Sep 1
Your self worth is determined by getting up, and showing up and doing the thing you are scared to do that you love. That's how you're going to feel worthy, not by the number of albums you sell.
YT Mel Robbins
Sep 1
If they are unreasonable or angry, or defensive towards us, when we express our displeasure, our need, or set limits, this tells us they might not be as reasonable as we wish they were or maybe not as caring toward us as we wish they could be.
YT Dr.Sirota
If we are considerate their reaction is not our fault. If we say confrontation in a polite, kind and respectful manner, then we can be assured that how we delivered the message is not the issue, and how the other person reacted is the issue.
YT Dr.M.Sirota
Sep 1
Subjected to adverse and painful stimulus that they could not escape. Eventually dog tries to avoid stimulus, and behave as if completely helpless to avoid or change situation, even when opportunities to escape were present.
YT What Is Learned Helplessness
Sep 1
After long term exposure to this painful stimulus, dogs accept and believe that there is not anything they can do about it even when it was obvious they can get out.
YT What Is Learned Helplessness
Sep 1
Decision making part of brain is probably misfiring. Making a decision is probably a thing maybe with emotional flashbacks. Emotional flashbacks are warping my perception and they're guiding me in certain directions.
YT Toxic Passivity, RICHARD GRANNON
Sep 1
Put yourself in good state for the sake of being in a good state. If you don't, the general tendency will be a downward spiral, not an upward spiral. So we need to do deliberate things to alter the state.
YT How to Defeat "Toxic Passivity"
Sep 2
You try too hard to understand what's going on, my dear young man, and that's a serious mistake.
Orphée (1950)
Sep 2
Jean Cocteau made Matrix-themed movie, 49 years before Hollywood.
Orpheus, Original title: Orphée (1950)
Sep 3
I've heard on Austrian radio ORF Tirol the new ABBA. I always wondered how they would sound in 21st century.
ABBA - Don't Shut Me Down
Sep 3
-Aren't you an expert in phoenixology? - What is that?
-The art of repeatedly dying to be reborn.
Jean Cocteau, "Testament of Orpheus" (1960)
Sep 3
we are the pawns of an unknown force that lives within us that dictates our actions and compels us to speak this language.
Jean Cocteau, "Testament of Orpheus" (1960)
Sep 3
Without willpower we are cripples.
film Orpheus, Original title: Orphée (1950)
Sep 4
If it is fearful, terrified -it's probably from satan. If it is really embittered, unreasonable deep-seated bitterness - that's from satan. Anything that is contempt, bitterness, deep dread or fear or especially shame - I believe that's satan
HOUR OF POWER
Sep 4
He speaks to people all the time, a lot of people have no idea that God is speaking to them. Train your spiritual ears. What a gift to hear from God when you have a key decision to make in life to be able to hear his spirit and his voice.
HOUR OF POWER
Sep 4
When people are free to do as they please, they usually imitate each other.
Eric Hoffer
Sep 5
Swarm caught on photo.
Sep 5
Vangelis - La petite fille de la mer
Sep 6
Realize people's approval and disapproval is projection and speculation, whatever they say about you is ultimately about them. Stop taking it so damn seriously.
YT JulienHimself Clips
Sep 6
You would not take my opinion seriously because I don't know anything about it.
YT Julien Blanc On Why NOBODY Can Approve Or Disapprove Of You! (Stop Caring What People Think)
Sep 7
Idea, passion execute for a reason, Divine is speaking through me, I am just a channel for inspiration, inspiration does not come from me.
YT THE IMPOSTER SYNDROME | 5 Ways To Silence The Inner Critic
Sep 7
Do the things anyway. Inner critic is yelling and screaming 'quit now, you are loser'. The only way to silence inner critic is action, I cannot negotiate with them, he will win.
YT THE IMPOSTER SYNDROME | 5 Ways To Silence The Inner Critic
Sep 7
Bullies feel bad about you. They think they are in perfect position to pound you out, it is not they suffer from weakness of self image.
YT Self Esteem Is A Myth And Illusion | Jordan Peterson
Sep 7
From young age we are conditioned to feel a sense of lack and limitation. The feeling that whatever we have and are is never enough.
YT Taoism: 5 Teachings That Will Change Your Life
Sep 7
The great nothing – being able to see what's in front of you when you're not busy looking for something else.
YT Taoism: 5 Teachings That Will Change Your Life
Sep 7
Playing on ClassicFM (UK);
Hans Zimmer - S.T.A.Y. (Interstellar Main Theme)
Sep 8
Narcissists touch shame wound if they can activate it. Indirectly blaming you for things that are not your fault. Very closely associated with shame is blame.
YT How Narcissists Awaken Your SHAME Wound To Cause You To Seek Their Approval/Love
Sep 8
Well, they forget that sex is just one small aspect of life. The whole thing is a fantasy. Why, they don't really want this adventure. They've been sold that they're supposed to want it. To them, I'm just... a status symbol.
Boys Night Out (1962)
Sep 9
When people are anxious they are apt to think that, if the worst should happen, there will be nothing they can do to prevent it or make it manageable.
"Overcoming low self-esteem", Melanie Fennel
Sep 9
You take precautions to protect yourself, to stop the worst from happening. The precautions actually prevent you from discovering for real whether your anxious predictions have any true foundation.
"Overcoming low self-esteem", Melanie Fennel
Sep 10
Tendency of narcissistic people to weaponize what they perceive as weaknesses of other people, those things will be exploited, mocked and shamed. Person may get stuck in cycle of trying to please narcissistic person.
YT DoctorRamani
Sep 10
We as humans need constant and healthy emotional support from those around us in large amounts in order to grow and thrive.
