Feb 2 2021
Negative voice doesn't want to hurt you, it comes from pain from wound. We want to clean wound, we don't want to stop negative voice, we want to use it as signal to clean this wound.
YT Becoming Great
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Feb 3 2021
You're good at thinking - this is how you build rat wheel. You want to solve uncertainty. Brain gives you another uncertainty. Brain will increase in severity and complexity, that is unable to solve.
YT Mark Freeman
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You have to start by changing how you think about little uncertainties you think every day. Brain is very rational and logical - it spend more time and energy on uncertainties. It never occurred to me this is not the only way to think.
YT Mark Freeman
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Curb the urge to counsel others all the time. Often people who feel compelled to advise and counsel others are needy and insecure. Advising others makes them feel in charge and boosts their self esteem.
YT Insight
Tips to Help You Overcome Codependency
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I am medium and work hands for this mysterious force that inhabits them. My hand serves the mysterious person that lives in me and that I don't know.
Jean Cocteau speaks to the year 2000 (1962)
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When you are adult you have to parent yourself, you will never going to feel like doing things you need to do in order to have what you want. No one is coming to push you, it is up to you.
MEL ROBBINS
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Idiom "pick (one's) brain(s)" means:
To ask one questions in order to obtain detailed information or advice.
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Feb 4 2021
Wanting cooperation - a lot of people minds don't work that way, they don't want cooperate, a lot of people want to hold grudges and be annoyed by other people.
YT Dirk's Life Advice
What gets measured, gets improved.
Track everything. You write down and track everything you want to accomplish, workout session, practicing, weight.
YT Order of Man
Feb 5 2021
When someone says 'Face your fears' they are not understanding you are sensitized, therefore you have a lot of irrational fears. Let's focus on not fighting thoughts and feelings and see if we have any of these fears once you heal.
YT Vacate Fear
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Feb 6 2021
Orson found a perfect location to depict Kafkaesque anxiety on film: Zagreb, Croatia.
The Trial (1962) a film directed by Orson Welles with Anthony Perkins, Romy Schneider. Based on Der Prozeß (1925), a novel by Franz Kafka.
Nelson's (always missed) father appears as a soccer coach solely in The Simpsons Season 4 Episode 14.
Feb 7 2021
'The so-called super flu does not exists.'
Stephen King's THE STAND (1994)
* Trump tried this cover up in real life, one year ago.
Arab Mission to Mars live over You tube.
Feb 10 2021
So they create a simulation of Earth as it had been, and try to hide the truth. However, if he were to spend too much time outside of his house, he would figure out that the world he lives in is a fake.
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 02
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The Subject must disclose all feelings including but not limited to; distress, conflict, complaints, negative thoughts etc regarding hikikomori recovery procedures.
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 02
A man won't be able to change unless he faces reality!
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 03
That space and time and thought aren't the separate things they appear to be?
STAR TREK The Next Generation S1E6
Feb 11 2021
Wash that gray right outta your hair.
Whose life is it anyway?
Everyone carries with them a range of flaws and failings that show up, horribly, on close inspection. You will to a significant extent be ruining the life of anyone you get together with long-term.
Why You'll Never Find the Right Person
Feb 12 2021
Now you're going to be fine. With a little training, you'll be able to get out into that big world out there!
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 05
hikikomori can arise from incompatibility with one's environment. It's a type of mental problem, caused by an inability to function in society. That is why it is important to know how to come to terms with society.
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 05
Feb 13 2021
'The love goddess of the world' created out of nightgowns and publicity releases. You ought to know how fake it is. I'm just an ordinary woman with the same ordinary fears and problems.
film HARLOW (1965)
- Something wrong with her?
- There's something wrong with all of us, sweetheart. Just takes awhile for each of us to find out what it is.
film HARLOW (1965)
They think that other people think they're stupid or look down on them. They just can't help thinking that way. So, the fundamental problem is how to have confidence in yourself.
You just have to regard those around you as being worse than you are!
anime Welcome to the N.H.K!
You just look down on them. But you can never let the other person know about it, because they'll get angry with you. Even you'd be upset if I called you garbage, or told you that you suck, or that you're failure as a human to your face, wouldn't you? So I don't tell you.
(NHK)
Feb 15 2021
YT comment 6 guidelines of life
When you are...
Successful people have said that people who embarrass themselves early on, they go fear and they start acting their self interest. Caring what people thinks this drives to people pleasing. We're attaching our self worth to opinions of others.
