1.1.2021
Don't dream it, be it.
The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975)
As men we're not built to be isolated to be alone. This isn't in our DNA, we're not built to live for ourselves. Elijah Long said it best your natural biological destiny as a man is to look after others. Our purpose is to shift.
Dre Drexler
New Year's treat for French and Saunders fans;
BBC Radio 4: Whatever Happened to Baby Jane Austen?
Dawn French and Jennifer Saunders star in a comedy special by Veep writer David
5.1.2021
Do you want to live life of being coward where your fears and insecurities will dictate everything you do or life of excitement and self discovery where you face your fears head on.
A life without deep pain is life without deep meaning.
Mitch Manly
It was Freud's simple but brilliant insight that our conscience is formed out of the residue of the voices of our parents. Usually we have no clue; We can't draw a distinction between the fierce inner critic and any other part of us.
The School of Life
8.1.2021
They ceaselessly test to see what they can get away with. Whenever they do something wrong tell them in their face and don't be afraid of them. Do not mind reaction they give you. The point is to let them know that you know what they're doing.
Boundaries
Most people approach topics with fun and playful attitude, but vampires search way for negativity. They want to bring everyone down. Constantly negative – spiritual vampires, they suck energy from every situation, bring entire room down.
YT TopThink
Deep down most people are decent. Capacity for cooperation is true superpower. Human beings have evolved to cooperate.
Are humans evil? Rutger Bregman on 'veneer theory'
YT Big Think
Boundaries are not wall around your heart, they are path to self respect. I choose self love and self respect over what you think of me,or possibility of disappointing you. We are not generous and kind to people who are walking all over us.
K Clarkson Show
Build BIG ARMS AT HOME With NO Equipment Tone, Size, and Strength
YT Professor Gains
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRzS2-IG6o8
But I don't really care how bad it hurts
When you broke me first
You broke me first
Tate McRae - you broke me first
Having negative attitude doesn't really accomplish anything. It makes you and people around you more miserable and it ruins whatever experience you are having.
How a negative attitude ruins your life
YT Case of Keshav
9.1.2021
When we panic we are often inclined to act unintelligently and in ways that make things worse. Or overlook things that need to be done. That's why it's essential to keep calm in the face of adversity.
YT Einzelgänger
Earth is spinning faster.
"It could mean a "negative" leap second."
"the planet's rotation varies slightly all the time, driven by variations in atmospheric pressure, winds, ocean currents and the movement of the core"
https://www.space.com/earth-spinning-faster-negative-leap-second.html?utm_source=notification
Some experiences paralyze us with guilt or make us hide in shame. Way to move forward – accepting things as it is.
YT Einzelgänger
Your expectations can contribute to your success.
The Pygmalion Effect: The Psychology of Success
YT TopThink
10.1.2021
When you don't know how to react; React cool and calm in situation. You got to do what you intended to do originally anyway. I'm not disrespecting you, I got stuff to do.
YT MONKMODE
Stumbled upon alternative Christmas movie to "It's a Wonderful Life" (1946), it is less known yet unlike 'Wonderful life', this was Oscar winner & uncomfortably real;
"A Tree Grows in Brooklyn" from 1945.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FMYoKfgAKk&t=3s
11.1.2021
Snow day.
12.1.2021
Cozy winter scenes from '80s horror The Boogens (1981).
All cruelty springs from weakness.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca
13.1.2021
If I get upset that means he was able to control me. If somebody can do something and make me upset, they want to control me.
How to overcome the fear of confrontation
YT Zamiah Eyezayah
The world changes you. Make sure you change it right back.
Self-Confidence
YT Nick Sarracco
14.1.2021
Talk in their terms to see glimpse of what you are talking about.
Your challenge is not ever to be moved from one side to another but remain positive presence, a light showing them a way.
YT Martin Faulks
Your guilt acts preemptively too much, too sensitive, too easily. Catch yourself, there is guilt, what rule did I break? I wasn't calling them names. I just said what I needed.
Dr. Aziz, How To Stop Feeling Guilty After You Speak Up
15.1.2021
I learned to prioritize things that bring me peace. Appreciate small things. Observant, see from multiple perspectives, emotionally connected in my relationships.
