Oct 1
Linda Hamilton's twin sister, Leslie Hamilton Gearren, was used as a double in scenes involving two "Sarah Connors", as a mirror image of Linda.
IMDb trivia
Oct 1
Sky Radio (NL) playing Last Christmas by Wham.
Christmas treeMrs. Claus
It might be too soon, and I am not complaining.
https://skyradio.nl
Oct 2
It's in your nature to destroy yourselves.
Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)
Oct 2
In an insane world, it was the sanest choice.
Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)
Oct 3
I love you, Johnnie. But it's not enough, is it?
A Star Is Born (1976)
Oct 3
Anything you have to have in order to be happy, the enemy can use against you.
We can become so consumed in what we want- it can become your idol.
JOEL OSTEEN
Oct 4
Toxic people never run out of stuff to complain about. They don't need to vent or help them. They just need someone to continuously give them attention and listen to them.
YT 5 Reasons Why You Attract Toxic People
Oct 4
Good friend would never be ok with you troubling yourself just to make them happy. They would never be comfortable with a happiness that comes at the cost of their friend's mental health.
YT Psychology Element
Oct 4
Toxic people gravitate towards people that are easy to manipulate and gaslight. And who's easier to manipulate than a perfectionist that starts blaming themselves the second even the tiniest flaw comes to light?
YT 5 Reasons Why You Attract Toxic People
Oct 4
Sincere, loyal people cannot imagine someone they love and care for is manipulating and gaslighting them. So toxic people can do whatever they want to you, and you won't ever doubt them.
YT Psychology Element
Oct 4
"You hate conflict, toxic people love. They want pushover. Relationships are built on trust. If it is always you have to take the blame, toxic people gaslight you and manipulate you into thinking that.
No one is wrong all the time and you feeling guilty all the time is not right"
Oct 5
Goodness is consequence of recognizing that our actions can be destructive to the other people.
When you believe you are fundamentally good person that makes other people around you bad.
YT Why I decided to give up on being a good person
Oct 5
Someone will appeal to person's good side, to idea what appropriate behavior is if you are good person, manipulation is often result: one person trying to impose the ideas what it means to be a good person.
YT Justin Brown
Oct 5
We judge people by ideas of goodness. Dividing the world in good and bad what is at the core of so much violence and bigotry.
YT Justin Brown
Oct 5
I literally have seen while putting a person on the EKG machine taking their blood pressure and looking at their heart how the deep breaths with the eye closing gradually reduces their blood pressure and gradually reduces their heart rate
YT NYC Streets MD
Oct 5
-I want to start over.
-It doesn't work that way. You get one life. And whatever you do with it and whatever's done to you, you gotta face that. You can't pretend it didn't happen.
Murder by Numbers (2002)
Oct 6
This is not your fault, your nervous system is suppose to do this. Your nervous system values safety above else. It's going to take you away from anything that does not feel safe.
YT Lisa Heal Yourself
Oct 6
Complex trauma is ongoing danger. Child adapts to fire, adaptation is healthy thing in coping danger. In complex trauma, your adaptation – lash, run, avoid, in adult life it becomes maladaptive. It hurts you, destroy relationship, hurts other people.
https://youtu.be/CbkDDabyFlc
Oct 6
Too much television. You must learn to rationalize your imagination.
Murder She Said (1961)
Oct 7
Embarrassment stems from hallucination - I think the problem are people who criticize me, while they only mirror what I believe is inside me - that I am inept, stupid, idiot, wrong.
This perception inside is an illusion that must be replaced with Super-ego
Oct 8
We have illusion to control the other person. We call it helping. It is the best way to control us – by thinking we are controlling them. And we are not aware we are doing that to ourselves.
YT Codependent No More No. 47
Oct 9
The Martian government was directed by ten men, the leader of whom was elected by universal suffrage for five years and entitled "Elon." Two houses of Parliament enacted the laws to be administered by the Elon and his cabinet.
book "Mars Project", Dr. Wernher von Braun (1952)
Oct 10
We think we have to make thing happen, there's always something to fix, improving, do better, and then we'll gain approval. It is very freeing realizing you don't have to make all things happen. It is not your job to fix everything.
JOEL OSTEEN
Oct 11
Fear of authenticity. Narcissistic parents view their children as extension of themselves, child is expected to do, think and feel everything that toxic person does, thinks and feels.
6 Irrational Fears Narcissistic Parents Instill That Keep You Stuck
Oct 11
Fear of making someone upset: comes from not being allowed to exercise those healthy behaviour in childhood (being assertive, having boundary, saying no). Toxic relationship instill in you that it is your fault.