Magnus Davies
Feb 16 2021
Nobody makes us watch. Persuasion without coercion. Who could have predicted that a free people would voluntarily spend one fifth of their lives sitting in front of a box with pictures? Fifteen years sitting in prison is punishment.
film LOOKER (1981)
Television can control public opinion more effectively than armies of secret police because television is entirely voluntary. The American government forces our children to attend school. But nobody forces them to watch TV.
film LOOKER (1981)
Feb 17 2021
Totalitarian regimes use shame and humiliation in effort to maintain control over their subject population. Shame exist as social mechanism that regulates people's behavior so they match those of the group.
YT Psycho.Logical
Narcissists shame others because they claim, some even believe they have the right to judge others because of their superior sense of morality and self-righteousness.
They can't win argument on pure logic because they know their intentions are malicious.
When you find yourself being shamed never defend yourself. You'd play right into the shamer's hands. Instead, eliminate toxic shaming people in your life - move out, relocate to another city if you have to. Just keep them away from you.
YT Psycho.Logical
If you can't get rid of them, use shame in language back on them. Call them out and shame them for using shaming language.
Shaming Tactics - Toxic Shame (Dark Psychology)
YT Psycho.Logical
Feb 19 2021
Neuroscientists tell us that you only have about 20 minutes to make an emotional conversation change directions; after that, you and the other person will be locked into a neurologically based pattern that only has the possibility of shifting after a period of separation.
If someone is nasty to me, all your negative impression about yourself become active in that moment. We have to intercept it, start sending blessings to person. It neutralizes negativity you absorbed.How to Deal With Rude People
Radio 538 at 5:38
Feb 20 2021
I'm still thinking that one day, suddenly, an amazing surprise will occur and everything will start going smoothly.
Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 19
I realize it's no good to keep living as I am, but I still want to. The truth is, I already understand what I should do now, and what it would take to make my life go well.
Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 19
Feb 21 2021
I could blame all the bad things on God! And then I could be assured that things aren't my fault.
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 22
Feb 22 2021
Human beings don't want to admit that they're worthless. So they're constantly seeking someone more worthless than themselves. That's also why the Internet is overflowing with insults to others.
Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 23
People who couldn't find anyone more worthless than themselves around brand somebody they've never met a worthless human being, because they want to believe they're better than someone.
Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 23
Don't you think that if, instead, one would just acknowledge that one is a worthless human being, it might make things easier? Let's just admit it.
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 23
Feb 23 2021
You're not bad, not even a little. There are other people who are bad, other people who have made you suffer. So, it means there exists a source of that evil. They're not your fault.
anime Welcome to the N.H.K! - Episode 24
Feb 24 2021
Daytime Moon at 2pm.
Feb 25 2021
We are living in a computer-programmed reality, and the only clue we have to it is when some variable is changed, and some alteration in reality occurs.
Philip K. Dick
Team of physicists at the University of Washington announced that there is a potential test to seen if we actually live in The Lattice. It'd be the first such observation for scientifically hypothesized evidence of intelligent design behind the cosmos.
Snowdrops and daffodils.
People never experience an unchanging inner core, and that their ideas about that core are derived from a quite natural tendency to understand themselves through their desires and attachments.
ENCYCLOPEDIA OF BUDDHISM, Robert Buswell
What we take to be the true inner core of a human being is actually illusory process of constant change.
ENCYCLOPEDIA OF BUDDHISM, Robert Buswell
Toxic people need to survive: your attention, reaction, low self esteem.
Toxic people fear the most: your silence, your indifference.
YT Sun88 Road
'Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.'
Your thoughts lie to you, you shouldn't always believe what you think.
Negative thoughts are not true. We don't always realize this.
YT Authentic Self Growth
Being offensive is an offence.
Be offended VS Choose inner peace
Feb 26 2021
Quick sketch
This is the only dog that doesn't scare him.
"In Lord of the Flies, Golding is conveying the message that humans must have rules, authority and government in order to maintain a safe environment. Left to their own, with freedom from discipline, rules, and governmental regulations, tribal warriors return to animal instincts"
- The shield that protected your world is also weakening it.
- The very thing which has given us this wonderful world is what caused this tragedy.
Star Trek: The Next Generation: Season 1, Episode 17
Your Custodian has controlled you so completely, you've lost even the desire to question it.
Star Trek: The Next Generation: Season 1, Episode 17
Feb 27 2021
- For God's sake, why did that! You know what you did? You just masturbate to all of Paris!
- Not me. Was the faun.
film Nijinsky (1980)
Feb 28 2021
There are things in your destiny that can only happen with the dirt. If you were not buried you so to speak you would never see what is in your seed. You can keep seed on shelf, that is nice, comfortable but that seed would never become what it was created to be.JOEL OSTEEN
Art is a thing that evolves. Art is a thing that gets better over time. It ages like a good wine.
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