YT Why Do You Follow the Narcissist's Breadcrumbs?
Sep 10
Lack of self control, you can't handle yourself. If you aren't able to control impulses, urges, desires, you are at the mercy of your body having these endless impulses that are insatiable, leads to anger, fear, you can't center yourself.
YT Fight SCIENCE
Sep 10
I feel compassion seeing someone upset, I know that they have that emotion suppressed inside, it is like pressure cooker, subconscious mind desperately looking for trigger in outside world to release some of the anger.
YT Rhonda Byrne
Sep 10
Doris Day's character going to cinema watching the Caprice (1967), the movie she is in right now.
Sep 11
90 percent what you say to people is tone. In Spanish if you say like in English tone 'Pasa la sal por favor', it sounds feminine and weird.
HOUR OF POWER
Sep 11
I recognized people are either conscious thinkers or they are running some type of pattern of program that they never questioned and they don't know how to analyze or question their belief system.
YT Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.
Sep 14
The more concretised your persona is, or personality, the more wounds you carry upon yourself
YT The Great Sadhguru
Sep 15
Titanic in 2021.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KdsGPsF2go
Sep 16
It takes courage to say the test is unfair. But perhaps next time you are judged unfairly, it will not take so many bruises for you to protest.
Star Trek TNG S07 E15
Sep 16
It took courage to come here and face me after what I said to you the other day. I was harsh with you, because I wanted to assess you for a very important mission.
Star Trek TNG S07 E15
Sep 17
If they are angry at you, let them be angry, they will try to blame their negative emotion on you, don't let them. If you take responsibility for their emotions they will use that to manipulate you and get you to do whatever they want
YT Psychology Element
Sep 17
Once a narcissist starts to abuse you, they will not stop. If they talk to you like that, refuse to speak back. Narcissists like attention. Even negative attention. They want to have a punching bag by continuing to speak to them.
YT Psychology Element
Sep 17
It is not your job to protect other people feelings. Especially if they mistreat or disrespecting you.
YT When People Get Their Feelings Hurt When We Set Boundaries
Sep 18
"99% of the problems that develop wouldn't develop if people would just tell the whole truth from the beginning."
Sep 18
Locus of control.
Sep 18
As my systems grew in complexity, it was difficult to integrate new pathways into my existing neural net.
I chose to treat the problems I was having as challenges to overcome - Not obstacles to be avoided.
Star Trek TNG - 7x18 - Eye of the Beholder
Sep 19
Social Anxiety - Quick fix tips
"We never know what will happen next."
Sep 25
Implants. Those aren't your memories, they're somebody else's.
Blade Runner (1982)
Sep 25
Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is to be a slave.
Blade Runner (1982)
Sep 25
He encouraged us not to fear supernatural things, such as ghosts, and said they did no harm, but only wandered about because they were lonely and distressed and wanted kindly notice and compassion; and in time we learned not to be afraid
The Mysterious Stranger, Mark Twain
Sep 26
In most cases the man's life is about equally divided between happiness and unhappiness. When this is not the case the unhappiness predominates—always.
The Mysterious Stranger by Mark Twain
Sep 26
Life itself is only a vision, a dream.
Nothing exists; all is a dream. God—man—the world—the sun, the moon, the wilderness of stars—a dream, all a dream; they have no existence. Nothing exists save empty space—and you!
THE MYSTERIOUS STRANGER by Mark Twain
Sep 26
But I have revealed you to yourself and set you free. Dream other dreams, and better!
there is no God, no universe, no human race, no earthly life, no heaven, no hell. It is all a dream—a grotesque and foolish dream. Nothing exists but you. And you are but a thought
Mark Twain
Sep 28
Codependents make great employees. We don't complain, we do more than our share, we do whatever is asked of them, we people please, try to do work perfectly.
YT Codependent No More No. 46
We feel like if I just do this I'm in control of situation, they will not yell at me, if I do all these stuff they will like me. If I do all these things it will be ok, it seems like I am the one who is controlling. We are not.
YT Elizabeth Kupferman
Codepe
Sep 28
We judge parts we don't like. I choose to embrace the parts of myself that I previously did not like, that I have been taught by society to judge and dislike.
YT MJ Harris
Sep 28
It is important to realize these reactions emanate from your body, the big challenge of treating trauma is how do we help people to live in bodies that feel fundamentally safe?
YT Big Think
Sep 29
We were gaslit about what was going on compared to what our feelings were telling us. That I was selfish for having those reactions. I would not trust my intuition.
YT Do You Gaslight Yourself?
We shift from our natural intuition and perception into our trauma due to shame. Being told they are too sensitive as children, later they gaslit themselves to be too much.
YT Patrick Teahan LICSW
Sep 29
Toxic positivity can be bad thing when used as a way to hide from truth, not being authentic, used to repress or deny our feelings, when it is used not to deal with hard core truth about something.
YT Brad Shore, LMFT [Ask A Shrink!]
If they're still complaining and grief stricken and not functioning in life 4 years later, then it's worth saying to them,let's examine this. But initially, it is what it is. Let's look on bright side may not be the most helpful thing to say at that moment
Sep 30
Sometimes honesty can be painful but you also want to be totally straightforward with other people and tell them how you feel.
YT How to be Assertive
Being assertive can be viewed as being aggressive if you're too honest with your feelings and thoughts. When you're very forward and honest, some people view that as being aggression, arrogant of ignorant.
YT carpo719 "The Most Rational Man Alive"
It's important when you're assertive that you don't let others views on things gets you all hung up on maybe they're right. You want to consider their viewpoints but you still have to stick by what you taught yourself and your own values.
YT carpo719
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