YT Michele Lee Nieves Coaching
Oct 11
Every danger loses some of its terror once its causes are understood.
Konrad Lorenz
Oct 12
You'll begin to find evidence that support your belief. Your confirmation bias will make you look for proof of what you have chose to believe.
YT Marisa Peer
Oct 12
'Providence has favored our undertakings'. Stemming from the religious belief that their successes were the result of God's blessing. It's not the government, it's God who is up above watching down and protecting us.
YT The Film Theorists
Oct 12
Our dependency makes slaves out of us, especially if this dependency is a dependency of our self-esteem.
If you need encouragement, praise, pats on the back from everybody, then you make everybody your judge.
Fritz Perls
I believe in being honest, Brewster. No bullshit.
Brewster's Millions (1985)
Oct 13
William Shatner flies to space.
Oct 13
Twin Peaks - Just you
(encore version is in Season 3 Episode 7)
Oct 15
Codependency is the symptom, not the cause. So addressing the codependency doesn't typically result in healthier life. Addressing the cause that motivates codependent behaviors creates the change.
YT What Are Mindsets & How You Really Change Them
Oct 15
Mindset is radio channel. If my body is configured to shame and guilt channel, my mindset will regurgitate that –that's reality, conveying to me in my mind.
Root conclusions are created from strong and powerful reinforcement
YT Happiness After Codependency
Oct 15
Allowing whatever is showing up to be valid, legitimate and real. This is how we start to shift things.
YT From Mindset To Body Belief #2: 3 Steps To Shifting The Body Belief (Thus Shifting The Mindset)
youtube.com
Oct 17
James Bond visits Zagreb in "From Russia with Love" (1963).
Oct 19
Manje se nadati, više prihvaćati, a nikako se samosažalijevati. Svijet naprosto nije projekcijski ekran naših želja i nadanja. Što će biti, to ionako nije do nas, nego do života.
ROBERT TORRE (1965-2021), Express
Oct 19
"Basically we are all creatures who have been programmed from the moment of conception to the present moment. We are PavlovIan creatures who make choices based upon past events. This means we have no “free” choice because the programming is doing the choosing for us."
YT comment
Oct 20
This was back in '80s - this was the big idea that somehow confronting and expressing your anger at the person who hurt you was going to heal you.
YT Worst Advice I Ever Got for Healing CPTSD
Oct 20
Judgment is the first compulsion. Judgments are meanings we attach to experiences. Your brain has a nuclear powered label maker inside of it. We are sticking labels on things and labels are wrong.
YT Mark Freeman
Oct 20
The exhibit undermines our everyday assumptions about what we think to be obvious.
Museum of Contemporary Art, Kanazawa - Japan.
YT GeoBeats Science
Oct 20
Meteor seen above Croatia and Hungary,
October 20, at 6pm.
https://24sata.hr/news/video-snimila-meteor-iznad-cazme-upao-joj-je-u-kadar-dok-je-snimala-video-prepala-se-791431
Oct 21
Descartes' The Dreaming Argument-
I can't know anything about the external world.
Oct 22
Learn to tolerate people's dislike of you, distrusting you, misunderstandings of you, feeling like you're too much.
I encourage you to start aiming to be less cool yourself, instead of being cool – experiment with being warm.
YT Moon + Manifest
Oct 24
There are times to do things, to take step of faith when we don't have the experience. Everything in our logic says this is not right, that is too much, it's not fair.
There are good breaks only connected to doing the right thing when it's hard
JOEL OSTEEN
Oct 24
You could have played it safe - not taking any risk, held onto the hurts but you said 'God I trust you'. Doesn't make sense but I'm going to do it even though I don't understand it. You're going to see extra mile blessings.
JOEL OSTEEN
Oct 25
"How many Kafka's have lived and died without ever sharing their voice with the world; whose voice would have changed it forever. How many people never know who they'll be after they're gone."
YT What Is Kafkaesque? - The 'Philosophy' of Franz Kafka
Oct 25
Humans seem to be able to temporarily accept and appreciate the lie when it suits them.
Do we actually want the truth?
YT Einzelgänger
Oct 25
Shovel Yourself Out of the Sh*t and into the Truth.
Twin Peaks, Season 3
Oct 25
"If you want real control, drop the illusion of control. Let life live you. It does anyway".
Byron Katie
Oct 25
Monroe's decision to go blonde was one she made in an attempt to reinvent herself as a new person before her career even started.
https://cheatsheet.com/entertainment/marilyn-monroe-natural-hair-color.html/
Oct 25
I wait for my brain to turn itself into something powerful, strong, courageous all by itself, and I wait and wait.