Life as a Highly Sensitive Person | Learning to Love My Sensitivity
17.1.2021
If one chose to align one’s self with Angra Mainyu (all-evil), one placed one’s own interests above those of others which inevitably would characterize one’s life as contentious, confused, bitter, envious, and petty.
https://www.ancient.eu/zoroaster/
18.1.2021
Other people change their opinion all the time, you think you go along with what they want, in the end they will change. If you follow majority you will never do anything new, original.
YT Daily Stoic
19.1.2021
Consciousness actually recreated itself or split into pieces to experience itself subjectively. It created humans, planets, galaxies so that it can experience itself from another perspective.
YT Gregg Braden Official
The nature of reality of the universe itself appears to be holographic in nature.
Billy Carson
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QskgCfwYO0g
Then where is harm to be found? In your capacity to see it. Stop doing that and everything will be fine.
Marcus Aurelius
20.1.2021
Every disagreement doesn't have to be the cause for war. Let's listen one another.
JOE BIDEN
The Consciousness Matrix.
The universe is composed of interacting energy fields, some at rest and some in motion. It is, in and of itself, one gigantic hologram of unbelievable complexity.
http://CIA.GOV
https://www.cia.gov/readingroom/docs/CIA-RDP96-00788R001700210016-5.pdf
21.1.2021
It was like falling into a hole. And it keeps getting bigger and bigger and you can't get out. And all of the sudden you're inside and you're the hole. And you're trapped, it's all over or something like that.
Ordinary People (1980)
22.1.2021
Being in relationship with emotionally unstable person you feel like you never know how are they going to act or what will they say next. But that's no way to live.
YT Life Hack Lion
youtu.be/Jl42F3ICJzE
23.1.2021
Objects move in a straight line but within curved geometry. When they fall, objects move straight ahead but the curvature of space-time gives us the impression that these trajectories are deflected.
A new way to visualize General Relativity
youtu.be/wrwgIjBUYVc
Objects seem to attract each other when they are simply following the curved geometry in straight lines. If space-time can bend it is due to the existence of a higher dimension. Time can equally bend and curve.
A new way to visualize General Relativity
https://youtu.be/wrwgIjBUYVc
The object moves in a straight line but the curvature of space-time rotates the orientation of this straight line. As humans we do not perceive the temporal speed of objects. We do not perceive the fact that apple has motion through time.
youtu.be/wrwgIjBUYVc
Arrogance is one of biggest things that messes up the relationship. Just love people. They don't need a judge. There are no perfect people in this world.
HOUR OF POWER
youtu.be/_pEcud9-W7o
24.1.2021
Atmospheric Fireball Explosions worsen in 2020
YT Skywatch Media News
youtu.be/jI8sWWdzpvM
Out of sight means out of mind.
25.1.2021
Don't be rude - sugar coat it.
27.1.2021
In toxic or abusive family, or culture or society, the victims get ashamed relentlessly, which can cause them to internalize that and beat themselves up and feel excessive guilt.
Dealing with Guilt and Shame
YT Ana Psychology
29.1.2021
I'm a model. 'Cause I'm supposed to look like what every... woman wants to look like.
film LIPSTICK (1976)
Trap is based on fantasy that fawn state creates. This fantasy says if I can be perfect enough if I can be ideal enough or if I can be less of myself, no wants, no needs, if I am invisible they will stop harming me.
Trauma bond - this is emotional bond with someone who harms us. We believe by loving them more will stop them from harming us. Antidote is self advocacy.
Oh, you see children? It's not hard to be normal.
film POLYESTER (1981)
'538'
Polyester (1981)
30.1.2021
See this white bird, prisoner of the sky
In his big starry cage
Me, from time to time I feel the same
To this eternal exile
Joe Dassin - L'albatros
31.1.2021
He could leave at any time. If he was more than just a vague ambition, if he was absolutely determined to discover the truth, there's no way we could prevent him. Truman prefers his cell, as you call it.
THE TRUMAN SHOW (1998)
You do not use logic and careful analysis.
You do not hypothesize and test.
'You Are Not So Smart'
Book by David McRaney
