danger. Take a time out, take a breath. 'I know how to keep myself safe, I don't need to use anger to protect myself anymore.'
YT Tamara Ridge
Dec 29, 2021
Made you feel like you are a thing, that you are there to please them, not having separate identify- then you had parents highly narcissistic, emotionally immature, and undoubtably you experienced childhood emotional neglect.
YT Lisa A. Romano
Dec 29, 2021
Made you feel like you are a thing, that you are there to please them, not having separate identify- then you had parents highly narcissistic, emotionally immature, and undoubtably you experienced childhood emotional neglect.
YT Lisa A. Romano
Dec 29, 2021
I did not know how to regulate my emotions. How to make myself feel better. People in my life did not have empathy and did not have life skills to help me regulate as child, and here I was attracting the same type of persons in my life.
Dec 29, 2021
My sense of self was reliant on how other people view me. I was reliant on validation. If I did not have validation, I felt I had no purpose. Chasing people approval was a way to keep shame monster away, very dysfunctional, attracting people self focused.
Dec 29, 2021
Codependent have no sense of self. You were never taught that self you were was valid. Self was mocked, neglected, criticized, devalued, marginalized. You never learned self you were has boundaries.
YT Lisa A. Romano
Dec 29, 2021
There are people in society think nothing's wrong with lashing out. Not interested in managing emotions like narcissists. There are people in society that think there is anything wrong devaluing people & reacting angrily. They think the person deserved it.
Dec 29, 2021
Learning to sit with uncomfortable emotions will absolutely change your life. We recognize we are not our feelings. Become emotional Sherlock Holmes – identify what happened to me. We rely on others to make us feel better.
Dec 29, 2021
Well, maybe the destruction of the entire planet isn't supposed to be fun. Maybe it's supposed to be terrifying. And unsettling.
Don't Look Up (2021)
Dec 29, 2021
So, basically, what you're saying is you're about to lose the midterms 'cause you got caught sending pictures of your cooch to your porn-star sheriff boyfriend. So now it's your advantage to act on the comet?
Don't Look Up (2021)
Dec 29, 2021
If you are genuinely happy to accept that you have faults, and that you are not perfect, people will be less likely to put you down.
"Assert Yourself", Gael Lindenfield
Dec 29, 2021
If a particular fault of yours intensely annoys someone, it may be because they have not yet learned to accept that fault in themselves!
"Assert Yourself", Gael Lindenfield
Dec 29, 2021
A man's always got choices, Randall! Sometimes you just gotta choose the good one!
Don't Look Up (2021)
Dec 29, 2021
Would you please just stop being so pleasant? Not everything needs to sound so goddamn clever or charming or likeable all the time. Sometimes we need to just be able to say things to on another. We need to hear things.
Don't Look Up (2021)
Dec 29, 2021
Thing of it is, we really... We really did have everything, didn't we?
Don't Look Up (2021)
Dec 29, 2021
Robin Williams in drag.
Mrs. Doubtfire (1993)
Dec 29, 2021
Since their arrival in Australia, rabbits have spread throughout the country. They have contributed to the decline of many native plants and animals, and may have caused several small mammals to go extinct.
DK The Ecology Book
Dec 29, 2021
Since their introduction to Australia in 1935, cane toads have out-competed native frogs because they reproduce far more quickly.
DK The Ecology Book
Dec 29, 2021
A key figure in the Romanticization of nature was Henry David Thoreau. His Romantic portrayal of the natural world significantly influenced the conservation movement in the US and helped inspire the National Parks system.
DK The Ecology Book
Dec 29, 2021
Cats love Christmas.
Dec 29, 2021
50 years ago shyness was considered an ordinary - indeed, a valued - personality trait; now it has become to be stereotyped as a weakness to be overcome or derided.
IMPROVING SOCIAL CONFIDENCE, Lynne Henderson
Dec 30, 2021
It is reaching point in life you did everything you can, no matter how much you do it is never enough or you are being constantly hurt.
YT Going No Contact 3 Things That DON"T Happen To YOU - Here's What to Expect
That guilt has that much power. What comes up in our body, in our subconscious will always over-ride our conscious mind.
YT Feeling Guilty After Letting Go Of Or Setting Boundaries
Dec 30, 2021
You did the best you could with what you knew at the time. You can only know it is mistake after you did it. No one is like “Let's make a mistake!”. No one does that. Not consciously.
How To Let Go Of Guilt
YT JulienHimself Clips
Dec 30, 2021
There is no way you can make difficult people change and suddenly become sweet and amenable. The only thing to do is to change your own reaction to them.
"How to deal with difficult people", Ursula Markham
Dec 30, 2021
Escape from New York (1981) and Cloverfield (2008) vs Statue of Liberty (1886).
Dec 30, 2021
Plane approaching WTC in Escape from New York (1981).
Dec 30, 2021
Many people have been brought up to think that they have to be polite and not to do or say anything to upset anyone else. That is fine - but not when it means accepting poor manners. There is nothing wrong in expressing what you feel.
"How to deal with difficult people",U.Markham
December 31, 2021
Instructions to fit in, have everybody like you and always be happy!
The Lego Movie (2014)
The same procedure as last year.
-This owns the Guinness Book of Records entry for one single show with the most reruns.
-Banned in Sweden until 1969 due to the massive alcohol consumption.
-Shown on #NYE TV in: Flag of Germany, Flag of Switzerland, Flag of Finland, Flag of Denmark, Flag of Swedenand Flag of Austria.
Don't look so sad,
It's not so bad you know.
It's just another night,
That's all it is, it's not the first,
It's not the worst you know,
We've come through all the rest,
We'll get through this.
We've made mistakes,
But we've made good friends too.
Manilow
When Year 2022 Starts Around the World
- Cities Entering Year 2022
https://timeanddate.com/counters/firstnewyear.html
New Year 2022 arrives in Australia.
Dec 31, 2021
New Year 2022 arrives in New Zealand.
Dec 31, 2021
There's a light, light, in the darkness
of everybody's life.
The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975)
Dec 31, 2021
Don't look for safe harbor among your colleagues, and especially not from your supervisors. You're just too much for them to handle, and they may decide there's "something wrong with you."
The Highly Sensitive Person, Elaine N. Aron
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