No one told me the brain is not in charge for that, the key is in my thoughts, logic and decisions.
https://77ranko.blogspot.com/2021/06/complex-trauma-induce-social-anxiety.html
Oct 26
There is hope for humanity. Israel and Arabs project together Moon landing in 2024. First quarter moon with faceFlag of IsraelFlag of United Arab Emirates
YT Israel to try for Moon landing in 2024, with UAE help
Oct 26
Michael Jackson's film debut in "The Wiz" (1978).
Oct 26
- Home? lnside me? l don't understand.
- Home is a place we all must find, child. lt's not just a place where you eat or sleep. Home is knowing.
Knowing your mind,
knowing your heart,
knowing your courage.
lf we know ourselves, we're always home anywhere.
film THE WIZ (1978)
Oct 27
You need to start to cheer for, support and validate yourself. Period. I realized I spent 40 years criticizing my reflection or ignoring it. So focused on things that they haven't achieved or things they failed at.
MEL ROBBINS
Oct 27
Research out of Harvard, it's recent, they've shown in studies that simply taking a minute in the morning to get intentional about who you're going to be today and how you're going to show up changes your productivity, confidence, how impactful you are.
MEL ROBBINS
Oct 27
The secret to life is how to give yourself the support, the celebration, the validation that you as a human being need. You're waiting for somebody else to come waltzing in and give it to you – which they're not going to.
MEL ROBBINS
Oct 27
People change their behavior when they feel heard, understood and loved.
Oct 27
Brain will focus on bad in order to try to avoid it. What is happening is you are so focused on the bad you end up being blind to positive. You have to be forcing yourself to look at that cup being half full.
YT Teachingmensfashion
Oct 27
One common sign of toxic shame is you won't feel comfortable being yourself. Because you've been ridiculed, ostracized, scarred by nasty bullying, blame shifting.
YT Toxic Shame & Toxic People who Dump it on You | Healing Trauma
Oct 27
Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.
"Psycho-cybernetics" Maxwell Malt
https://youtube.com/watch?v=k3abAWWoHeM
Browsing old maps I realized from where my hometown got this hyphen - in its name.
https://oldmapsonline.org/map/geoportost/BV043906871
Oct 28
It's not your job to like me - it's mine.
What I believe about me is my business.
What you believe about me is yours.
Byron Katie
Oct 28
--My dear, the police are always on the alarmist side.
-But they said this man is really dangerous!
--I'm sure they did. How could they be heroes, if he were harmless?
Saboteur (1942)
Oct 28
Are you frightened, Pat? Is that what makes you so cruel?
Saboteur (1942)
Oct 29
-They're so smart. That's what frightens me.
-Yeah, they're smart, that's because they're ruthless.
It's easy to win when you forget about the rules.
Alfred Hitchcock's "Saboteur" (1942)
Oct 29
My mistake was: I pretended everything was ok when it wasn't. I swallowed a lot of pain. Face it, when you are in relationship with somebody, they will hurt your feelings on occasion.
YT The Biggest Mistakes I've Made as a Recovering People Pleaser
Oct 29
It is amazing that when someone else spouts the nonsense you yourself believe you can readily perceive it as nonsense.
PHILIP K. DICK
Oct 29
Live people ignore the strange and unusual.
Beetlejuice (1988)
Oct 29
Brain injuries can sometimes reveal extraordinary talents in people.
savant syndrome
https://theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/05/eureka-when-a-blow-to-the-head-creates-a-sudden-genius/257282/
Oct 31
It is attitude that we have to develop, realize it is our responsibility. We don't want other people feel wrong. It doesn't mean agree everything they say. Be willing to be peacemaker. Diplomat, arbitrator, mediator, calmer, soother, go between.
V. Osteen
Oct 31
I wasn't put on this earth to straighten everybody out. That doesn't mean we cant have opinion, dislikes that differ. In any difficult conversation we come from place of peacemaker. Intelligent way but not to be done my way. The common goal
VICTORIA OSTEEN
Oct 31
When negative things are blooming in your life, it may seem like they are permanent, like they're going to be there forever, but you have to remind yourself, it is only temporary. This too shall pass.
JOEL OSTEEN
Oct 31
She’s a slip of nothing who materializes from nowhere, a pure unformed girl with no plans or interests of her own.
She begins as a childlike blank slate and builds a persona before our very eyes.
366 Weird movies: 3 WOMEN (1977)
It is this self-authoring of your life that you build up your own sense of being centered and grounded in your values with an external check to make sure it corresponds with the people and contexts of your life.
https://neurosemantics.com/owning-my-own-authority/
Oct 31
Wheel him out quietly. It's best that children don't see him.
Just get out of here.
Not in the kindergarten!
"Treehouse of Horror VI"
